Is it strange having attraction to people who are troubled? (Page 2)

[LegateLanius]

Well, what happens when they are not troubled any longer?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

If your'e really nice and underwhelming then troubled people gives you the power. They're pretty attractive tbh specially for empaths.

[twinkling_starr]

Not at all! but if we observe carefully we will get to know that we mostly get attracted to people who are troubled... so this is something which happens with everyone!

[JoeVilly]

Pretty sure deep down I also feel this way when choosing the girl I want. Something about helping them and being the one they can rely on makes me feel like it builds a stronger bind with them.

[ddaisyyycx]

I don't know i usually warn guys upfront but that's never stopped a lot of them.

[GreedyGiver651]

Define "attraction" and "troubled"

[ghostqueen]

Strange but not uncommon.

[Yesnomaybe85]

No
not at all
It can pay off lol

[myselfandi35]

Not sure. Seems to be a lot of our problem with bad decision making on the right partner lol

[David_Bayer]

It's quite often but it can cause troubles even for you.

[Jorgumander]

Strange maybe. Unusual no.

[bbrad]

No, I think it's human nature to want to help someone

[WhyThough2232]

Nope, I'm the same way, every girl that I like seems to have issues with anxiety or depression.

[Niks3636]

Thats perfectly alright, if you feel for their troubles then you are a human

[winterfox10]

Nah that's just bad boy/girl syndrome

[Anonymous]

More like f**ked up, It honestly just sounds like you are attracted to possibly manipulating them. It's not strange, it's gross. Sexualizing people who are 'troubled' is gross and you sound toxic.

[PrincessPie]

lmao

[Opinion Owner]

Awe, no response huh? What a child.

[Uhhjsshshdh]

That's rather harsh. What if you fall in love with someone, find out that they're troubled; and find their troubled traits attractive as it's a part of what makes them, them?

And moving forward, you find such traits attractive?

[PrincessPie]

Surely you're trolling?

[Opinion Owner]

@Uhhjsshshdh That is literally the grossest thing I've ever heard.

[GracefulCharm]

Isn't your reply toxic? Do you know what psychological projection is?

[Uhhjsshshdh]

So loving your partner for their flaws in a relationship is "gross" "f**ked up" and "toxic"? Okay then. Call me Hitler.

[justabadassgirl]

How is she or he sexualizing

[Caityxxxte]

No because you want to help them

[Titan123]

No I feel like I kinda do that.

[thomas888]

Not really. Good luck trying to "fix" them though.

[Anonymous]

Nah bad boys are hot especially if you're a goody two shoes like me haha

[MiyukiAkiyama]

You probably want them to rely on you and need you

[CarpetDenim]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

That’s completely normal

[Merely]

Um no.

[AM-205]

No! I think that's very thoughtful!

[DiegoO]

Yeah, it's strange.

[Rk7377]

we get emphasized...

[name_is_eric]

Not at all.

[leledolan]

Now why would it be?

[disgustingweebtrash]

No..

[CT_CD]

Yeah

[actuallyjustsomeguy]

Not really

[Revolver_]

Maybe

[moe001]

Sure its interesting!

[levanth]

Yes, you will get in trouble too

[isitreallythough]

God no

[podiyan]

Love for them

[phoenix44]

Nope

[Martelle]

No way

[exeberia5334]

Yeah true

[Bxbyalr]

No its not

[LegendOfGAG]

No not really.

[kaskas19]

I don't think so

[Rasta_420falling]

Nope!

[OmgItsJoe123]

Isn't that sympathy?

[Anonymous]

Yess

[HimanshuD05]

Never, it relaxes

[Bexmiller]

Never

[allenpeter]

No... Idea