What is something you can't understand no matter how many times it’s explained to you?

[JustinTheGreat]

[TheUniqueOne96]

The 6ft thing that a lot of women actually want in a man, assuming as many women want it as I've heard.

Think about this:

The height of the average male in the USA is about 5'9 and in the UK, it's about 5'10.

Is there actually that much of a visual difference in reality between either of those heights and the magic number 6 that a girl who's probably 5'2 would turn a guy down over, especially when most guys are under 6ft?

I honestly think it's just something that sounds good on paper and I think it link in well with this question I saw on here a few days ago, talking about how porn, social media and Netflix has given people deluded expectations of what to expect in a relationship and if 6ft plus is required before even getting to the stage, then it just links in well.

[JustinTheGreat]

I don’t think women care about height as much as the internet leads us to think lol
Height requirements is something I’ve always ever heard on the internet, 90% of the women I know in person don’t care as long as the guy is taller than them

[admles]

How people can believe in a "god" without proof.

[Babygirl_S]

I don't understand when people say that having a racial preference is not racist. Going by the standard definition of racism it is. It is the reason why people get offended when I talk about white men. At least they should accept that they're racist.
I clearly mention I like handsome men from any race yet whenever I talk about handsome white men a bunch of unattractive dudes start attacking me due to their east Asian fetish.

[FilmGuy93]

I think the reason they say that is because the skintone isn't what they have an issue with. I like I don't typically find black women very appealing, but it's not because of their dark skin, it's because I don't find most black women's facial features attractive.

[Babygirl_S]

Well I'm clearly not black.

[Babygirl_S]

And by the way black women have the same facial features as eastern Asians.

[FilmGuy93]

I didn't say you were black. Also, I'm not sure that I would say that Eastern and South Asians share facial features with black people... at all. They look totally different to me.

[Kereology]

There's a difference between "I prefer Asian women to black women" and "I want to bring back slavery."

[Chazmatazz269]

Technically you’re right, but i think you know you’re playing a semantics game. Colloquially we only refer to racism as a negative behavior. It’s NOT racist to want the tall black dude on your basketball team, but it is. It’s NOT racist to be attracted more to Asians, but it is. If you want to get technical, everyone is racist. It’s a simple fact of evolutionary biology. Life used to be hard, and humans are savages. So tribes only survived by being very careful who and what they allowed into their communities. If you invited everyone in all happy go lucky, your tribe likely didn’t survive. It’s a perfectly natural response to be suspicious of other people or animals or geographic features that are unfamiliar. We all do it. But what racism has come to mean as a term is the tendency to behave as though one or more races is superior to others, or that one or more races is inferior to others. If you’re not attracted to another race because you’re convinced that their inferior bloodline will damage your own, that’s definitely racist. If you’re just more attracted to the physical traits of a certain race, that’s really not.

[Babygirl_S]

Thank you for the MHO!

[urgrandpa]

racist's and homophobic people's logic

[FilmGuy93]

For the love of all that's holy, I will never understand why people will find someone amazing, do the whole "we're dating, but we're not officially dating" thing, or otherwise decide that they aren't ready to settle down.

Like... bruh... are you high? You found someone that you could see yourself starting a family with, do you know how rare that is? Why the hell would you throw arbitrary bullshit obstacles in your way to having something that has been understood throughout human history to be a critical piece of happiness? IT WORKS. STOP BREAKING THINGS THAT WORK.

My other favorite; people who decide they can't handle a relationship, so they'll do everything involved in having a relationship and then freakout at the possibility of calling what they're doing "a relationship." Again... bruh... don't tell me that you can't handle a relationship... you clearly can.

[Redhead999]

The 50 different genders. Non binary? Am I a computer? Gender fluid? Please not on the floor. Demi sexual? Demi lavato is OK I guess. Gender neutral? I mean stop just making shit up because you think it makes you unique and special

[JustinTheGreat]

Even as a lgbt person myself, I agree that a lot of gender identities and sexualities confuse me as well sometimes 😅
Out of these I think being demisexual is valid though.

[Chazmatazz269]

I can speak for most westerners with my answer, i think. Opinions. Somehow we’ve reached a point in society where disagreeing with someone automatically makes them the enemy. We just can’t seem to hold any idea in our minds without agreeing with it. It’s bizarre how pervasive this behavior has become.

[StephanieGirl75]

Why men and boys can be topless in public but us women and girls can't be topless in public. Men and boys have breasts and nipples and us women and girls have breasts and nipples. Both genders male and female should be allowed to expose our breasts and nipples. 👫

[MrOracle]

In most states, women can be topless anywhere that men can. It's certainly true in California and New York.

[SunflowerApple]

Will you listen to me and be there for me if I tell you... like okay I feel like I've been kidnapped by someone I can't explain and it brought me to a world where I call this place home now, I'm so confused, are apples blue now, is the ocean going to become shades of violet

[FinneasWilson]

Forgiveness,


It baffles me no end.


I get told it's for me and so I can move on yet I can't forgive you for ruining my life and f**king me over, it's like saying "oh well you ruined my life but that's ok I forgive you it doesn't matter" hell no.. I ain't forgiving that.


I don't think I'll ever grasp it to be fair. But oh well. 🤷🏽‍♂️

[DizzyDesii]

Forgive but dont forget. Still keep your distance from those aholes

[Creampiekarl420]

Why there are 3 big momma houses?
the first one was bad the second was worse and they still rolled a 3rd gutter ball on the last one like did they have to force that last piece of turd out because black people don’t even like those movies (no one does) so who tf were they for the mentally I’ll Im assuming

[Sour-rose]

"We should teach kids about LGBTQ in schools! Elementry to high school!"
"... huh?"

[Anonymous]

How a woman sleeping around is "empowering". No matter how many times these types of women say it I just don't get how letting yourself get passed around like a pipe gives you power. I mean that's like saying the hare controls the hound... not really. You're just manipulating an urge. Not the person really.

[Pinay_ako]

Calculus, Trigonometry or anything involving math 🧮 and mixing letters and numbers together. Don’t 😂.

[TwiNshichamp1]

😂😂 fr

[Pinay_ako]

@TwiNshichamp1 yea math was ok until they started adding letters. Like tf 😂

[TwiNshichamp1]

Then arrows, Circles and lines 😂 Function maths & Circle maths were the nightmare in my secondary school days

[Pinay_ako]

@TwiNshichamp1 yea like we can use all that in tax season 🤣 . Just do simple math man. I was fine with 100 watermelons 🍉 minus 10 watermelons. Dang it. A b and x didn’t need to join 😂 😭

[TwiNshichamp1]

😂😂😂😂😂 you made my night lol, I could get A of Biology, B of Chemistry but D of Maths 😂😭 in all my exams even on National Exams 😭 C was just an upper class for me lol 😭😂😂😂😂🙌🏾

[Pinay_ako]

@TwiNshichamp1 good to hear I’m not alone in this mathematics sentiments! I had an engineering student tutor me in college about this shit but he was literally begging me to understand it coz I don’t really get it 🤣. I’m smart somewhere else but do not start with that calculus shit. I don’t even know how I passed that class. I was 😴 the whole time 😜

[TwiNshichamp1]

I had no good relationships with maths teachers since secondary school lol😂 I remember one day he caught me speaking Swahili (our native National language) instead of English language and I was so confident with it. 😂😂 I was good in class top 3 student (badge on my shoulder) 😜 so I was complaining to my friend about him (the math teacher) exchange marks between me and my fellow student. I got 99 in Bookkeeping and my other friend got 96 in Commerce, so the academic master (the maths teacher) confused us and exchanged our scores 😭 then posted in on an a school announcement board so when I was speaking to my friend on the announcement dashboard, he came behind us and I was the one spotted speaking shit about him 😂😂😭😭 I remember I knew I was dead😭 he took me recklessly up the staff office he bended me on the Staffs dining table then he Woop me than 15 sticks recklessly with anger 😭😂😂😂 I got out the Staffs office hopefully no other teacher was there I could be beaten twice lol 😂😂 my right hand which I use to write with, was severally damaged because of the hard wooden sticks which I resisted from beating my butt lol. I could not write effectively for 3 days 😂😭. I was not good in his class, besides being top 3 student in class, then I spoke out his wrong doing in a language which is restricted while at school 😂 people who didn't know English well spoke it anyway but where careful to never been caught 😂 so that How many relationship with Maths teachers always been.😂😂🙌🏾 I hope I go to college now It won't be the same lol😂🙌🏾

[Pinay_ako]

@TwiNshichamp1 🤣 it’s gonna get better 😝

[RuthlessAggression]

trump supproters

maybe it's cause i stand him but, every time i try to understand a trump supporter, i feel like i lose iq points

[abigailjones95]

My partner is lol. He says its because he's honest

[RuthlessAggression]

hahahahah

what a dumbass, both your boyfriend, and trump

[Blackcosmo]

How some people have no empathy or what it's like to be evil.
I just can't comprehend it and I have so much hatred for them.

[Paul_in_Indy]

Just a caution: If you are indulging in hatred, then you probably know exactly what evil feels like. It’s not too late to turn away from both.

[Blackcosmo]

@Paul_in_Indy No evil is not the same as justified hatred. Would you like someone who killed a person?

[Blackcosmo]

When I say no empathy it means this person can kill without an issue or torture without caring. Sorry if I was unclear.

[Paul_in_Indy]

We should seek justice but hold mercy close.
Hatred and evil have the same source—a source that wishes you harm.
Hatred makes us unable to feel empathy. It encourages us to wish that bad things a will happen to people. Hatred always poisons the hater.

I’m not telling you should think poorly of yourself for feeling that way. You should have empathy for yourself, as well. But you can choose the better path.

I want you to grow up happy and healthy. Don’t drink poison and hope that someone else dies from it. That’s how hatred works.

[Anonymous]

I don't understand why women are obsessed with height. They say they aren't but they are. They flock in droves to the very first tall man to appear, I've seen it so many times. It has been explained to me in different contexts but I still don't understand it.

[RolandCuthbert]

The collapse of the wave function.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Is_QH3evpXw

[MCheetah]

(Straight) Women who claim height and penis size doesn't matter to women/them, despite all the evidence contrary. Are they lying, or just don't believe their own crap?

Also, Bitcoin.

[abigailjones95]

It matters to some people. Its about each individual and what they are attracted to. Some women genuinely dont care.

[MCheetah]

@abigailjones95
VERY few women genuinely don't care. Like 0.000001%.

[abigailjones95]

It probably is a low percentage, but unlikely that low :) I genuinely dont care, I care about how i am talked to and cared for. Some women care about height because they simply aren't physically attracted to people shorter than them, its an instinct thing, as tall = able to protect or something. Penis size is different all together and a different set of women will care about this perhaps because sexual pleasure is important to them and a small one may not feel as good or be able to satisfy the same way a big one can, perhaps if they are a like wider set down there or something

[MCheetah]

@abigailjones95
I'm neither tall nor well-endowed, so I know for sure that most women DO care about both; the former more than the latter, but both.

[abigailjones95]

Did they all tell you they were not interested because of that? or did you assume? Maybe you dont come off as someone that will be there for them or if you are simply talking about sex then thats completely different because for a woman to just have sex, there would at least have to be a physical attraction, which yes woman are more attracted to tall men, its instinctual. Initially my answer was based on forming a romantic relationship

[abigailjones95]

And i think some will pretend it doesn't matter because otherwise society will judge them as if were not allowed preferences.

[MCheetah]

@abigailjones95
They told me that yes, because I asked them. Otherwise, they wouldn't have said it. And no, I am not the cheap sex type or the aromantic type. I specifically wanted a girlfriend/relationship. I've only been with ten girls in my life and literally only one - who was 191 cm, or 6'3.5" - didn't mind me being as short as I am, despite being 4.5" shorter than her. All except one girl, were shorter than she was, and still hated my height.

[abigailjones95]

Then why say they claim to not?

[MCheetah]

@abigailjones95
In public, they say height and penis size doesn't matter. But if you pester them long enough (especially as a guy who is lacking one or both), you can get the truth out of them. What women *claim* about not caring if a man is short or not, is not what they actually believe. But they just don't want to come off "shallow." At least, that used to be the case. Now women make excuses for being shallow.

[abigailjones95]

lol its not shallow for someone to have a preference. Some people need or prioritise physical attraction or sexual pleasure. We all need different things when it comes to relationships and all different people offer different things. Everyone should be allowed that choice without being labelled shallow.

[MCheetah]

@abigailjones95
I don't care what excuses people give for it, but it's pretty damn shallow to judge someone negatively and as inferior based on things they had zero control over and cannot change, like height, penis size, ethnicity, etc. At least judge people on things that are within their control and that they could change, if need be. You don't have to think of it as such, but I consider that as incredibly shallow and not compatible with of good character.

[exitseven]

Writing a computer program. I can look at an existing program and tell you what it will do but I could never write a program from the ground up.

[NathanDavis]

Aaron Rodgers making even more money... every year, lol

[TransAm85]

I agree w/u on that.. He's getting old.

[NathanDavis]

@TransAm85 would be hilarious... if he moves to San Francisco or somewhere else, and ends up winning the Super Bowl for another team, lol

[TransAm85]

I think Rodgers is from California actually. But I don't wish another team to win.. only the Packers! lol Rodgers should just retire and go get married or something..

[JakeS00]

Trying to understand how you can get the same answer from doing it in 5 different ways in calculus or harder math.

[Agape93]

Why people feel guilt over standing up for themselves

[abigailjones95]

usually its because as a child, standing up for yourself resulted in abuse

[Agape93]

But I still don't understand how it leads to guilty feelings. I was abused growing up and I've never once felt guilty for pushing back.

[FilmGuy93]

You have a healthy sense of boundaries though. A lot of people don't. And so they've been conditioned to feel like they owe their abuser a certain amount of leeway to step on them.

[Agape93]

Why though? Like, I legit don't understand guilt, much less for this

[FilmGuy93]

It's just the lack of a sense of healthy boundaries. The person has been conditioned to believe that they are supposed to let other people walk over them. Their mind treats not letting someone do that as not doing what they are expected to do.

[Agape93]

Interesting, thanks for explaining

[abigailjones95]

@FilmGuy93 exactly

[DizzyDesii]

Calculus
People defending weed smoking/eating
Losing faith especially in God