It is and it will be welcomed by most men; Please, make it :D. Shy guys are dreaming about the girl who lets them know!
That said, I do want you to be protected too, and I realise making the first move is daunting and has huge potential for a emotionally hurtful outcome.
So, you've smile and you've stared. All good starters. The guy, if interested will likely be wondering why your staring, and maybe second guessing if your staring at them or past them. If disinterested they may be still wondering why your staring and if they should worry.
Some good green flags for talking to a guy are:
1) They smile back (don't overly concern yourself with how long they smile for, just be concerned with the initial quality of smile the first time at a distance; When up close they might struggle to smile being afraid how you'll react seeing them up close).
2) When you make an effort to talk to them they look releived / glad/
3) They hang around you when your smiling and try to stay in a position where you can talk to them (this is a really good one, but remember guy might clam up once they get close and feel embarassed and like he wants to get away... so you need to just make a joke then to set them at ease and see how it goes).
4) Keep your company in mind. When you meet a guy who likes you and your with friends, it can be extra daunting for the guy. Try to engineer it so your on your own when you see him again, as that helps it to be less daunting (obviously be safe doing this, people around generally is fine, just don't appear tight with anyone particular, be a bit away from people).
Good luck, I really hope you do make the first move... ~smile.
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Yes! You should make a move on someone you like. The girls who refuse to ever make a move number one limit their options. If the guys that are approaching them aren’t their type, but the guys they want don’t approach them or are already taken. That’s kind of on them. Especially when other guys see other guys being rejected so they get afraid she will reject them too.
Now. With all of that said. People are scared of rejection. But if someone rejects you now you have closure and can move on. A lot of people simply sit around wasting time waiting on someone whose not even into them.
Why would it be wrong? I think you make such a move with a flash of self-confidence and it's a great thing to break the rules. I find conventional things boring, so it's boring to always wait for men to make the first move. We need to make some different moves. Life is not all about monotony!
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Yes absolutely. I know that rejection sucks and it's quite scary. However, I once read somewhere (can't remember) that women look for reasons to disqualify men while men look for reasons to qualify women. I guarantee you that you'll stand out from all the women who are so passive in dating. And even if he is not interested I can also almost guarantee that he will be flattered and quite impressed with your courage and he will remember you for a good while.
I've seen plenty of testimonies only where men can able to remember a compliment that they received from a women 20, 30, and 50 years ago. Getting complimented by women let alone getting approached by one is so incredibly rare for us blokes that if and when it happens, if leaves a long lasting impression.
No it's not OK
Specially in the mgtow world
Any actions a women take is surely with a extremely bad intentions coz it's easy for women to trap and earn money from men using the bias justice system and men now understands this
A women approaching a men is a clear direct and immediate threatNo is not good
Just give him Signal and he take controlYes go for it! Works in your favor big time.
Of course. There are lots of shy guys who would make terrific partners.
I was deathly afraid of girls. Even of i knew a girl was into me I was too afraid to ask her out.
Guys can see green flags. But women are notoriously subtle. So subtle in fact NO ONE knows there ever was a green flag.😆
yes, preferable too.
Should be more socially acceptable but I doubt it ever will
Go for it. It's 21st century after all
Definitely ok. Welcomed even.
yes, why wouldn't it be?
Just go for it.
Definitely
Duh.
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