I'm sorry to hear that. Just keep checking on him, and be there if he needs support.♥️
Thanks. I think we can all use some support these days.
You said a mouthful there!! So true!
Very nice, thanks for the mho!
Welcome 🙂 hope all is well!
😊 nice play on word they're 😂
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Sorry to hear about your mom ♥️ and hopefully it's good memories of your girlfriend who passed that you cherish ♥️ sometimes those memories ease the pain a little
You sound like you have a lot that goes through your mind at once. That's how I get sometimes. Art sounds like a good outlet to let some thoughts go. That's great you have that
Sometimes we can't control or even understand where our mind goes
They don't have to go well together. Good people are the ones that are multi-faceted like a jewel. That's how I see myself. Being one way doesn't stick you in just one slot. Actually that's the topic of my next question post gonna be about as soon as I can word it the way I mean it to say lol
# 4 tho lol 😅
😬 its one of my wishes.
Thank you wish me luck 😝😜😜
Do you mind if we can talk offline?
Yeah that's something I don't think you'll ever really get the answer to. Though there are those that say they died for minutes and come back talking about their experience. Whether it's true or not, well 🤷🏼♀️
Exactly it's something we'll never know for sure so I can't stop thinking about it!Talk about irony😂
What do you think you your computer processes when it's turned off. Nothing and that's what/why you will feel nothing because you stop existing. I don't know what is so complicated in this as it seems to be true almost by definition..
@sensible27 sure. So we all just switch off permanently when we die. Great.
Hope things get better for you soon 🤞♥️🤗
Oh yeah that's happened to me before. Good to know happens to someone else. So I'm not crazy lol or we both are 🤪 lmao 😊
Of all things, now it's Duke Ellington's C-Jam Blues from WW2 (I was listening to a documentary), and **click!!**
Lol maybe listen to different song to get that one out of your head lol
Maybe. But I won't listen to "Don't want no short dick man" by "20 Fingers". Don't want that sticking in my head!
😂😂 Right? Although, you don't, right?😂😂
I'm so sorry to hear that. I lost my husband 10/6/2013. And as hard as that was, if something happened to one of my two girls or grandson, I don't know how I'd get through that
Agreed I'm sorry for your loss as well it's not easy honestly if I didn't have my five of their kids I wouldn't even be here
I do understand that. My first daughter was born very premature and given 5% chance of living and that's exactly how I felt about if she were to die.
Yeah ask you posted it many many times when he was sick. That if he goes I go with him but my ten-year-old daughter made me rethink that
Of course she did. She needs you now more than ever.
Sorry. I'm sure you really miss him. 16 years is a long time. So know you were attached. When the pain eases more, do you think you'll get another pet?
dont think so
Well hope you feel better soon
I must go on
After my beloved dog died, I dreamed of her for many years. Sometimes she would come to my bedside and it was such a vivid experience. Although it's been over 20-years, I still dream of her now and then. It's not as frequently or vividly as before.
@David92506 Sorry to hear that. I know how attached people get to their pets. My younger daughter has two cats she treats like her babies, she don't have kids and don't think plans to. But swear she show more love to then cats then to me 😕 lol
Must of been good 😊 lol
Well, it was certainly better than masturbation :p
I know how that is thinking about something or someone and can't get it or them out of your mind
It's really hard to control too 😩
Sorry. This lockdown probably don't help that
Omg right? Although mine is playing multiples at once
Be honest mine is a friend I've known for a long time , she is married but I cannot get her out of my head. On average I see her in the office 3or4times a week. It's got that bad I've dreamt about her...
You can't help what you dream about. But you don't act on it? It'd be different if she wasn't married but she is. And even if not happily, those things never end well for anyone
Oh I know, I had a crush on her before she got married. We still use to trade and flirt then. And I was so happy to see her get married, she looked even more great in her wedding dress. It was a great day...
I'm sure it sucks to have feelings for someone"off limits" . Maybe if you find someone that you could be into that is into you, just not married lol
No, been married twice. I have a girlfriend this is just having fun with an old friend. She is as bad as me...
Some mistakes we learn from if we don't repeat them. And we're all human. We all make mistakes ♥️🤗
That's correct, I'm never going to repeat the same mistakes.
That's great. Then see, look at it as more a life learning lesson 🤗🤗
Yes, it'll help me to prevent someone doing the same mistakes, too.
Even better. Although unfortunately, some people can seem to only learn from their own mistakes 🤷🏼♀️
I hope you can have pizza soon. Or couldn't you make a homemade pizza?
Can't find cheese, the supermarket is out of stock
Oh that's a bummer
Did you finally stop thinking about him? I know it can be hard
Yes I did. It was hard.
You'll find someone better. Stay safe ♥️
There's more to life then what's going on now or society. That's not what I meant. For me even though it's been 6 years, it's still hard to not think of my husband. Even if not consciously, we can't already control our dreams.
@Brainsbeforebeauty News was just an example, sorry that I didn't use a better example. I cared for my father for 5 years, after he suffered several strokes, then developed cancer, and I gave up everything through that. A good career a girlfriend, and several close friends. I started over after he passed. But, that is all past. For me, it has been more than 10 years. It gets better with time, understanding, and accepting things you cannot change. Accepting that you did what you could, as well as you could then. Hindsight is always better, and you can always think of something else you "could have done" or "should have done". I came to a point when I could leave it be, and accept.by the way, some can actually control dreams, and I am often aware that I am dreaming, and I can change the course of dreams, read things, and tell time in dreams. It takes time, and focus.
I used to be good at resolving issues, but some things in life can't be resolved.
Yea its seems life always offers us more difficult riddles the more we get better at solving
Well said my friend 🤷🏼♀️
Understandable... Do you have a single older brother?😅😂 just kidding lol 🙂
lol i wish.. i was an only child.
Damn lol. 😁😂
Still sweet to hear tho 😊
Hopefully more cuddles. And if suicidal thoughts, you should call someone to talk to St those times or get help from someone. That's never the answer.
Don't worry, cuddles is more on my mind now than suicide is.
Glad to hear that. But if that changes, you "will" call someone or seek help right? Pinky promise?
I swear. ... And I dunno how to do a pinkie promise through a computer.
Lol thought a lot might answer that but you are the second and the first replied just before you lol funny 🤞
That was supposed to be 😅
Looks like I was the first since I said it over 3 hours ago but was surprised everyone didn’t say it
Oh then sorry You get the 🏆😁 lol
It’s like Steve Harvey all over again, lol
Lol after I hit submit, the thought crossed my mind, how many would say s*x😂😂
Follow my lead spend Sunday naked nude. 😍
Well as I'm currently sitting in front of my big picture window with curtains open, that might not be such a good idea 🤔😂😂
My blind's are open with the widow's open two and my bed is a foot and half from my window. And I'm sitting naked nude on my bed. 😍
I'm sure more people in my neighborhood walk past my living room then people walking by your bedroom window lol 🤔
It's fine if they do see when they walked by.😍
Least you didn't say s*x 😂 oh wait, apparently that's me 🙄😂😂
Sorry about the truck😭I would be upset too if that happens to me
@Meropatrick , i sure hope it don't happen to you... it sucked hard, i'd just got all the power windows working... had a wonderful muffler on it... i'd replaced the front leaf springs, all the bushings on the suspension, new shocks... new steering gear... new alternator... yet a work in progress
@Brainsbeforebeauty, that's right, that's you... i ain't into that kinda stuff yet... eeeeeew
Oh my... this also did cost a lot apparently:/ wish u safe rides next times
@LEADFOOTboi eeeeeew? What are you really a girl 🤔😂😂Seriously tho, know how you feel bout your truck. My Durango got totalled just four months after hubby died. Sometimes when it rains, it pours. And sometimes there's just a fucking shitstorm
Sorry. If you ever need an ear, I have2 that still kinda work lol 😊
It's ok, thank you. If I was to talk to you about that LOL it would be better on the phone because there is way too much to type :-D
I understand. Not much of a texter myself
Sometimes it's the thoughts I can't shut off that keep me from sleeping
Yeah that's a hard one. Even if forgive it's really hard t to forget.
I have those thoughts sometimes too
goood lawwwd, have mercy
Hopefully, it'll happen for you. But that's something else that don't work by ldr or sexting/phone sex
My ldr was long ago... you say it like its my life
@Brainsbeforebeauty, you would say that... XD
No, but had it been a not ldr you may have found someone where you live and already have been a mom.
I did the ldr because the ones here where i live only WANT you to be their baby mama. If i wanna be a mom without commitment then incan do invitro. I dont wanna just have sex and get preggers. Too many fckboys here. Not all are but the ones who physically appeal to me turn out to be. And im not gonna lower my standards and get some unattractive dude just cause i want a kid. He ruins my kids chances of being cute 🤷♀️ I tried tonfind a guy at church but even they wanna just get laid. So that ldr was my way of taking a break from in person. Never did i Think things would get pushed back and he’d fail college and change his mind about us last minute. But whatever its in the past now. It was a good experience for the most part and he made me more independent in life 🤷♀️
I do hope it works out for you ♥️
@LEADFOOTboi Would say what?
@Brainsbeforebeauty, because mom was right about you and so was GaG... see, this post went to sex at some point... go ahead, GaG, put it in sexuality...
@LEADFOOTboi 😂😂 Umm she did mention wanting a baby, and you do know how babies are made, right 🤪😂 the stork really doesn't bring them 😂😂😂
i know how babies are made... by kissing... then she gets pregent... then he hets infected with cooties... pffffff stork...
@LEADFOOTboi 😂😂😂 Are you still in grade school running away from the girls on the playground so as not to get girl cooties 😂😂
i don't run... i just curve em as they come... i gotta find one worth getting infected with cooties over
@LEADFOOTboi Lol you're funny. You more worried bout girl cooties then the Corona virus😂😂
@Brainsbeforebeauty, cooties is deadly to mens of any age... i got a case once... i almost died
@LEADFOOTboi 😂😂 Well glad you're still with us 😊
@Brainsbeforebeauty, why thankyou... Q w Q it's touching to know someone cares...
@LEADFOOTboi Well yeah, who's gonna lead the TP raids if you gone 😁😊
you're right... i'm needed in this world... imma hit Stargayle's place next
@LEADFOOTboi I'll gladly pay you Tuesday for some TP today 😊😂😂
@Brainsbeforebeauty, who are you gonna rob to get the money?
@LEADFOOTboi Noone I'll just disappear before Tuesday 🙃😊
@Brainsbeforebeauty ohhhhh... this is the joke my friend was telling me and i didn't get it... weeeeeeeelll... you probly deserve some TP tho for all your cares and efforts...
@LEADFOOTboi. aww gee really 😁 thanks 😊 lol
yes... now stargayle will suffer in your stead... imma have to hit danea's place to get her more later
@LEADFOOTboi lol how bout I just sell you a roll? Lol or if you stop saying girls have cooties, hell I'll list give you a roll. Keep you from raiding lmao
@Brainsbeforebeauty nope... girls are cootie producers... this is factual nomatter what google says, i don't even know if Stargayle has TP anymore, so calm down... if nothing else lexi has some
Yeah life can give us lots to think about. That's for sure
That sucks. Hopefully soon
Yeah i hope so😫
🤔 yep see didn't even have to give that one any thought 😂😂😂
Lol I saw your user name and already just knew your answer 😁Well thought it'd day money and s*x, but close enough 😂😂
Dangerously close enough indeed :)Can't blame either of us. It is what it is. Haha!:D
An I that smart 🤔 or is that been your answer to every Question 🤔Both! 😊😂😂
i used to fear a little, that when I becomes rich, that women will start targeting me, so that they can turn into mothers (because it's "traditional"). So I stayed kinda low.But that fear is no more since some years now. It seems women won't even be wanting me even if I am loaded unless I am hiring those sex masseuses 😂 Better than those, who want to be (stay at home) mothers.Ahh. such a reversal of things.
Why don't you just find a woman who don't want kids. Not ever woman wants to be a mother.
Much easier said than done. When I said "It seems women won't even be wanting me even if I am loaded" it literally means that. But on the bright side that also means, that women are not gold diggers, so that's a huge relief and a good thing :)What was I thinking over 3-4 years ago. That was until I met women with higher education, their own automobile, them telling me how theyve gone on vacations outside the country, they're owning iphones etc... and they don't have those by these being handed to them by a rich lover. On another point, they have been living with their parents, so it makes sense why they're more successful than I am at this time (they're younger than me BTW). 🤔🤔🤔
Becoming a doctor would be great.
Is there someone you can talk to? Or an activity to take your mind off it. Although know that always help. Sometimes it's why I don't sleep well. Think too much in my mind doesn't shut off, and interrupts my sleep
I cry my balls out. It’s hard trying to convince myself that it will all be fine. I guess I don’t exepect anything you know. whatever happens , happens.
Oh I've cried a lot over the years. If you ever need an ear, I have two. They're old but still somewhat in working order 😁😊
Thank you. I just hope that I never drown in my tears
Wear a life vest? 😂 Just kidding lol sometimes it's good to cry. But once you let it out, try finding something else you could maybe do. Upbeat music? People keep saying coloring is a good stress reliever.
Nowhere at the moment
😂 I don't know but I'll find a place
Better be somewhere you can drive too. Lol
Yes there is plenty of places. I might go to the Caribbean.
Ooohh that sounds good
I'm sure they already are even if they don't say it
Anything else? Or just sex lol
Well, the election, I guess. But that's partly the media's fault.
Usually is lol
Awww♥️ someday you'll be saying wife 😊
*Giggle* I already do! (A nickname, for now!)
Lol that's sweet 😊
You get the 🏆 for the first to say it 😂 hit submit on this and thought everyone would be saying that lol the closest was being naked all day lol. Guess I'm not the only sexual deviant 😂😂😂
Can't help it 😋
Lol least you honest with it 😊
Sorry sir that is second place trophy. He actually said it first but saw your answer first 😂😂
Who's stalking you?
It used to be a female student at university who seemed to have a crush on me.
Yeah stalking not cool. And can get scary depending how far they take it. I had a guy stalk me once. It was an experience I wouldn't want to repeat
Well thanks, now I'll be thinking about that lol I have been thinking of making homemade brownies but do I want to be stuck in house alone, with a whole pan of brownies. Not a good idea lol 😁
Thanks lol even if not true 😂😂
I hear you! Same here. Sometimes, too many that feel like hear will just explode and there'll be 'brains" everywhere lol