How to stop being a pathetic loser?

[Anonymous]

29 years of my life and still no life. Not even one single girl didn't look at me even though my looking is not that bad but I am a lonely shy anxious quite loser because of my bad past and traumas. And I am still so single without any hope.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you need to focus less on being in a relationship and focus more on your mental state. I know confidence doesn’t come easy but that’s something you should work on, not putting yourself down at every turn. Pathetic, loser, etc, these are words that do nothing for you but make you feel worse and worse. Why do that to yourself? Why be down, and kick yourself more? Sounds exhausting to live that way. You should want more for yourself, love yourself or you can’t love anyone. If you don’t address this now, then when you get a girlfriend, you’ll be clingy and codependent because she’s your only source of happiness and that is not fair for her to carry such a weight.

[Asker]

I would never be clingy. Talked to so many girls online. But never had a chance to meet in Real life. You from America?

[DarcRefractions]

That's your career
What your education
What's your body type r u skinny, fat, athletic
hows your hygiene
How's your diet