Why can’t I move on?

[Anonymous]

It’s been about 9 months since we’ve spoken or seen each other. I just graduated yesterday and he watched my story for once in a minute and didn’t even congratulate. It’s supposed to be a joyous occasion but all I can think about is how much he doesn’t like me anymore. Or if he ever really liked me. I’m sad. I have a celebration party planned and I’m just sad. I wanted to know he cared or something or that there were some mutual feelings. It’s such a loser thing to say but I just don’t know why it’s taking me so long to move on from him. How can I do it? I am usually not really dazed by things like this. But now I feel I’ll be lonely forever and can’t make anyone fall in love with me

[Degenerate]

I think I've done this too ~ if I remember correctly, the issue was I was living on some type of false hope or reality? I had this idea in my mind that one day she would come back and I wouldn't let go of that thought despite it being entirely false. I guess I just didn't want to accept the reality of the situation... (I hope this makes sense)

[Asker]

That makes perfect sense honestly. I try to refrain from the thinking but I just want it to be true so bad. How did u snap out of it

[Degenerate]

Meh I think as time went on I truly accepted it. Talking to new people I found helped too.

[Monalisa77]

Im still the same and i only really knew him for 3 weeks? Its crazy lol