What have happened to you?

[pedroMarcus]

What's the worse thing that ever happened to you?

[ShellyB]

My grandma's death, we were close :(

I guess I have a pretty good life bc the other biggest thing, which was horrible at the time, at least helped me find myself and I think deflated my ego in a good way, which was an emotionally abusive relationship that ended six years ago, it had a lot of aftereffects and still does, but it also helped me know what is important to me and I am in a great healthy relationship now so I think in the long run it was not that bad.

The other worst thing that has no positive effect was a hookup gone wrong where I was willing to do sex but he did butt sex against my will, I was really shaken and affected by that. Again this was years ago (it was a rebound after the other emotionally abusive relationship I was still 19) things are good now but unlike the other relationship I mentioned, I give this one no credit for things being good now!!

[Sour-rose]

It has been 5 weeks without my car, therefore no second paycheck. I've never been so long without my car. Nothing tops this. Besides losing my dog, nothing has been this bad in my life.

[pedroMarcus]

Okay so sorry sweetheart

[exitseven]

I was in graduate school getting my Computer Science degree. I was trying to start a new career in IT and I was really struggling with the program. I was not sure I was going to be able to do it and even if I did I was a lot older than your typical graduate and did not know if anyone would hire me. I had a wife and 3 kids to support and if this did not work out I did not know what would happen to us. Then just as I was getting ready for midterms my father died suddenly. I never thought of him as old. Somehow I pulled it all together and got through the exams but it was pretty brutal.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[genericname85]

i got a few pretty damn painfull injuries and surgeries in my lifetyme. but the worst was the emotional pain from being rejected by a long term crush.

[Andridaca]

What is bad, exactly? Why differentiate? When people see some things as good, other things become bad. When people see some things as bad, other things become good.

all is fair, as is the Way.

[clampfan101]

My childhood sweetheart died. 😢
We wanted to marry when we could. She was perfect inside and out.

[pedroMarcus]

So sorry my friend

[tfan1]

Losing my dad to esophageal cancer the day After my birthday. I sure hope it isn’t hereditary and I’m next 😬

[TroyDT2]

Outside of parents and grandparents all dying before I reached 20? I got hit by a car.

[DancingQueen16]

In 7th grade I accidently spilled ketchup on my white uniform shirt during lunch and I didn't have an extra shirt so I had to walk around like that all afternoon

[pedroMarcus]

That was a mess

[Agape93]

Raped and nearly murdered

[pedroMarcus]

🤔🤔so sorry

[Andridaca]

Are you an advocate/member of Thelema?
And with the two events considered, how are you doing?

[Agape93]

Member yes, and mentally I'm fucked, physically ok.

[Andridaca]

How do you cope?

[Agape93]

Drinking, medication, keeping myself busy.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I almost drowned around age 11

[Twalli]

Probably torture

[MCheetah]

Everything.

[Anonymous]

Being born.

[Andridaca]

My friend, I understand why you disgrace life, but you must start living. What has happened to you?