Should girls at school be allowed to use the boy's restroom when the girl's bathroom is full?

Question

It is a fact that girls take longer in the restroom then boys do in their bathroom. You always see a line at the girl's restroom. Others have noticed that girls would go into the boy's restroom when they get tired of waiting. Mothers and their daughters will do this.

WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

That seems like it causes more issues than it resolves. In terms of extremes, there the worst case scenario of some kind of sexual assault if a man and woman were alone together. As for more everyday problems, there’s the issue of awkwardness if you encounter the opposite sex in there, or in single-person bathrooms, now the guys are waiting for women —who we’ve just established take a longer time— while they occupy a space that was supposed to be designated for men. I’ve been at bars in these long bathroom lines, and it’s infuriating when like three chicks come piling out of the men’s room we’ve been waiting for, all like “tee-hee, sorryyyyyy!”, but not sorry at all lmao. Like we’re all here because we need to hang a piss pretty urgently, but women not only do that, but they’re primping in the mirror, dicking around with their friends, etc, etc. Like it’s a whole event, as opposed to guys, who are probably in and out in 90 seconds. So why are we waiting around for women, who simply don’t want to wait their turn for their own bathroom? I’m all for chivalry, but for fuck sake, let us at least have a bathroom for ourselves, I don’t think that’s asking too much lmfao.

A better solution is maybe designating more space for women’s restrooms, more stalls, more sinks, etc, to accommodate more people for a longer period of time.

JackSmy · Accepted Answer

The most common thing I hear, is that men's bathrooms are "GROSS" so why would a lady want to, unless she was DESPERATE!! :)
So there isn't enough 'gender' issues, already, and now suggesting this one?
Don't misunderstand, I couldn't care less, if they want to use the men's restroom, but I don't want to hear any BULLSHIT about "he was looking at me" or anything like that!
Yes, use, at your own risk, and don't ever thing of complaining, if you INVADE a 'male' place and assume it should be 'female-friendly' as a 'MEN's Restroom!'

Gillyjollywolly · Accepted Answer

I mean if guys can walk into a girls bathroom when theirs is full. Seriously though. I don't know what people expect goes on in the girls bathroom. It’s literally like five girls looking at themselves in the mirror while another is taking a dump in the stall. We’re not walking around naked comparing boob to see if we’re normal. Meanwhile, guys actually have their dicks out when they use the urinals. If anyone shouldn’t be allowed in a bathroom it should be girls in guy bathrooms cause guys are more exposed than girls are.

mistixs · Accepted Answer

If the guys are comfortable.

But personally, in schools and especially colleges I've never really witnessed lines to the girls' bathroom. Oftentimes I have the bathroom all to myself.

I only witnessed lines at certain public venues, such as a fair that I went to.

MemeSupreme · Accepted Answer

Not really because they're separated for a reason and I've never noticed a line at the girl's restroom. Also I'd never use the boy's restroom even if I were allowed because do you know the rumors that would instantly spread about what I was doing

BethOfWisdom · Answer

It would be based on the relationship between the school's students. Neighborhood schools are more like families than schools where students are bused from all over the city. Girls' ability to step into boys' self-space will be based on the boys' emotional attitude toward girls in general. It is based on how the boy was treated by his mother, sisters, grandmother, aunts, and cousins.

Did the females of the family violate his self-space? Those females who did violate the boy's self-space in the past will have a very negative attitude toward girls outside of the family.

Then you have to deal with this abuse of boys in the past with girls and women that boys do not require privacy. Boys being made to swim naked in front of girls and women was utterly wrong, and it was abused. Then you deal with just as many girls who talk nasty about the boys' genitals. Yes, the boy's locker room stuff was wrong. We saw in the news, but we females do just as much junk talking as they do. We females speak about how others should respect us when we have our periods, but the same rule applies to what goes on inside the boy's pants. We are also talking about same-gender respect. We, females, do not do very well when another girl has her period. Then, the female items in her backpack are none of any other female or male business.

You cannot make a policy unless both sides agree to it. Some girls never need to use the boys' restroom because they are immature and disrespectful and gossip about what they see.

Girls will not be honest with the girl's restroom being full to get an open door to go into the boy's restroom so they can see a boy's genitals. Not only that but what type of girls will be entering the boy's bathroom?

As a female, I know who girls and women are. We are always looking for an open door into other people's self-space. Girls who have brothers, we understand why most girls become our friends: so they can get the same treatment as seeing a female friend's brother in the nude. As a sister to my brothers, I had blocked them from my brothers many times. Then my mother got into it, and the girls were no longer allowed in the family home.

I have been in the boys' restroom or locker room growing up. It was done with my father or brother taking us female children into their areas. We shared a coed locker room on the swimming teams or soccer. There was no problem, for we bonded on the team. We were as a family. My group of friends, which involves boys and girls, said that if we were out together, we would use the same restroom together for safety & security. Most of the time, it was the men's restroom. We made sure it was clear of any other males. One of the boys would stand at the door to let anyone coming in know that a group of boys & girls was sharing the restroom. We never had any issues with it.

The girl's restroom is complete, meaning a girl can enter the boy's restroom, which will not work. Most girls will lie to have an open door to the boy's bathroom. Then how many boys know that girl? Think about your sex and gender in the restroom or locker room, and quickly put up red flags. We have all been there, and I can witness it. There were girls in gym class that I did my best to avoid and could not wait till they left the locker room.

So the answer is no. This would be abusing boys, which would create a wall between male and female relationships. It would add more fuel to the fire of what girls and women have done nasty things to boys in the past.

pasi02 · Answer

They shouldn't be in any circumstance be allowed, since it's just plain creepy and rude. Not only that, but if that was suddenly allowed men would also have to be allowed to use the women's restroom if theirs is full. I don't think a man would be a welcome guest in a woman's restroom, just like women aren't welcome in the men's restroom. I don't know where women got the idea they can just march into other bathrooms with their kids just because theirs is full

Red_Arrow · Answer

I don’t know about at schools, but I have used men’s rooms when women have come in while I was using a urinal. Did not bother me at all. Many years ago my state made it legal for people to use bathrooms for the opposite sex when assisting handicapped users they were with.

updog45 · Answer

No they should not be. Unless boys be allowed to use the womens room. What if all 2 stalls are taken and they have to shit? Can they go in the ladies room? The only place I see lines at the ladies room are bars and concerts because everyone is drinking and their are huge crowds.

nathanp97 · Answer

No, because it wouldn't be okay the other way around. Girls should just learn to be more efficient in the washrooms.

Quidthonian · Answer

No. If that would be allowed, that would create a perfect venue for casual sex. This sets up for a gang of boys doing harm to a lone girl.

However, I have experienced this scenario. It was a popular holiday, and the roads were full. Naturally, at the petrol stations along the road the bathrooms were full. There was a line at the women's bathroom. There security guards in the men's bathroom, giving one cubicle to women.

Mädchen · Answer

No there could be Boys who use the urinal. Many women still do this and I think it's really disrespectful

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I'd opt for 'no'.
Not for gender reasons, but as an educational measure to train up people to 'time-manage' and to coordinate activities among each other in situations where time or space is limited.
With really 'urgent' exceptions of course.

John1972 · Answer

Should boys be allowed to use the girls restroom when the boys is full?

MrHopper · Answer

yeah see no problem really, it happens a lot in adult life any way, quite often i been at a wedding or something and women use the mens

bandito18 · Answer

I don’t think so because it is not safe and it also wouldn’t be fair to the men if they had to use the restroom, but the stalls are occupied more

Dav1ss · Answer

That is very dumb I'm sorry but nothing else to say

FunkyMonkee · Answer

It wouldn't bother me! Seems to me, it's mostly girls that are afraid to be naked around guys, not the other way around.

Browser101 · Answer

We don’t care normally but we just don’t want to be in a compromising position where we could be accused of impropriety...

Lemia · Answer

I mean Would you want daughter or son sharing a restroom with the oppersite gender. You must the the flaw in. your logic

40Ninjas · Answer

No they should have to wait. The girls room is the girls room for a reason. It is for girls only.

NorthwestRider · Answer

We just need to remove girls and boys restrooms all together

Anonymous · Answer

What about the guys peeing at the urinal? I wouldn’t want a woman walking in on that and that’s also the reason why there are lines out the woman’s bathroom, they don’t have enough stalls but we have urinals plus stalls

Danny_dan92 · Answer

If that happened there would be a lot of rape and or fucking in general going on

Reach500 · Answer

No, they can just add extra stalls to the girl's bathroom

Anonymous · Answer

No I don't think they should be allowed too the girls wouldn't like if the guys used their bathroom

Siavash_1990 · Answer

No, absolutely not! Add an extra restroom would be a better solution.

ldonah · Answer

At events, women with children go in men's restroom and backup the line. I'm shut women would not like men on their restrooms.

Nachowedgie · Answer

Nope. Guys can't do the equivalent so girls shouldn't be allowed to either

Anonymous · Answer

NO... don't expect the boys to accommodate girls, just because they are slow.

Juxtapose · Answer

Only if you allow men to do the same.

Rangers · Answer

No, that's damn stupid

alexia18 · Answer

heck no

PrettyRegular · Answer

I think it's ok.

GreenGold1992 · Answer

Never

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