I give up, She is too shy, How can I move on?

[Anonymous]

How can I move on from this girl as quick as possible, She is invading my brain.

[HollyK21]

What do you meant she’s too shy? Does she know you’re interested?

[Asker]

Yes, But she has low self esteem for a some reason, I can't keep with it tbh.

[Plugs]

So u think u are too good for her?

[Asker]

@Plugs She wouldn't invade my brain if I that was the case, Wtf why are you going against me even tho you know nothing about me nor her, I just want to know how to move on

[Plugs]

Bruhh then what’s the problem?

[Asker]

@Plugs I just want to get over her because I'm getting distracted, How can I do that

[Plugs]

Distraction how?

[Asker]

@Plugs Why is that important, Its unrelated to my question

[Plugs]

How do u both look by the way

[Asker]

@Plugs That also is not related to my question

[HollyK21]

Low self esteem… hm. Like is she talking down on herself too often or bringing you down?

I mainly ask because if it’s a mental health issue (not just shyness) and you aren’t equipped to navigate that then yeah, it’s best to move on.

If she’s only shy though then ask yourself what it is about her shyness that’s putting you off, and figure out what you’re looking for exactly that you can’t find with her.

It’s easier to move on when you’ve made peace with why it wouldn’t work with that person. It’s harder when you still have hope, or if there’s guilt on your end because she was a good woman but you dismissed her because she wasn’t doing this or that at the pace you’d like.

[Plugs]

How does she look because what’s so distracting about her

[Anonymous]

By keeping yourself busy towards the important goals of your life. By stop giving attention to her and her related things. By putting all notification from her on mute over your phone. And even if you see any message from her by not giving it importance just because if you don't want that girl to be important person in your life then why should you caring about anything related to her?

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ah, the classic tale of the one who got under your skin! Falling for someone shy can feel like trying to solve a Rubik's Cube in the dark - intriguing, but oh, so challenging. Moving on isn't about forgetting, but rather about gently steering your heart and mind towards new adventures. First thing's first, channel your inner energy into something productive or creative. Whether it's hitting the gym, picking up a new hobby, or dusting off that guitar in the corner, let your emotions fuel your growth. Secondly, surround yourself with positivity - friends, family, or even a feel-good binge-watch can do wonders. Lastly, remember, patience is key. Healing isn't a race. It's more like slow-dancing, where sometimes you step forward, sometimes back, but eventually, you find your rhythm again. And who knows, along the way, you might just stumble into a new dance partner who's ready to meet you step for step. Keep your chin up and your heart open!

[Anonymous]

she doesn't have low self-esteem, you have to talk and clarify then she'll be cool ;)

[Plugs]

Ughhh wtf

[Asker]

What?

[Plugs]

Be a man. A women has to be shy : grow balls

[Asker]

Nah, I'm sick of this, Its distracting me from my studies, How can I move on.

[Plugs]

🤣🤣🤣how u both look

[Asker]

Wdym?

[Plugs]

How u both look? Describe