Is calculating the time to reply back petty?

[Anonymous]

Im usually always available and on my phone so Im ready to text back immediately. But when people take a while, I dont want to text back too soon. I take as long as they did and then some. But I also heard that texting back too fast is a red flag too?

[NotTacocaT6969]

Petty? No, not really.


Unnecessary and obsessive? Yeah, pretty much,

[TacticalLizard]

Texting back Instantly isn’t always a red flag 🚩 Could be a sign of manipulation but that’s it.
Text back when you wanna

[UniquelyBasic]

Sounds petty for sure. Just respond when you can. They might be busy.

[Jenny-Marie]

Is it really important? Some of us have a life divorced from social media.

[dudeinohio]

Don't play games. Reply as soon as you can.