How to not feel like a loser in life?

[Anonymous]

I'm currently situation where I just quit my shitty job, and I find it hard to get a new job. As for my education level I only studied till pre uni, I do not have a degree and much experiences to get hired.

[Oliverlogan263]

Okay girl, I totally get how you're feeling right now. It's so easy to be hard on ourselves when things aren't going our way. But you are not a loser! Please don't talk about yourself that way, you deserve so much better. Here's what I'd say:

- take a breath! You've got this whole amazing life ahead of you still! So what if things aren't perfect right now, a few bumps don't define who you are.

- Lean on your people. Talk to friends who lift you up, make you laugh, distract you from being in your own head too much. Their support can help your mood so much.

- Keep pushing for jobs, even if they aren't your dream gig yet. Any experience is better than none at this point. And who knows, you may find something you vibe with more than expected.

- Focus on small wins each day - maybe learn a new skill from YouTube, take a fun class, etc. Little boosts will motivate you to keep going when the job hunt gets tiring.

- Be kind to yourself through this process. You deserve patience and understanding right now. Fake it til you make it if you have to, but don't believe any loser thoughts!

This is just a bump in the road. You've so got this, girl - your best days are totally ahead of you! Keep your head high :)

[Anonymous]

Go into business for yourself and become 10 times more successful then you would have working at that previous job.

[DishLady]

Everything you've described is adjustable. Stop making excuses and whining about being a self-proclaimed loser and go do the things that would qualify you (in your own eyes) to be a so-called winner.

[Nikki1989]

Change your attitude would be your first step to success.