I always feel dumb I don’t think I am but I feel thst way?

[Anonymous]

I know im not i just feel my brain process is slower abd to be smart and clever and communicate well i need to think a lot before doing. Do you get what i am saying? Maybe it’s just self esteem issues and thst i don’t believe in myself enough. I was bullied as a child so i think that does play a part but i also have adpergers.

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And sorry so my question is could it be low self esteem? thank you.

[Light909090]

Your not dumb you just don’t care 🤷‍♂️ About thinking about things and you wanna be yourself and people judge you they may not say anything but you pick up on there judgment and your trying to Think it’s your fault but it’s simply not. You wanna be yourself and when your yourself people see that as a weakness I know because I do the same thing I don’t care 🤷‍♂️ To be someone I’m not does that make work harder on me yeah does it make my employers Treat me differently than other employers sure but I don’t wanna stop being myself but for someone to stop seeing you as a Weakness you just need to Quit caring to Quit expressing yourself because all that does is make people compare you and judge you to what they wanna believe them they will do things and because you talked about who you are they think they know you so they Treat you differently and then eventually they Fire you as an employee because they see you as nothing but a weakness because you asked Questions talked about Yourself because you didn’t wanna go into a Job acting like a robot 🤖
People see Robots as Superior Ever notice how people that Know how to act like a robot 🤖 become managers and bosses
Ever notice how They treat robots at work better than people who have a personality people who come to work with a personality being themselves End up getting Picked on by other employees and the managers I know because I don’t go into work as a robot 🤖 I go into work and everywhere for that matter with a personality I try to see good in others but Considering people walk around as robots without a personality manipulate and lie to get ahead and crap like that when they get Rewarded they Want more but someone with a personality gets Rewarded and Doesn’t manipulate
To feel Rewarded that person may withdrawal from things because they feel there not Valued as a person but the person who doesn’t manipulate won’t Seek out Benefits getting rewarded through manipulation they will simply Get picked on for being true to themselves and nobody will Care because people only care about other people if they feel bad or guilty about something that’s why people who are manipulative get What they want because they make the other person care by Getting that person to feel guilt and that person will do anything to not be seen as the bad guy


While the other one the one that doesn’t manipulate won’t manipulate a persons feelings there for nobody will care about that person and will pick on that person because they feel Justified in picking on that person.


Make a person feel guilty They will treat you good don’t make someone feel guilty they will pick on you and will feel justified doing it.


If you got any questions just ask me

[Light909090]

Act like a weakness get Treated like a Weakness

Act like a strength you get treated like a Strength.

[MrOracle]

If you have Asperger's, it means that your brain doesn't recognize certain patterns like most people's brain does - mostly social cues and perhaps humor. It does NOT mean you aren't intelligent.

Elon Musk has Asperger's, and no one is going to say that he's not smart - he's likely to be the wealthiest man in the world for the next 50 years, because of companies HE built and led. But, yeah, he's also made some very questionable relationship choices, and I suspect Asperger's is part of the reason for that.

You've got an extra challenge that most people don't have, but that doesn't mean you can't become successful - you might just face more struggles in certain areas than most people do. You might also be better at some things than most people are, even if you haven't figured out what those things are yet. People with Asperger's are often able to focus on problems better/more completely, and come up with better solutions, for example.

Not everyone is comfortable with someone being different, but being different doesn't mean WORSE, it just means different. Find your strengths and focus on those, and people will mostly forget about your weaknesses.

[Asker]

Yeah true. Thanks this was very informative. :)

[Mark987]

I always thought the same way. Around my friends who are all engineers, accountants, lawyers, and financial advisors. I work in the finance world but talking with my friends now I feel dumb sometimes... it's just a self esteem issue.. trust me in other ways you are smarter than them

[es20490446e]

Dumb people achieve great things all the time. Intelligence is overrated.

[Asker]

I dont think i am dumb.

[Asker]

But cool

[es20490446e]

Speaking of worst case scenario.

[Iron_Man]

Go to the gym gain some confidence practice talking to people you will improve a lot

[Asker]

Yes good idea. Thank you, going out to the world should work..

[Asker]

Into* sorry my English isint perfect

[Iron_Man]

It’s ok good luck

[Asker]

Thank you so much❤️🙂

[Iron_Man]

You are so welcome