Why am I such a loser?

[qisty]

i feel like loser. I’m 29 still in university trying to finish my degree. I had been expelled from my previous university because i let my depression ate me. i feel the world revolves slower around me. All of my friends already at certain level.

i’m still stuck doing small online business with not future in it, trying to find a job, went to a lots interviews and all of interviewers asked me “ what the hell? you still not finish degree? no work experience. what were you doing in your youth life?”. Whenever i went to job interview i ended up crying in parking lot.

The only work experience i have is a cashier. It’s my fault i let my life get messy. My family is supportive, but i’m burdening everyone. I know no matter how fast i’m trying to “run” i will always be the “ slowest” person on this earth.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for the future it’s waiting to be written & as for you anything can happen & you can write an amazing success story or you can choose to write whatever you want. Like a bird if you want to fly you have to spread your wings & that you are doing as we speak. In life I always say if you never try you will never know & as for me I rather try & fail rather than not try at all & as for you don’t be afraid to try & keep on trying.

Never give up, never give in & keep moving forward no matter what.

Cheers & chow for now! ~Static

[Anonymous]

I had a friend much the same age as you saying the same thing a few years. back. Now he has a job in cybersecurity. Take it one day at a time, one obstacle at a time. Don't compare your life to others. It's normally to want to do that but you shouldn't. Because every path is different.

When I was near your age I was flat broke. Now I have a net worth in the high 6 figures. It didn't happen over night, and neither will your success. Your story is not done. Keep working hun, you'll get there.

[ShesRad80]

take your time, stop comparing yourself as hard as it is to your friends, you are you, we all have different paths and road blocks in life.

someone asks those you give vague answers like, i had some unforeseen things turn up in life that had me put certain things to the backburner. now that things have calmed down i am here applying because i am serious about the position you are hiring for.

c'mon girl you can do this! ✌💕💕

[Flower7]

Sorry you’re having such a hard time. Maybe stick to retail for jobs until you finish your degree, since you’ve been a cashier before. You could work in a store again.

[qisty]

i used to work in retail till i have underlying medical conditions that force me to go to hospital twice a week. And i got fired

[DryGermanGuy]

When you apply for your specific field, include trainee offerings and open jobs in neighboring countries.
Also I would strongly suggest to roleplay your specific situation in job interviews, so you have some direct arguments and don’t come off as weak or defensive.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

You know what you have actually accomplished this something a lot of people your age haven't accomplished yet. Use the advantages you have

[qisty]

i don’t see anything i’ve accomplished except trying to survive but one things i always sure i want this degree more than anything else

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Consider that an accomplishment. It's impossible for anyone to have no special advantage because anything you have can be considered as one.

[LiamJHayden]

1. Do not worry about taking longer than others, as you will still reach the finish line before anyone who are still sitting on the derriere.
2. Do not compare yourself to others. Just set goals for yourself and work on achieving those.

[DextroShade]

Flrget trying to find a career, you need a man! Lucky for you men don't care much about your career or lack thereof, just be fit, feminine, friendly, cooperative, submissive, and childless.

[qisty]

i don’t even have any man. I had been approached few times but feel i don’t deserve them.

[DextroShade]

My wife has said that to me many times; my response is "I will decide what you deserve!" You need a man who will tell you the same, and you had better find him fast because you are almost 30. Next time a decent man approaches you fuck your feelings and give him a chance. Don't let your self-loathing lead you to a lonely death.

[Iron_Man]

You’re young yet Don’t think negative. Hang in there and work hard.

[qisty]

i tried and tried to find a job related with my study. I don’t mind if the pay is lower than minimum salary, but nobody wants to hire me at all

[Celticwolf78]

Quit beating yourself up sometimes people have to move at a different speed than most people it's ok just take your time

[Anonymous]

You are the maker of your own destiny. Now you have to fix it.

[CantMissIt]

You are not.