Why do I still want someone that hurt me in my past? How do I let them go and not focus on the situation?

[Rose00]

[ohsheeT]

Sometimes in life we pick the bad people because we're not confident within ourselves and when we hang out with bad people are we hang out with people that have hurt us and when things happen we always have an excuse we can blame it on somebody else and that's sad because that's not the way life is that's not the way life should be now it could either be that reason or

There was a day when you first m e a n t and you could feel that person's energy and then the very first time you had sex there became a point of clarity where two energies became one and that feeling was so beautiful you'll never forget it but you have to remember that is not love that feeling is not love even though you love the feeling people mistake it as love it's really two energies becoming one and if you can do that in your everyday life and feel that feeling that you felt it will change your whole life that's what we are all supposed to be feeling that's what we all here on this Earth to do is to give and share that feeling it doesn't have to be through sex or making love it comes from being one with the universe with yourself with other people other things you want that feeling again that's the reason why you want to be with that person and what you have to understand is that feeling is inside of you it is the most beautiful feeling you will ever feel in life you need to find it within yourself though

[coolbreeze]

You probably still miss them and it's hard to let that go. I suggest you date other people because that sometimes help with getting over somebody. Also make yourself happy and do fun things to stay busy. Distractions can help with forgetting and getting over people.

[BrunoCuritiba]

This has already happened to me, unfortunately I only managed to forget the person over time and it was very difficult. Meet new people, it helps. g ood luck, you will make it

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Just tell yourself there is someone out there who can love you better.