My ex from 7 YEARS AGO keeps constantly popping back into my life. normally isn’t a problem because I don’t usually entertain it.
But I did give in & make the mistake of meeting up with him (as a friend) last year July. We kept speaking & all was fine until he started getting emotional telling me how much he still loves me. He showed me he’s back into singing & all his songs are about me / our history? I immediately shut it down because he has a girlfriend & kids with her !!
then started to say he was going to end his relationship , he isn’t happy with her bla bla. But I feel so guilty. The last thing I want is to come in the middle of this drama. I have my own life & my daughter too I really just want peace & this seems far from it !
Fast forward, now I find myself starting to like him / feeling attached. he just gets me & he’s always making an effort. We don’t have sex / kiss i completely don’t allow it. We do spend time together & go out like friends, there deffo is flirting. He even spent Christmas / new years with me & wants to take me on holiday for my birthday?
i feel like no good can come from this 1) I feel bad about this situation 2) I sort of feel like a second option 3) wouldn’t be able to trust him 4) he seems all talk no action - 7 months in & not much has changed, still living with his girlfriend & keeps asking to see me. I’ve said no & shut it down completely but he keeps texting & popping up at my house which is 4.5 hour drive away from his?
he says he trying to sort his situation out. I said ok find me when it’s sorted. But he says he doesn’t know how long and doesn’t want to lose me again.
He’s so hard to read. I never know whats genuine. All I know is I need to move on. I deserve more. And my time is too precious to be spent waiting around. But how do I move on when he keeps showing up and being so nice all the time. He sat for 2 hours outside my door until I opened it. Is this love or psychosis?
