Is it embarrassing not having a driver license at age 22?

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BazookaTrouper · Accepted Answer

It depends on your living situation. Learn not to care what other people think of you or what you're doing, and think about whether or not you need it.

I got my license at the age of 21 instead of 18 like my peers because it took a long time for my parents to accept that I had a stigmatism in my left eye that I would need glasses for. After that was taken care of I took practice driving more seriously after I realized I was sick and tired of being dependent on my parents (or even other people) to get from point A to point B. My parents sometimes didn't care if I got to class or work on time, my dad would bitch about whatever life decision I made he didn't agree with, and in my opinion my mother has a bad taste in music. After buying a SUV I liked on Craigslist with the money I made at my 7-3 retail job (and fixing it up) I now shuttle myself to places I need or want to go, and I'm glad I went through the ordeal.

In short, you don't need to feel embarrassed. I hate driving, never saw appeal to it before I began driving, and didn't care that my peers were driving before me. I may have felt mildly envious of them, but not enough to push me to go through the ordeal of practice driving and taking the test. But eventually I realized how inconvenient and limiting not having a license or vehicle was, and I wouldn't want to go back to relying on other people now that I'm self sufficient in that specific regard.

Reaperbot666 · Accepted Answer

never got mine and I am 35 since I never had much reason to get it. but I have known how to drive since I was 15 however. car payments and car insurance can be pricy in many cases also. since I can walk or bike back and forth most days without much issue. helps me to stay in decent shape also due to it being roughly 2.5 miles each way or roughly 5 miles total 4, 5 or 6 days a week. also have some rather dependable local transportation options if need be. I live in a smaller cities however.

Paolaa988 · Accepted Answer

Omg you stole my words.. i feel embarrassed too i dont have mine yet but its because the car has to be fixed and due to the covid i dont have much money to learn. Financially its hard to get my license right now. I hope by 2021 i can have mine. I just turned 22 but my grandma never drove in her life so i try to look at the bright side that at least i am not putting a lot of money out for a car right now and the dangers of the road yet.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

Depends where you live like in a big city I see no use for having a license since there is other means of getting around. If you live in a small town and depend on someone else to drive you then yeah that's pathetic to be 22 without a license. I got mine at 19 and I felt so behind not learning till then.

BCA6010 · Answer

It's not uncommon especially for people who live in large cities with extensive mass transit systems in place, or are just walking distance to everything they really need.

When I was in the Army, we frequently had to get new soldiers from inner cities a driver's license before they could be trained to drive any army vehicles. They were usually from the northeast.

PeteyB · Answer

Got mine at 25
It was irrational fear brought on by familial fears after a few car accidents
It is so liberating

If you need any tips or anything just message me.

I cannot even begin to describe it. I got my license 11 months ago. It has changed my life

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

I'd say maybe limiting depending on where you live, but not embarrassing.

I didn't have my license until around 19 and didn't have a car until 20.

If anything, it's responsible on a climate standpoint. XD

But also, no biggie. If you're happy with your lifestyle, that's all that matters.

Guy0nGaG · Answer

I'm 21 and don't have mine, and I'll be 22 before I get it because COVID has my local SoS locked down still. The main reason I never got mine is that I suffer from severe social anxiety. I've been to the SoS a couple of times over the years to take my permit test but would have a panic attack. Also, money is an issue, I can't afford my own car and I work from home so the only times I would need a car is to go to the store and the gym (which is also closed from COVID).

Anonymous · Answer

No these days it can be classed as privilege.
As in UK it is SOOOOO expensive to get one I'm speaking thousands.
And when you get one it is 3-5k for insurance in first 2 years in your age group, for something not worth that amount of money or not even powerful enough to do anything...

Anonymous · Answer

Only if you're embarrassed by it. Personally, I couldn't care less if someone drives or not. It's better for the environment if you don't, better for your health to walk or bike, and less expensive, as well. If you don't need a driver's license, it would just be a foolish waste to get one.

walt0462 · Answer

This would depend on weather or not you live in a city like NYC where there is reliable public transportation or not... where there's no Urgent need to obtain a driver's license there's nothing to be embarrassed about!
If you are 22 or older and don't have ready access to a vehicle is and wish to obtain your driver's license then find yourself an adult driver's training achool that will train you in both city and highway driving this

IHateBeingaMan · Answer

not unusual for many people to be late into adulthood and still don't have a drivers license, i'd say the 2 most common reasons, are unable to afford a car and the insurance required, and having a medial condition, vision problems, etc.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

That's actually pretty common in New York, some big old cities with narrow roads specially old cities in Europe. It's because the parking fee's are so expensive there, people just take the train/buss also because their public transportation is so convenient.

SCDivinitySoul · Answer

I am 25 and I still don't have my. When ever I do start thinking about driving, I have nightmares of me crashing to my death many times, like it haunts me everytime.

tireduck · Answer

I mean I’m 21 with no driving license. However, it how much you bother yourself thinking bout it that’s how much it can impact how you feel. Though I feel you shouldn’t unless your just not tryin unless you don’t need one.

AmandaYVR · Answer

Don't worry about that, but it is a life skill and I strongly advise getting it done as soon as possible. The longer you wait, the harder it will become.

Squirts93 · Answer

Yes. Even if you dont drive you should still have one to know the rules of the road, a state photo id, and be an organ doner. Get your shit together and get one before people assume you're a retard.

dac91 · Answer

No to each their own  each person is at their own level in life and they can take their time or take as long as they need or want

GingerGuy · Answer

I know older that don't have it. Even double your age. For some, they simply don't care for one or need it. Not a big deal. And it's expensive to drive. Some can't afford to.

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

Not at all. You take it in your own time. If you want one that is. I remember from my driver's license theory course, that I saw people of all ages. Even old timers.

MysticDevice · Answer

No, not at all. A license is more of a necessity unless you have reliable people to drive you.

Reivel · Answer

Dont worry i got my driver license when i was 25 😅

Commander_Red · Answer

I'm almost 26 and I don't have a license. I think depending where you live, it's convenient, but it's not a requirement, and honestly, vehicles are expensive as hell. Luckily, I moved to a country where having a car is actually not preferable.

art84 · Answer

No it's not, not everyone is able to get a drivers license at that age. Some it takes longer than others.

Butterflyy88 · Answer

Not at all, I think there are many 22 year olds who don't. (I'm in my 20s and don't).

Anonymous · Answer

A bit embarrassing but I have a good excuse for it, at the end of my lessons I had to leave my home town, because I got admission for medicine so I didn't get time to get the license... And after I complete my degree I'll definitely get the license!

fall_angel-86 · Answer

I didn't get mine until I was 28 and only got it out of necessity. So ko its not embarrassing its your choice

Dinklex3 · Answer

Nah. I didn't get mine until I was 25. I was used to just walking everywhere and taking the bus.  Once I moved i needed one though.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Not at all... the cost kept me away before now it is medical exemption

OlderThanILook · Answer

Not if you don't need one. I went to school in a city with no parking, so it was actually kind of weird for kids to have cars in the first place.

Kuressento · Answer

Not really; in a dense city, it can be a hassle having a large vehicle. The only exception is two wheels.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I dont even have mine. I hate driving. Being able to drive for Emergency purposes is enough for me

RHK36 · Answer

Depends on where you live and what's your situation. If you live somewhere that requires driving and have been lazy about getting said license then yes that's embarrassing.

clampfan101 · Answer

I don’t have one yet at age 32. We all have difficulties and setbacks.

Celtero · Answer

It's only embarrassing if you're embarrassed by it.

Geckoman · Answer

No, I didn't get my license till I was 27; I just never wanted to.

VianneRoscher · Answer

I guess that depends where you're from. Most women in my country never get to have a driver license.

DeeToPlay · Answer

You would have to ask that of the 22 year old old new driver but I see nothing embarrassing about that.

Alyssa11 · Answer

I don't think so. I know a lot of people at that age (and over) who don't.

Alcoholic1992 · Answer

No, having a driver's license is not a requirement in life.

jshm2 · Answer

Nope. My grandfather never drove or got a licence all his life and he was in his 80's

glock33sig357 · Answer

No! I know of individuals who never gotten a driver's license but own multiple vehicles and never once felt embarrassed.

Physics-Man · Answer

I'm 30 and still don't have one. I just don't need it, and it would be an unnecessary expense in my situation.

codyccc · Answer

Its embarrassing not to have your driver license at 16 years and 1 day old at 22 i would assume you have a sever problem

Tim-loves-it · Answer

No.. Either they dont want to drive.. maybe dont have the resources to drive.. or live in say.. NYC where you dont have to drive, take the subway, taxi or bus!

Dave31989 · Answer

i didn't get mine until 18. I hated it. But, I've learned to love it I felt more comfortable taking it, from a class taught by cops

TallAnon · Answer

I've not used my drivers license in like 4 years, if you live in the city you really don't need that.

jasco · Answer

i seen and known older but honestly you should get one

AmeerX · Answer

Not really but learn to drive soon or you might have a hard time learning it

MartinGoulet · Answer

I still don't have a driver license and I am 46 now. It does not embarrass me because I simply don't need it.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Navar ve emzbarrased about the Old Ways. Ve proud felagi fighter

SHREYASH007 · Answer

license is secondary getting a car is primary... think like a boss , you can always hire a driver.

lsjr16 · Answer

Not really it depends where you live. I got my license at 26

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

No, its your choice when and if you get one.

Anonymous · Answer

No , it's absolutely okay... everyone is different.

ProLife · Answer

Yes embarrassing and lazy

JosyJosy · Answer

No if you don't need it, why get it anyway

Iron_Man · Answer

No but you need to get on it soon

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

i'd be embarrassed...

IlluminatiExposed0 · Answer

Embarrassing? No. Inconvenient? Probably, yes.

scooogy · Answer

Yeah, especially if it drives you crazy :P

shanshu · Answer

I've never had a drivers license

TheAfrikan · Answer

It does not embarass.

scott04sa22 · Answer

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