Should I force myself to be less selfish with my time or let it come naturally?

[Anonymous]

I have told myself as I age I will become more reliant on others and willing to leave my comfort zone. I thought it was inevitable loneliness would force me to drop some hobbies and see the outside world. It hasn't now and I have dedicated set hours for watching anime, playing videogames, playing discgolf, wathing MMA and sipping whiskey to a near perfect flow. I am so neurotic that if I have to sacrifice any of those I get extremely annoyed for days. Should I drop everything or just hope I change naturally.

[devilish-cutie]

if you are happy like this why you want to change?
of you feel neurotic, those are like your coping mechanisms
if you want to cahnge cause of potential of finding a girlfriend or not generaally feeling lonely, than you first have to find people worth your time, it wount be an issue than as you will want to spend time with them. if they have similar hobbies as you than you could even do them together, just take it slow and easy, be patient w ysf but it is on you to make a change, id rather go with that than except natural change while doing the same thing all the time