
@coachTanthony and @Cynicaldreamer for listening when I really needed that... Thanks guys!
I'd say you helped keep me sane, but I'm already insane in the membrane 🤪





I’d say it was September ‘19 when I met face to face with the owner of the last company I worked for. I confronted him about the two straight years of unpaid bonuses of $5,000 each that I had earned (but wasn’t worth the extra 40-60 hours per week I was working, plus conditions that made success or any hope of reasonable working conditions impossible), and he kind of shrugged it off and said he’d “look into it” (never heard about it again).
He also asked me for a rundown of our operations for the entire region of New England that I was managing for over 5 years, and working there for 8 years total. He basically asked me a yes or no answer about an extremely nuanced logistics issue, which I began to explain. He rudely interrupted and told me again he wanted a black or white answer, and I was just like “it’s not so simple that I can do that...”, and he turns to his Director of National Accounts and says “I’m gonna slap this kid...” So if you know anything about me, it should be no surprise that I jumped out of my seat and almost over the table at him and said “you’re gonna do WHAT, bro?”😂 The Accounts Director grabbed me up and pulled me back, lmao. I sat back down but I told the dude straight up that it’s not going to go well for him if he ever talks to me like that again. Pretty much assumed I’d be fired then and there, surprisingly I wasn’t. One of my best friends had just left as our general manager, and he said the owner talked to him that afternoon and “liked my fire”, and “how can we harness it?”🤦♂️ But this is the same asshole who demanded I still work remotely the week my mother died and even wanted me doing stuff the day of her funeral. So I had no love for this guy to start with. Especially when I was working 100 hour weeks and working a full day in New York and full day (night) in Boston on the same day, two days in a row, every week, all to cover a labor job that was so unattractive that we couldn’t give it away to the most desperate of people, because he’s too cheap to pay a decent wage.
Then in our conversation he showed he clearly wasn’t serious about making the monetary investment and changes needed to operate a functional business, he just wanted to abuse us while we held the operation together with thumbtacks and Elmer’s glue. I told him straight up that the problem is we don’t have enough trucks, we don’t have enough drivers, we don’t have enough employees, we don’t have enough or consistent inventory to even meet the absolute MINIMUM standards of our chain supermarkets and department stores, who are the ones setting the standards. Walmart? Target? Ever hear of them?😂 And I’m the one getting my ass chewed out when we fail. So I just told this guy the truth, and he wasn’t interested in hearing it. Like he’s basically telling me to manage the customers’ expectations rather than meet them, and that’s just bad business, and I’m embarrassed to have my name and face attached to that.
So that day I knew I wasn’t going to be long for that company. I’m usually Mr. High Road, but my friend assured me he’d always give me a bang-up reference, and I know from other terminations that this owner HATES having to pay into unemployment and does shady shit to avoid it. So I said “this time I’m taking the low road, because FUCK THIS GUY.” So I coasted the next 9 months, doing jusssssttttt enough to keep getting paid and not give him the out of firing me for gross misconduct. And then I ended up finally getting fired in June, at the most profitable time to collect unemployment, at a time when I have very little overhead costs, and I’m STILL coastin’😎 That’s how the fuck I roll, chief. And he lost one of his best employees , so that’s what happens🤷♂️ And I still have friends there, and they say it’s gotten SO MUCH worse now that I’m gone. Those are my favorite texts to get these days😂
Yeah they don't sometimes realize how valuable the employee is until they're gone.
Better you got out of there when you did
Legitimately, the 2020 US election. We had CLEAR AND OBVIOUS Election Fraud that they probably openly admitted to in TIME Magazine and almost no one gives a shit.
This is legitimately a nationwide riot-able offense, and we get almost nothing. Only a few dozen boomers on January 6th, 2021 who stole AOC's shoes and a congress podium (assuming it wasn't orchestrated by ANTIFA, which there is evidence it was). It mean, this is literal world-ending news and people would rather bitch about the newest Star Wars news than corporations throwing out votes, destroying Democracy, and giving the world to the fucking CHINESE COMMUNIST PARTY of a fucking silver platter! People will riot over some truly retarded shit like some criminal *potentially* accidentally getting killed by a cop, but not at literal fucking treason and overthrowing the US government so you can make Chinese bucks and sell out your country while doing it because "Orange Man Bad."
We got social media companies censoring and banning the US President and people then want to act like these fucking traitors still have the American people's best interests in mind and aren't going to fuck you over to China.
The level of apathy and acceptance at this election, with this incompetent old fart in the White House, is staggering. I feel like we've gone beyond Clown World now. That election steal, and the following months of pure acceptance from America of it, was enough to break me. I'm fucking done. I'm done trying to defend my country, short of anything that isn't World War III against China. Who no longer have to fear the US since they now own their greatest threat.
I'm serious when I say that was enough for me to bow out of fighting the good fight. America is fucked, and half the country are celebrating it. You deserve to be Chinese slaves for that. Maybe patriots will pull your asses out of the fire, but I doubt it. And I doubt I will be one of them, now.
I’m honestly right there with you. It’s quite sad to see the state of our country. The old people fucked us and the younger people are doomed from their brainwashing. The best thing for you to do now is to get your own land and move out of the cities. These people have no idea what’s coming for them. And it’s sad to see all of this.
I'm so done with diets... tomorrow a diet starts.😅😆
I'm so done with working this hard...
3am.. just 5 more minutes until I complete this load of work haha.
I'm never drinking again...1 shot, 2 shot, 20 shots later...🥴😜🥳🤯🤩😎😴😴😴
I'm so done with guys... 🙄😑😣😯🤐
Guy I am obsessed with 😍: Hey beautiful wanna run away and do something reckless. Get ready baby, we are going on a life long adventure. We could build a life together.
Me: Hell yeah I am on my way hahaha
Take me now you beautiful beast , have my babies ahaha
I am so done with spending unnecessarily...
5 purchasers later🤦🏻♀️
Oh wow... does these sexy heels really need to look this good 😍
I'm so done with people. I hate people.
That was a wild statement and a wild 5 minutes... i cannot stay angry with anyone for long.
🤣🤣🤣 love this answer... Lololol thank you. Much needed laugh... 💛
I had a childhood friend I was trying to reconnect with since I moved back home and every time we hang out and get to drinking it never ends well I realize she might be a drunk and angry one. So I kind of just left it alone. The I’m done moment is when she she yelled at me for no reason and had to sleep in the car I couldn’t drive home.
Yeah that's no good
Thank you 😊 I’m working on personal boundaries right now
Good luck with that 🙏🏼💛
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Tuesday. It was my first day back to work. I had been off 4 weeks to heal from (left foot) 4 metatarsal breaks from a fall at work. Well i was 15 minutes from being off for the day and i slipped and fell again. This time dislocating the other (right foot) foots ankle and fracturing my fibula. 😠
To make matters worse they said i need surgery and there are some pre-op appts. I need to make first. So it's been a logistical nightmare 4 appts. In 5 days. I can't really walk. And the splint they put my left leg is such that it goes past my knee. So it's locked straight (i can't bend it) so i can't get in my car. Or anyone elses car i know. So i tried arranging transportation through workmans comp. And they sent me a fusion the first day. And then a prius the next day. First day i was relegated to riding in my sistets truck bed. Which i was fine with. But is illegal here. The second day after the lady left to get a bigger vehicle she just never came back it was a Saturday so no one was in the office to call about it. The silly thing i think is that appt. Was to get a covid test. Apparently. The surgeon can refuse the surgery if i don't have test. Regardless of the fact that i've been to the hospital twice now. And had my first covid shot 2 weeks ago.
I'm not in any pain really i guess i should look at that as the silver lining.
Omg sorry to hear that. Hope you get better soon 💛
Hmm Jan 2020
i had split with my the girlfriend just before new year and then first week in January my dad died.
I was not really in a good place, so much so that before I got home my friends and emptied my gun cabinet lol.
so yeah lol fun fucking 2020
So sorry to hear that 🙏🏼
That’s, shit does happen at times, you just have to remember the ones you love in life
That's true
That’s = thanks, shit typing lol
No worries lol I do it all the time myself 🙈 lolol
I never had the "I'm done" thing. I just take a break. Might be for quite a while. But I'm never done. Not as long as this heart can beat and blood runs through my veins. I am gonna remain someone's worst nightmare. Sharks don't sleep. They just rest.
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I had a couple of video games that I rage quit 😂 I'm done, it's not possible to do 😂 but I think honestly it happened at work when I tried to sort through papers. I needed 20 copies of 35 pages each. i assumed the printer would print them in order but... it printed them out one at a time, so 20 pages of page 1, then 20 pages of page 2, ... I had 30 minutes to sort hundreds of pieces of paper and I had to call uncle 😂
That would suck lol
Just a bit ago with a stark raving psycho chick here on GAG who supported her grandfather who was proud of raping and murdering German women and mass murdering innocent German civilians as a Soviet soldier after WWII. When I and others engaged, condemned those actions, and tried to reason with her, she continually responded by saying they deserved it and calling us Nazi sympathizers. She wouldn't let it go. Cue music from the shower scene in the movie Psycho. I finally had enough.
... I kinda want to see that thread, but I think my sanity will be better if I don't.
@BirdshotJohn, you're better off.
Glad I missed that one..
New screening question for dates: "Do you support the rape and murder of a vanquished civilian population at the end of a war?"
@BirdshotJohn. LMAO
I don't know why this shit hit me so different, but it really did. My mom had just found out that she had a HUGE tumor on one of her ovaries, just before the surgery, she invited me over to her house where she told me that the doctors spotted the tumor 2 years ago and that she "forgot about it." This revelation happened after a bunch of other things, and I was just fucking done.
Aww so sorry to hear that 🙏🏼
I think when one person expects the impossible from me
she vents cause she and her mother don't get along and
she gets anxiety from being alone but she won't get on
medication to feel better all she does is use this Hemp oil
and I told her the guy who made that is living like a rich man
and laughing at people who taking that stuff seriously
I don't know how much more I can take I'm ready to just
throw the towel in and it's way past due?
Maybe it is
@Brainsbeforebeauty Yeah it is and I don't like to be that way
After the whole day yesterday. I work at a casino type establishment. We have to be really polite to people, which isn't a problem, unless the people start acting really inappropriate. That day was yesterday. Basically, everyone was losing ok the slot machines, and started hitting the machines and yelling. I only told them to keep it down a bit so not to bother the other guests. They started yelling at me next. Since my pay isn't that great, I decided- OK, I'm done with this, I don't care.
Yeah rude people are the worst. And they think it's okay because it's your job. But it's noone's job to be verbally abused by people
I’m not exactly sure, but it was more than likely here on GaG! I can’t tell you how many times I’ve read the rantings of one “dumbfuk” or another, and thought “that’s it, I’m done with this friggin website!”
Good you're still here tho 💛🙂
Hey, you too babe! Seriously, right back at ya!
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I hope you are feeling better now.
As for my last "I am done" moment...
Hmm 8 months ago over something personal and right before that, it was when I got into an argument with my boss.
I hope you're better from your situation 8 months ago as well 🙏🏼
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I'm going through certain things in life right now but I self taught myself that you have to let go in order to grow ✌️
I hear yah, had to do that with a few people. But as you get older and suffer loss of life of the real friends, each loss hurts a little more
Yes this is true especially a spouse, child, family, friends, it takes a piece of you that you'll never get back. Staying strong isn't easy but finding peace helps ✌️
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When my 5 year old tried to disobey me and almost got hit by a car. I was so done. The kids had to stay in the house for the rest of the night because I couldn’t worry about if they were alive or not.
Oh yeah thank goodness that didn't happen 🙏🏼
I guess about 2 months ago, I did some pretty stupid things to myself and was willing to do more to get out of my situation, without caring about the consequences whatsoever.
That you say that at least it sounds like you learned from it
Yes I did, I've learned and found a new appreciation through it.
That's good! 👍
Oh I know... two women I know want this blanket that can be either hot or cold. It’s a long story but... yeah !! I’m done! Lol
And anytime! We here for ya!!! 😉
🤣🤣 wow they sound horrible 🤣🤣
But seriously, thank you...
I'd say I look like Kermit in that pic but more really pale with really dark bags 😱 scarred myself walking past the mirror earlier
I had several moments in my life in which I was tempted to say that. Unfortunately, I have the bad habit of getting back up, every time I get knocked down in life.
They're good
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When my friend called me for the 10000x times to complain about her relationship.. but STILL doesn't change anything about it. I said "I'M DONE WITH THIS DRAMA" 😂 And that was the end of the calls. (Never heard from her again..😗)
Yeah been in that situation myself... Gets to the point you just don't want to deal with it anymore
Ikr! Like.. why come complaining and asking for advice if you are not gonna change a thing anyways. 🤔 and then get mad at me for saying a honest opinion. And all of them cheat behind their bfs backs... i have no respect left at that moment. So yeah. I'M DONE. 😂
Hear yah
Why your done miss brains muffins? 🤔
Did someone performed a fatality on you 😄
Anyways when i'm done i play this song...
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Recently. I am done being a nice guy. It's just not worth it. I am nice and everybody else gets to be stupid or ugly. I couldn't beat them, so I might as well join them.
Don't stop being you because of other idiots
Every day, that I was unemployed (and penniless) I was done. That's been like 16 years.
The only moments I would enjoy being done is either after sex or after making big money.
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About 4 years ago with my ex. She just very suddenly called it quits between her & I,... I've been through this with other women I don't know how many times & the last girl about 4 years ago,... that was just the whole "I'm done" part.
Did the same thing last year in 2020 on tinder. Just literally thought "That's it, I'm fucking done with all of you".
When I broke up with my ex.
Finally, I just snapped and had that "I'm done". And it has been the best that could happen. That relationship was very very unhealthy for me.
Glad you're no longer in that situation
Thanks, I really am too.
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You already witnessed it today but I'm alright now ^^
Glad to hear it 💛🤗
Work today. I was scheduled to work from 7:00am to 3:30pm. But I dipped at 10:00am. Enough is enough!
Well least it's the weekend! Enjoy 🙂
Eh not likely but thank you 💛
I don't want to answer this question. Get me next time.
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It was about 3 years ago for me. I don't like to argue with customers so I just walked away. I came very close to punching him.
Yeah you get tired of people wanting to argue all the time.. Life too short for all that
Aww thanks! Same to you! 💛
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That would have been when I walk off the job last summer.
Been at the moment myself
That's good 👍👍
I can't remember my last one. I think that's a really good thing !!
Yeah it is!! Lucky you 👍
My last relationship. I was done giving myself to someone who only wanted to hurt me..
Right! People like that don't deserve to be in a relationship
Some people are definitely that alright
Actually Sunday night, after on Friday the company responsible for the lack of vaccinations in my country was blamed for burst vaccination hotlines, yet they were far too busy to accept my phone call and let me help...
I get this about twice a month. I usually refer to it as the wheels falling off.
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My lawn mower kept breaking down
Threw it across the yard and went to buy a new one
Not funny, know the frustration but the picture of a flying lawnmower made me chuckle... At least now you won't have to deal with that with the new one
It was tonight, but can't divulge what it was, still steaming about it. :-(
Sorry to hear that
I have heard sooooo many say, "I'm DONE" with whatever, and like a Moth to a Flame, they go right back, or get into another relationship, new Name, same PERSON!
Are you really done?
This wasn't about a failed relationship. I'm not even in a relationship with anyone nor have I been
@Brainsbeforebeauty I answered your question, and my hanging question, WAS NOT DIRECTED AT YOU!
Why do you read so much, into my posts, that isn't intended, or imagined?
I mean no offense, but it just seems like you read so much into my posts, and then send replies to things I NEVER said to you, or intended. Yes, TEXT is a HORRIBLE way to communicate, but I have NOTHING but respect and love for you! I think you are AMAZING, and it just seems we seem to have some problem. . . It's not my problem, as I think YOU ARE AMAZING!! :) :)
yesterday (on Friday) when i got out of the stock market
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Cotch is a cockroach he lies and is a typical loser man lies cheats and don't know fuck all he speaks off I'm done if that's what you think is good
i don't really have that luxury.
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Sometimes when my husband and I have had a fight.
Noone likes fighting... But make up sex can be good 🙂
Friday night at work because they’re always putting so much pressure on us
I am done with answering questions right now.
Mine? Or any lolol
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That's why god invented fermentation.
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And vodka, whiskey and wine lololol
and sangria
@Massageman 👍👍🙂
Speaking of fermentation - hic - here's a true story from last week- An older sweet lady friend of ours- who has been taking the COVID scare really hard - was getting rid of "hand sanitizer" because it was "too runny" and wondered if I wanted it. Well, being the Bohemian junk hound that I am, I said I'd take it. It turned out to be 80% alcohol- BUT- it was NOT isopropyl (the smelly one from the doc's office) and it was NOT methanol (the kind in Sterno). It was ethanol - corn squeezins (where's Otis when you need him?) - 80% worth , or 160 proof booze alchy! I read the label - it was made by an adult beverage distillery. When COVID hit the bars and restaurants leaving suppliers in the lurch, some smaller distillers just put up booze alcohol (ethanol) in bottles, added fragrance, maybe a bit of aloe, but no thickeners - voila! Runny hand sanitizer! Yes, there was a label on it not to drink it, but NOT because it was practically pure spirits- just because it was "made under emergency conditions".
@Massageman so did you drink it 🤣
No -just sniffed it few times- whew!
@Massageman I got free hand sanitizer at the clinic at the start of pandemic and yeah that stuff was so runny and smelled like pure alcohol
A local big box hardware store had dozens of boxes last fall, after production of the stuff started to return. They had SO much, I just thought I would wait awhile (we had enough at the time). Well, sure enough, a couple months later, they were offering a 100% rebate on some of them and had others in giant refill sizes for under $2! Now we are REALLY stocked up!
Am done wasting my time on petty situations.
Hear that
Thanks Brains 😊
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The last time that I was rejected by a woman.
Usually every day from some people... the irony 🙄
Renovating my house!
Oh yeah that can be a project and a half.
I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
But I bet it looks amazing now
Yes! Not staying. It's on the market to be sold.
Ah Okay...
Last talk with my madre
This site
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Today ans it sucked
Aww sorry! Hope your weekend gets better 💛
Thanks to you it is!😍
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Done with what? 😗
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