Guys, this guy met in passing (he had immediate infatuation) is "bummed" out I'm not coming to his place when visiting his city... why?

By immediate infatuation I mean he was trying to call us boyfriend/girlfriend within the first time we actually met in person (I'd texted him a few times before, he's an associate's cousin).

It's a 2 hour trip by train to get to his city & I'm making a special trip to do this to see some local attractions. And he's "bummed out" that I won't be coming to his apartment.

You don't actually think he was expecting sex or what not do you?

I've done ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to lead the guy on except be nice to him - as I am to everyone - and I have NEVER ONCE said anything remotely sexual or dressed / acted remotely sexual.

Guys, this guy met in passing (he had immediate infatuation) is "bummed" out I'm not coming to his place when visiting his city... why?
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