If you use fighting skills to bully someone into submission you're a coward right?

[Anonymous]

This was in 2018. I was kind of drunk at a club once. Power and control got to me for some reason. I pinned someone down and the more the person was trying to fight back, the worse. I already knew the moves, deflected them and started laughing. We were off course separated afterwards.

That's the only time I've used it for no good reason. Feels bad though. That must probably be an insult to my former Sensei... if he were to learn one of his former students used it to bully someone into submission. I guess that makes me a coward right?

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I was dealing with some anger issues, was drunk at the moment and too much got in my head.

[MCheetah]

That makes you sound like a pretty sh*tty person, to be honest. I don't know if it's "cowardly," but I used to beat up people like that when I was in high school and far less "mentally stable" than I am now. An anti-bully, they'd call it. The people like me, who were too morally sound to bully or assault innocent people, but had too much f*cked up baggage and home drama, to not want to knock someone's teeth out without facing prison time for it. I'm far more law abiding now than I was in high school, but it still pisses me off.

I guess if you feel bad about it, it's better than nothing. But you still haven't done anything to fix the problem. And I'm pretty sure I know what "petite" female on here is behind the pink silhouette, as well.

[Asker]

I actually do feel bad. I was drunk that day and had a lot of anger issues. I was similar to you once. I would used my skills to stand up against those getting bullied.
Then I let it get too much in my mind and that's the one single day I used it to bully someone.

[Summeroflove]

Yeah. Especially because bullies pick on people who they don’t think can fight back. Which makes them the coward.

[Asker]

What if they could fight back against the average person (I'm not the average Jane) but had no chance with me even if that person tried?

[Asker]

That day I picked on someone that clearly had no skills. I took advantage of my skills against an average person. I was drunk.

[Summeroflove]

Still wrong

[TroyDT2]

I see how it was wrong, but I do not see how it was cowardly.

[Asker]

It feels bad though. I was pinning down someone that had no chance, not even if they were trying to fight back.

[Asker2022]

Such a turn off, girls shouldn’t act like this.

grow up.

[Asker]

It feels bad. I did wrong. I was drunk that day and had anger issues in the past.

[Asker2022]

Try controlling the amount you drink.
You know a girl can get drunk from just a glass.

[Asker]

It took 3 glasses of beer and a tiny bit of rum to get me drunk.

[Asker2022]

I bet it was the rum that got you loco

[Anonymous]

Was that a guy? Did you overpower a guy? What martial art style do you practice?

[Asker]

An average Joe. I was drunk and had anger issues in the past. It still was wrong. Judo and MMA

[Opinion Owner]

You don’t have a background in any standup styles? Kickboxing, Boxing, Muay Thai or something?

And it’s quite surprising that you overpowered a guy if that’s true.

[Asker]

Yes our Sensei (he was a creative instructor) sometimes would focus on boxing and kickboxing. It's not surprising. It depends on who is the girl and the frame and who is the guy.
He had no chance, seemed a bit underweight and no skills. He was just an average Joe, easy target.

[Opinion Owner]

Could you follow me? I’m into kickboxing too and I’ve done some Muay Thai as well.

[Anonymous]

Well, some guys like to be pinned by girls.