Are we also partially responsible for creating cheaters and players?

[Anonymous]

Too many girls complained about guys always pressuring for sex and not finding a faithful, marriage-minded man, a family oriented guy.
However, I've seen several ''He cheated with 10 girls, what do I do'' similar posts and the girl already knew he slept around (he even brags about it) and met him at a club. Are you serious? He cheated and sleeps around and you're still asking what to do!!! Then she goes on explaining how she's heartbroken and that she wanted to marry him.

I almost feel like puking reading all that. Why would any girl want that for a husband? Why would any girl think a manwhore/party guy like that would even want to settle down and be faithful? Or that she can find a good man at a club. Then she's surprised her parents and family hate him and isn't welcome in the house. LOL.

Yes guys can be jerks by pressure them to lose their virginity at a young age (peer pressure) but are we just as responsible too?

Yes

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I feel like laughing reading those post. They want someone good but yet want to stay with the cheaters? Isn't that enabling them to continue being cheaters, lovebombers and players?

[TheFlak38]

"Why would any girl want that for a husband?" because women have the dumbest instincts. They only respond to whoever makes the area between their legs wet. Once they've ended up as single mothers they start asking for the stupid nice guy who was friend zoned for at least 10 years so they can lock him down with marriage. Women live life on tutorial mode.

[Asker]

I just feel like laughing at those post. A guy that cheats even once should be thrown out ASAP. Their good man is likely reserved, doesn't have many friends, isn't found at parties and might not be super attractive but at least fits what those girls are looking for. Problem would be solved if they went for him than the stupid, worthless party guy that (besides sex) has absolutely NOTHING good in him.

[TheFlak38]

My brother got involved with a young woman who he literally found on the streets on some island until she ended up with an unwanted pregnancy (since both of them are lazy incompetent losers). My brother had literally nothing to offer yet they were both forced to get married by the parents, so basically it was an arranged marriage. I was guessing when the break will occur and it did a lot sooner than I anticipated. Just another single mother who belongs to the streets. And a loser who cannot take up any responsibilities.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

The more I think about it.. not really. Of the guys who are going to be effected or "inspired" by watching stupid twats try to change players.. most of them look like this.

What are they gonna do? Become players themselves? Is that what you're insinuating?

I don't think so.

[Citizenkirk]

Guys are individual beings, and some respond to bad feedback in a bad way. Women teach boys how to become men as much as men do.