Right now I'm frustrated with my friend's other friends.
My friend is getting married and basically all her other friends suck. I'm a bridesmaid and last night was her bachelorette party.
No one put forth any effort to plan anything fun. I am not the maid of honor but the actual MOH said that she sucks at planning things and wasn't going to attend anything except the actual wedding day. 🙄
So I tried to rally the troops to get something planned and no one helped at all. So finally, after 6 weeks of practically BEGGING people for help I just made a decision and then got bitched at for "steamrolling" everyone. 😤
I booked all the things. I paid for everything. I sent out the invites. 15 total people were invited. 10 actually said they'd come. Only 7 actually showed up and then all but 2 bailed after lunch so the rest of it kind of just sucked. And I'm pissed about it and feel bad for the bride-to-be because I went all out on making the day special and fun but everyone else showed up at like 5% energy and then they all left. And I tried to keep the momentum going but it's hard to have a fun night where there's only 3 people when the event was designed for 10.
So... yeah. Not impressed.
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A guy from corporate is going to ask me questions about the leadership program that you have to take before going into management. So right now I'm thinking:..
What kind of questions will he ask?
Am I able to answer his questions without messing up?
Will he like my responses?
Will he think I will be perfect to join the management team?
Will he agree with my boss for choosing me to become manager?
Will he think I'm to nice to be a manager?
The list goes on, and sadly I will keep thinking this until the day comes and then a new set of questions will come to mind after the interview is done.
What is my life turning into, lately my life has turned into me just going to the gym (which I love and is great for my mental health) and work (which been working a job that falls into my career amazing pay) but when I step back and take a look at my life that is all is become, so I question myself on what is my life becoming, want to start doing new stuff and explore but sometimes it feels like there is no one to join me, and I wouldn't mind doing things alone, but something it's just brings sadness not being able to have people to join.
Same as I've been thinking for a while now: That there are no more good people left in society, and no more dateable singles left in society. I wrote a question about it yesterday.
Guys, why does it seem like no romantic women exist anymore in society? ↗
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I got a cold at the beginning of the week that keeps me staying at home and being able to work out and do many things I would wanna do.
Besides that I´m not really happy with my life because I can´t gain muscles and weight as I want. I also have times where I´m not happy being single but that´s nothing special.Sadly my crazy vindictive over controlling slave driver of a mother is
She's actually been dead for about a year now and even before she died I actually moved out of her house when I was 17 so "go me"
But she did a lot of things and it's affected my life greatly and I'm very angry still very bitter and I was recently reminded of my mother responding to another question so yeah that's where I'm at right nowI kinda stumbled into a relationship when I said I would not do so until I am financially stable. I like the woman so far (too early to tell much), but if things get serious then eventually my finances will be in the spotlight. I'm kicking myself for it.
I'm thinking why do some people don't lesson I'm at work I got a call from a customer saying there ceiling fan is in the wrong spot I had to fix it I can't wait to see my co worker tomorrow morning to spit fire at him lol... LIKE why don't u follow directions I give him the blue prints X marks the spot but nope he put the ceiling where he wanted I guess lol.
Food... I'm starving, but I'm doing IF right now (intermittent fasting). So trying to distract myself :|
Yeah I'm a simple creature: food, exercise, weight loss, work, and sleep are basically the main things on my mind nowadays.I am a scorpio too but I don’t believe in Zodiac.
And what’s on my mind?
I really want my crypto to take off, it already gave me 500X raise but not enough, I want to be a crypto millionaire haha and then maybe, I can go to China and finally see my boyfriend again.I guess how I’m feeling.
I feel a mixture of sleepiness and burnt out.
I ran a bit in the 105 F heat and did some workouts.
I also didn’t have enough drink or food to eat to give myself nutrients.
I feel like I’ve been “sapped” of energy.Right now... I'm reading @Secret6620's posts. She's getting my motor running. I'm glad it's Saturday. No responsibilities.
Why does not being in control stress you? Life happens, enjoy it.Just finished a zoom call to a friend. All i can think of is sex, so i came on here, hoping it would take my mind off it. Sadly no...
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well, I'm a Leo... so now I'm thinking about what a Leo is supposed to be doing. lol
Probably for me the realization that I'm a horrible taste in women. (As an Aquarian) all I seem to attract are Scorpios lol. And we just end up completely ruining one another's lives. So I can relate 😅. Gets to a point I sometimes wish arranged marriage was still a thing.
Lol - that could very much be me. (Not a Scorpio though)
But this time: I'm just scolding myself for still being awake since I've a early shift tomorrow. I'm going to be exhausted and we've a full house of kids this weekend.Going to wake up from bed, have my breakfast and than go to shop for groceries and stuff 😊
If you come with me princess rapunzel, i'll buy you a delicious chocolate bar hehe 🍫I'm building a business and working a slave job at the same time.
I need to work Harder.
But the pisces in me wants to Netflix an chill with snacks and wiskeyYou are a scorpio control is an illusion nobody is really in control cause in life you never know what will happen next.😉 And I'm thinking about this new recipe tryin to eat healthier and incorporate that into my everyday life
Dinner!
Got up early, worked all day, kids are busy with friends, wife is working... and I'm hungry!just creating scenarios in brain that may or may not happen about school
My mind is blanked out right now lol. What are some goals you've written so far? :)
I'm currently lost. I wake up every day at 2 PM. My girl tells me to meet her at the bus stop. But I've been over sleeping every day. I feel kinda bad. First she said 10 am. Then yesterday she said 12 PM and today she said 1 30 PM.
Well I guess what matters to me what I want our of life. I honestly don't know who j am really and would like to figure it out but I don't know how to. As well this came uo when I was in therapy as a way to try and help with my issues and that.
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