Hows your day so faaar?

[DizzyDesii]

Just when I thought today would be great, I get a text from the dad “Hru?” Lmao lazy mf couldnt even spell out “How are you?”... For now I’ll just ignore his text but around 8p, I may text “Alive”. I dont want to text before then because he may try to visit. So I’m getting my “out of town” lies together as we speak. Because the bastard only texts when he’s coming to town. I just really don’t want my day ruined. I’m trying to watch George Lopez in peace as I ignore my work duties. I mean did he not get the memo back in Feb when I locked myself in the bathroom and refused to come out when he forced his way into my house... and then he blamed me for him having a mini heart attack and I never called to check on him? I don’t hate the man but i just dont fck with him. Why does he keep on tryin me

#FeelFreeToList #HeyHowAreYa

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1 y

Lmao this man is such a joke. He’s now blowing up my moms phone while she's at work. Then she's blowing me up while im at work saying He’s talking about “IS EVERYTHING OKAY, SHE didn't TELL ME HAPPY BIRTHDAY EARLIER THIS MONTH”. Ohh mahh gawwwd both my parents are delusional. I haven’t told that man happy birthday ever and I’m 27 now 😂 And i told him Happy Fathers day once and that was prob a decade ago. What is this man on about... i will continue to scroll past his texts like I dont see it

[ZenJen444]

Wait wait wait, 🤣 did he really say you caused a heart attack? There is no way you could do that. He had to have been sick long before what you did. My dad too. He hasn't been around for a long time (years ) since my parents divorced he stopped coming around and calling. Would pop up once in a blue moon make promises he'd always break. He even had the audacity to text me randomly after not hearing from him for years saying ," you could've wished me happy fathers day". I informed him that fathers day is for FATHERS. You know fathers who are there to help them grow up, soccer games, boy trouble, graduation, father daughter dances. Then he said he had a seizure because he was worried about me. He was never worried before all those years he wasn't around. I got to the point I don't even answer his calls anymore so he stopped calling and now text. I just copy his lousy ass text and past it back to him.

[ZenJen444]

That's manipulative, selfish, narcissistic behavior

[DizzyDesii]

Yea he tried to say me not coming to answer the door nor seeing him that day put him in a lot of stress. He was outside jumping up and down saying he's a diabetic and needs to be let in to pee. I ignored the door so he pissed in the backyard. I didn't care, i dont go back there anyways. And i dont hate the man. He and my mom split when I was prob 2 after my grandma sabotaged their engagement by planting things to make it look like he cheated. He tried to visit me a lot back then and i always refused to see him. Im just not a daddys girls and i dont care to fck with fam that i dont live with on the regular. So he’d only show up for graduations and stopped sending me money-less Christmas gift cards after i turned 12. It wasn't til i graduated college that I tried to give him a chance but he was doing too much. He was like “can you help my wife get a good paying job like yours? Can you spare some change? Why didn't you wish me happy fathers day? So you just werent gonna tell me happy bday?” And i told him exactly how i felt earlier this year when i text back “Nigga you just not that important. Deal with it.” But now he's textin again and im just not gonna respond.

[ZenJen444]

If he's a good dad and making an effort to come around then why not let him in? He doesn't sound anywhere near my dad. My dad wasn't a bad person he was just absent after my parents divorce. Your dad probably doesn't understand why you don't want to be bothered with him. Have you ever explained to him why you don't want to talk to him? Really though, why don't you talk to him?

[ZenJen444]

Omg that was harsh

[DizzyDesii]

I wouldn't say he's a good dad. he's a leech just like the rest of the fam. They see me as a walkng atm. He hasn't given me money since 12 but had the nerve to call asking for bill money soon as i got a job (when i haven't lived with him since age 2) and he only talks to me in hopes his wife gets a job. But his wife is tryna leave him now and he's lonely. He has other kids he can talk too. He be talkin about walkin me down the aisle. But he’ll be lucky if he even gets an invite. he's not a bad man but he's not a good dad. He only tries to do what he feels a preacher should do. Yea he's a preacher now after having had a kid by 4 different women. But at least he didn't cheat on any... as far as i know. I mean he was making moves tryna get back witht my mom while with his wife and claimed its just flirting and that married men can flirt. Man whatever. My grandma was prob right to set his ass up. And i told my dad I keep my circle small and that he's not in it. He couldnt understand that. Its simple, if i wasn't around you for the majority of my life, i just dont care for you. That goes for any fam that was outside of my household. He better recognize

[ZenJen444]

Yeah that makes sense cause I was like dang what he do wrong besides that heart attack thing🤣. Yeah mine had the nerve to ask me for money after years of not seeing me. I pretended I didn't even get the message. And like you said about the lonely thing. mine slipped up and told on himself as to why he popping up. Said ,"I'm lonely and I ain't got nobody." Once he said that and ask for money his agenda was clear he's a dang leech too. Yeah I don't fool with a lot of family either unless I grew up around them then I really don't care to see or speak to them.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea everyone these days has an agenda but when its your own parents, grandparents and siblings, it just makes you lose the utmost respect for them

[ZenJen444]

That part!

[midnightmoon05]

Lovely. Had cappuccino with hubby at 7:30am.
Just finished 90 facial/spa day.
Meeting up with my daughter to go to lunch then shopping.
it has been amazing!! The whole summer!! I feel so spoiled!!

[DizzyDesii]

Wow sounds amazing

[ohsheeT]

I'm just waking up and I started to answer a few questions and of course there's sex questions so once again my day starts with sex LOL but not the right type of sex because I'm giving my opinion instead of giving my blank I hate it when it's like that but other than that so far so good

[DizzyDesii]

😂😂

[RavVid]

Mines good. Even the scam callers aren't but I am starting to miss them. It is Saturday but what sort of work ethic have they got?

I would suggest blocking your father but it doesn't work with scam callers so you are better off turning your phone off and getting on with the movie.

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao what would blocking him do 😂

[RavVid]

Well isn't he calling/texting incessantly? Wouldn't blocking stop that? I have only had one experience of a Vesuvius texting girl. 100's of texts between 2 am and 4am on all the reasons why I am such a lousy specimen of a man. At least with the sound down the phone didn't go ping ping ping ping ping... ping ping ping and I could sleep.

Incessant texters know they are driving you crazy - it is why they do it..

[LovingLoverReturned]

Food was great. Workmates were great, sorry ti say lol... ... too much work... tired but safe at least.

Yikes, are there any relatives.. cousins... grandparents or anyone you are cool with?

[LovingLoverReturned]

Hope I don't come across attacking you. I just hope the best.. you don't have to say...

[DizzyDesii]

Im cordial with all. Its deep down that i can't stand em

[LaneHale42]

My day is going ok. I'm worried about my son like usual because he's flying somewhere with the ex.

I watched a few re run episodes of Dirty 30 yesterday on tv and that's always fun for a while. What a great show.

[DizzyDesii]

Lets pray he has a safe trip

[TrillXHippy]

So far so good for now. Went to McDonald’s and there was somebody smoking not that far from the door but I didn’t let it bother me. Last day of summer camp and the last spirit rally, sad sad face. The spirit rallies are the best part of summer camp for me. I gotta close today so I gotta get ready for that. If you don’t mind I’d like hear about your day throughout the day so that can cheer me up

[Dinklex3]

Slow. I think I'm just gunna go to the gym and come back to chill.

I'm tired and beat, lol.

I'm sorry that your dad ruined your chance of having a grear day though.!

[DizzyDesii]

Its better now though :)

[Dinklex3]

Today or that day?

[ShadezMcgee]

Day is getting better. Training is almost done, just five more days and a wake up before I get to go home. Can't wait to get out of here to see my family, friends and girlfriend.

[DizzyDesii]

Military training?

[ShadezMcgee]

Mhm. 29 days of AT.

[JDavid25]

I just got done working out and going on a date to the Museum later today, so not too bad.. Got the day off also.. So that's always a good thing.. 😁😁.. But, yeah too bad about your father..

[DizzyDesii]

Like an art museum?

[JDavid25]

Like a Medieval torture Museum.. We both been wanting to go, so now is the chance.. 😁😁..

[JDavid25]

It's funny cause we both work at the same Museum also.. 😂..

[DizzyDesii]

Ooo i always wondered what its like working at a museum. Do people just give tours all day

[JDavid25]

Nah, they do have volunteers give tours Mon-Fri I believe.. But, it's usually at a certain time.. I don't think the Museum is big enough for all day tours.. Lol..

[Th3ft]

Oh gosh he sounds like a pain in the ass! My day is going pretty good though. I have a full weekend coming up so I’m a little edgy … stressed you know.

[DizzyDesii]

He can't take no for an answer. Whats happening the weekend

[Th3ft]

Yeah he is delusional! Lol! It is cray what some people do or try to do to their kids.

[DizzyDesii]

He technically didn't do much wrong but he should give up like I've asked him to

[Th3ft]

Yeah

[Th3ft]

I’m finally out! And SO glad to be in the weekend!

[kellytheman]

Eh. My day kinda suck I worked 10 hours third shift and I was completely exhausted And ihad to help someone move a refrigerator. I am calling it a early night. Tomorrow might be better it will be my birthday.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea im also callin it early. Sleep well and happy early birthday

[kellytheman]

Thank you.

[pizzalovershouse]

Yah parents can test are nerves sense they know what pisses us off very quickly like if ny mom says shut up I'm like no you taught me you say be quiet is what you say but now she is older she goes there

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao love how you called her out

[pizzalovershouse]

I always point out what she taught me an give me the same respect I give you

[Agape93]

Good. Been writing and drawing for the last few hours so my hand and wrist are sore but aside that it's good

[DizzyDesii]

Man i hate the carpal tunnel shit

[Agape93]

Same. Popped an advil

[DizzyDesii]

Mine gets so bad i have to stop for half a day

[Agape93]

Oh fun

[DizzyDesii]

I used to draw and write teen romance stories up until i graduated college. Those days are over

[Agape93]

How come?

[DizzyDesii]

Unofficial Carpal tunnel or whatever the shit was making my hand cramp up

[Agape93]

Don't you just love that?

[JSmuve]

You've got some real daddy drama there, don't you desii. On a lighter note, my day's fine. I went to the gym, had a nice workout, ate some lunch.

[DizzyDesii]

Its technically no drama. He just keeps trying to insert himself where he's not wanted. And yea a nice workout sounds relaxing right about now

[NathanDavis]

it's been an interesting day so far, still early though... time to get busier

[DizzyDesii]

Good luck with that. Im getting off work and calling it a day

[NathanDavis]

don't you ignore your work duties... lmfao

[DizzyDesii]

No i meant my shift was actually ending and I was getting off work

[talka20]

Mine was good... slept well... super early morning hangout w cousins on motorbikes... ate good... prayed... had tea twice

[DizzyDesii]

Dang that sounds ideal

[Dargil]

Sufficient. My expectations are not high but I'm OK.

[DizzyDesii]

Dang i thought i replied to this. But jus tkeep on surviving man

[FinalFantasyBro]

I am about to jump in the shower because I have another interview today, it's at a burger joint known as Five Stars.

[DizzyDesii]

Hope you get it man

[Shark_61695]

Yeah, been working from home, figured some things out and now I'm off for a week. Just got 90 mins left and not much to fill it.

[DizzyDesii]

Man a week off must be nice!

[Shark_61695]

Doing a tour of family. I'm not a fan of being off work, I struggle to find things to do but it's my birthday so kind of required to see relatives.

[DizzyDesii]

Happy early bday:)

[Ad_Quid_Orator]

I just got up and now I'm chilling with this little girl:

[DizzyDesii]

Haha

[DrillBeats]

Just some advice. Respond to your Dad while you still can. Let home visit. Let home love you. Life is unpredictable. Try to have as few regrets as possible.

[DizzyDesii]

I dont regret it. Im good

[DrillBeats]

Cool.