Is it my fault for his relapses?

[Anonymous]

He says I’m a good person but he kissed me exc cause he wanted to but then he said but I became a very unhealthy person.

so when a guy goes into a bad state of mind/ back to his addictions hlike alcohol exc ) is it because of me…
by the way I’m a clean person don’t smoke or drink.

also if he seemingly did those things cause he wanted to if he gets clean and goes to rehab and I’m still there for him can things get better again between us…that’s without his negative ways and he doesn’t go back that way?

Updates

+1 y

And I know red flags we were friends for a long while off and on and he’s currently in rehab getting help.

[slatyb]

No, it's not your fault. End this. There's nothing there for you.

[Wise4myage]

No its not your fault. In his situation, he shouldn't be dating at all and focusing on himself.

[Asker]

Update he’s been out of rehab and has a new job and going to two AA meetings and last thing he said was he doesn’t wanna be out in public he doesn’t like it and says he wants to work on him self this was on oct 4th he’s now ghosted and muted me on instagram yet still follows me I hope he eventually talks to me again he usually does… it still fills like I did something wrong but rn I’m giving him a couple months and trying to find good distractions.
Sorry for this update… but I think what you said is exactly what he meant and said. But he’s also told me he wants an emotional and physical connection no relationship whatever that meant.