Everyone around always tells me that guys should make the first move, but I honestly think that shouldn’t be the case-
Is it unattractive for a girl to make the first move?
It's the complete opposite.
Trust me, if you like a guy and ask him out, his estimations of you go up already. The courage and confidence.
It shouldn't always be the guy!!
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Of course other girls tell you not to make the first move. Because to compete with you they'd have to start doing that to. And they don't want to. Lol
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I don't have the patience to wait on shy guys so I either go for it or just call it quits.
I much prefer guys who know what they want and how to get it! -
"Everyone" being women right? lol I agree, it shouldn't be the case. It show confidence, which is attractive right? I mean, you women like us to have it, why wouldn't we like it in you?
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I think that's freakin awesome. I'd dream of that day a woman would do that to me. Would be great if more women thought like you. Maybe bring it up to a 50\50 thing. It is stressful for men.
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None of the men I approached thought it was unattractive. 😊
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In our society, it is the girl's responsibility to make the first move by smiling and saying "Hi," or doing something to indicate she is willing to be approached. Otherwise, the guy will be rudely rejected.
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Don't listen to those people. Sometimes guys get really tired of having to make the first move. It's refreshing to have someone approached us, because it shows that they are interested from the start. And 93% of guys say that they like it.
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If you wait for a guy to approach you
... you may be waiting forever cos I never talked to/flirted with a girl in my life, too risky -
Yes, women don't have game at all. What would you even say?
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No! We wish girls would do this a hell of a lot more!
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Not at all, well of course depends on the guy but tons of guys are resentful of how the pressure of this normally falls on their shoulders
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The opposite. The few times Ihave had it happen, it was a big turn on
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everyone saying that is too weak and afraid of rejection
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Not at all. Most guys love it.
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No, unless you're exceptionally traditionalist.
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interesting , unless the woman uses the wrong way
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No, not in my opinion.
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Of course not
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It's something you want to do?
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Nope..
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no not really to me
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