I met a guy off reddit last week and we talked on the phone for 2 hours. he's 30, and he seems into me. Then Friday we met at a park he lived across the street from, and we played basketball and talked. Then it started to get cold. Originally I didn't want him in my car cause I didn't know him. It got cold after an hour and we got into the car because it was FREEZING. he doesn't have a car yet. Then we were talking and he asked for a hug in the car and we started to make out. We were in a school parking lot and he got handsy so we parked somewhere else. Then after I drove around.
UGH I knew it was unsafe... why did I do this? I told myself to not do this. I mean I'm fine and I'm sure he is too it started off safe.. I have to be careful and it didn't feel right but I was having such a good time. I don't even know this man that well. So I'm gonna stay my distance still. I don't trust easily. It wasn't that bad, but could've been worse.
Any other day I wouldn't of let it happen if it was warm out. It just got so cold, and we were sitting on the cold bleachers. I feel so dumb... but I'm fine. It was a stupid decision. My one friend met up guys off tinder at their homes... and she's okay. I won't let it happen again, I even told him when we were making plans I didn't feel comfortable with him in my car. Till later of course.
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I don't get it. You are making out and he tries to take it to the next level and you abort and you are pissed. He did allow you to abort after all. This should be expected do you want a completely passive partner that doesn't initiate anything? So yeah don't make out if you don't want him to touch you on any private parts because that is the next step. Him wanting more should be a expected consequence of your actions. So if you for one moment think you can do actions without reactions you are dumb.
No no I wasn't mad about him getting handsy. I told him no when I was uncomfortable. I just don't know if he's just looking to hookup? We hung out for an hour beforehand and talked. And even though I cut off the make out he wanted us to drive around and talk still.
It takes time to determine that, him taking an opportunity doesn't exclude that he is open for more or want more.
I see. Thank you. I'll just give it time then.