What made you finally say "that's enough" in a relationship you ended?

[OKrts98]

[ohsheeT]

When we start out in a relationship We Are One we both like each other we're both trying to prove that to each other out having fun new adventures new things learning new things about each other and in time that kind of dissipates and you kind of start hanging out with your friends or you work late and that's when people stop communicating and then a little bit more time goes on and either you or him are not doing things as often as you used to and one person kind of stops growing the other person keeps growing and keeps new things rushing to their head their bodies and once that happens the motivated person feels kind of betrayed and then it's something happens and one person lies that becomes argument about it and then it seems like there's an everyday argument almost and basically you both is just lost your ways and when that happens that's when there's always going to be somebody that wants to be right and somebody that always wants to be right and you cannot have it both ways you cannot both be right I mean you can but that means you're growing together but in this situation it will never work once you have one person become not motivated and becomes the right fighter or wants to argue all the time because they're depressed because of how their life is there's always just a problem and you can only take so much of it and that's when you got to go at least that's my take on it I mean I'm not going to sit still and I want to keep growing I want to keep going forward at all times and I don't want to argue there's no reason to argue ever

[exitseven]

We had a long distance relationship for 3 years. She really did not put much effort into sustaining the relationship and I was starting the have doubts about her. I flew out 1500 miles to see her. We had not seen each other for 6 months. She showed up at the airport in a hoodie that was covered i plaster dust and she had this weird perm that was combed over to one side. She told me that she almost forgot to pick me up. I suddenly thought that when people are dating they are supposed to be on their best behavior. I wondered what it would be like to be married to somebody like her. I did not see her the same way and in the days that followed I tried not to think about it but in 4 months I called her on the phone late one Saturday night and broke up with her.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[DizzyDesii]

—When disrespect has not only started, but continues —When I felt myself wanting to be around them less and another person more —When I found out certain secrets that just completely destroyed any future for “us” —When I felt more alone than together —When I was told they only said they were about certain things just to keep me around so that I wouldn’t leave them for someone more compatible —When they tried to kill me —When they were more pessimistic than optimistic —When I was no longer in love with em —When I was no longer physically attracted to them —When they called me out of my name

[jennifer_bloom]

I rejected a friend cause she would ask for money for things she did not need when we were not even close friends. Like she would ask me to buy her frappes from McDonald’s. I don’t mind buying somebody rice or corn but nobody needs a frappe, it’s an extra and not a life staple.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I had 30 days of leave (vacation time) and one of the girls I was seeing basically tried to move in on me, she made my days hell, she had no job, and she just became extremely annoying. I finally had enough and she had to go.

I was trying to chill and just watch some TV and she started complaining about being bored and not wanting to watch what I wanted to watch... it just clicked in that moment. "Bitch, get a job, go somewhere, get the fuck out of here! Now!"

A woman should be a source of relaxation and comfort... not a constant battle that is so cringe, that I'd rather go back to work. She was done when she pushed it just far enough. I was blue-pilled back then and that was one of my first red pills about how a woman can really be like.

[nolabels]

After I realized that my feeling that I was a possession of hers was more truth than just feeling.

It was a horrible decision to have to make.

She was beautiful, great in the sack, and pretty cool in other ways.

I won't be owned by anyone, though.

[Leapfrog00]

The day she told me not to come home because she had a guy coming over and was going to have sex with him. The girl didn't like condoms, so I knew she was going to have unprotected sex with him.

I can't believe I almost married this girl, but then again, I probably could never do any better. Cheaters suck!

[ArrowheadSW]

Everything was so one-sided. I did all this stuff that she wanted me to do for her, but when I needed a favor, she just shrugged it off. I was laid up with the flu in the middle of the winter, and my heating system gave out. She had an electric room heater but she wouldn't drive it over to me in spite of me being laid flat. She had no empathy for how sick someone can be with the flu. It was just all about her.

[Fireguy17]

other than finding my first wife doinking the landlord, another ex was going out with others and lying to me that I ended up finding out about, another we just grew apart.
Sometimes it just happens over time, or surprise!
It's over.

[itsalyssaagain]

well I was upset and he went off at me shouting and swearing. Then I gave him 2 days to apologise. Nothing.


That’s when I knew the boundaries were crossed waaaaay too far.

[Ms_Facesitter]

The love wasn't there anymore. No yelling, just a dead end.

[andreasderjuengere]

Nothing, because I never said it.

WHAT I said was: ''I don't need that shit''

[Coden7]

She was experimenting with drugs and was keeping it a secret.

[Anonymous]

It's pretty simple. Does she make me feel better about myself or worse a majority of the time. If the answer is worse and it can't be remedied then it's time to move on.

[runnerboy]

It has not happened to me yet.

[Jamie05rhs]

She was wasting too much time. It was getting old.

[hellohruu]

Insults

[EaterPeter]

Ha ha,