Getting bullied because of chest size and not sure what to do?

Question

There’s been a few girls that have made me feel really self conscious and a little depressed because of them making fun of my appearance, I just wish they’d stop 😭

AaronStudds · Accepted Answer

Bullying is a criminal offence. You can report it to your institution anonymously.

The thing that really matters is how you see your body. No one can make you feel bad about your body if you love it and you should love your body the way it is. God has made everyone different. He has put different abilities in different people.

Some people are mean. You can not change them. You should not lose your mental peace if someone says something bad about your body. I know that it is difficult at your age to learn the art to ignore stupid people but the soon you learn it, the better the life gets. These stupid people will not remain in your life forever. So why give them importance by thinking about what they say? Why lose your mental peace for such trashy people? They want you to feel bad and its your job to not let them succeed in their task by not giving a second thought about what they say.

I know what it feels like getting bullied. My classmates made fun of my fat body. They would greet me with dirty name when we met in the morning. They called me names when I ran because the flesh of my body would jiggle. I felt bad initially. I felt very bad.

I am proud of myself for not giving up at that time. A couple of years have passed and those asses are nowhere near me and my life. Today I am stronger than I have ever been. My bullies initially tried to harm my mental state and I let them do that for some time, but, they did not know that they were making me stronger.

If you feel that your classmates are harming you mentally and/or physically, do not hesitate to report it to your school. They keep it anonymous. If not, you can ask them to keep it anonymous.

Everyone did not like me, everyone does not like me even today, but I was and still am the special one for some people in my life who can not imagine themselves without me. So are you. You are the special one for someone. You are the special one for people in your family. You are special for the one who is ready to share her/his lunch with you at your school.

Love yourself because God has made you the way you are and he loves his children very much.

May God bless you.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

That sucks, but you need to realize that these girls are insecure themselves, and they think that the way to make themselves feel better about their own insecurities is to make someone else feel worse. I promise you, there is something about each of them that makes them cry when they're at home alone thinking about it, and there is some guy who has rejected them.

One of the ways you can stop bullying is to not care, AT ALL, about what they say. In fact, you can even SMILE when they do it, reminding yourself that this is their own insecurity that they're showing the world. They bully you because they WANT you to get upset and they want you to react in a negative way. If you don't react, or if you react in a positive way, it takes away their fun and enjoyment - their behavior becomes unsatisfying got them.

Ez-Bri-Z · Accepted Answer

You are so much more than your chest size, your height, your hair, your clothes or whatever else they target. I know it's probably hard to move past it, but we've been there in one form or another. There is always going to be something some idiot is going to target.

Now, you can handle it a few different ways. You can ignore it, you can stand up for yourself, or you can turn it around on them. Basically a bully's power comes from their followers. They feel more empowered the more people have behind them. Either make it too boring for them to care or turn their followers against them and it will stop.

PrettyPriya · Accepted Answer

That is always tough. Is this at school?

collie22 · Answer

i know what your saying, my boobs have always been small. The comments stopped in the 10th grade. now i don't care much but once and a while i think what it would be like to have jiggly boobs. i hope things get better for you, remember Jesus loves you just how you are.

maddie2003 · Answer

They're gonna push it until you stand up to them or stop being upset about it. They won't act any different until you do. I'm not trying to victim blame, I'm just trying to tell you the truth.

supercutebutt · Answer

Tease them back, but do it 10x worse. Make them afraid of you. :)

madgoat · Answer

You'll find that some people will pick on anything to feel superior. Could be your chest, could be your appearance, could be something else.
It's disheartening, it's disappointing, but that's the reality we live in. And it doesn't actually mean anything is wrong with you. Chin up.

Anonymous · Answer

I know it's hard, but just try to act like they aren't even there and you don't even hear them. Like it doesn't bother you at all. They'll stop eventually if they aren't getting a reaction from you. They are just immature and doing it to get to you for their own amusement. Your appearance is just fine probably, but they know that will bother you so that's what they do for "fun".

MCheetah · Answer

Are they making fun of you for not having any breasts, or for them being too big? Because two completely different approaches to handle those people, there.

HighValue · Answer

When I was in school I found that using my fists to solve problems was often the best solution for me. I'm not sure what would be a good solution for you though.

Renegade_Sailor · Answer

Remember this, no one makes fun of someone who they perceive to be beneath them. These kinds of personal attacs are always rooted in jealousy.

What they say does not matter, what matters is that you can be happy with and proud of who you are.

jshm2 · Answer

Report it. They are just pushing their insecurities onto you. If you're not fighting back, then they'll just push more onto you.

jasco · Answer

fam don't worry, no matter what rack size you have men will always love you

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Try not to care. Make this what you see or something like it. It might help in not caring and ignoring.  not listening shouldn’t be too hard

Jackin18 · Answer

As you get older you'll find it don't matter and those girls are just self conscious about they're own issues

Nachowedgie · Answer

You've plenty of years for your chest to develop and even if it doesn't get all that big there's plenty of guys who like small boobs so no worries

Anonymous · Answer

kick them in the nuts. oh, wait they're girls. yeah best to just ignore them. let them see that they're not affecting you and they should give up. If it gets worse, definitely don't be afraid to go to a school worker for help.

Kareem_z21 · Answer

As I see. You are 13! Your chest will continue growing for years

Lottifan · Answer

I know it’s hard but just try to ignore it. Don’t let it get to you. I was also teased at school.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

You're 13. If they're small, they'll grow. If they're already big, hold your head high.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

Just remember you are only 13 you will start noticing more changes in the next few years

BigKevHanma · Answer

Dude your a girl at least they look good on you when I was being made fun of for my chest I was over 200lbs

Anonymous · Answer

Learn to ignore the haters and life get better for you.

Anonymous · Answer

Being too big or too small?

Iron_Man · Answer

Talk to the principal of the school

Fuentes · Answer

Just know they will be future mcdonalds workers

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