How would you feel if your daughter was accepting money from Guys?

[Finchie40]

I just found out my 21 year old daughter is on some site for desperate men , She isn’t having sex with them but meeting them at restaurants because they are lonely and paying her a lot of
Money to go out to dinner with them , I went ballistic when I found out she was doing this shit, and told her how dumb she is for doing it risking her life and how dangerous this shit could be, she said she only did it a couple times and made a nice chunk of cash and she made sure she took some of her friends with her to watch her back , without the guy knowing , I lost my shit and told her no more, that money is not that important for her to be playing with fire , She told me it was all married Guys that were on business trips and mostly doctors, Girls, if you are Married to a doctor , divorce his ass now!!! She said all they wanted was a companion to go out to dinner with and paid her 500 bucks for an hour of her time , Are people that fucking desperate? All I thought was his poor wife and kids , Like who does this shit? Are people that fucked up? My daughter is a very beautiful girl , she got it from her Dad lol But I didn’t Raise my kids to do stupid shit like this , Social media has destroyed the way this world is in my opinion. I feel so lost when it comes to shit like this , I am happy she is safe and
That she claims she isn’t doing it again but How would You feel if you found out your daughter was doing shit like this? I am sick to my stomach thinking about it. Sick world we live in

[jennifer_bloom]

I think she is sleeping with them, a guy is not going to pay $500 to have dinner with a stranger when he is married and if the guy really was a doctor, he would not need to pay $500 because there are hundreds of girls that would date and sleep with them for free.

[Finchie40]

Nope she proved it to me, she showed me The conversation and everything

[Anonymous]

I’d be worried because yes, as you said it’s not safe. Very dangerous. With that being said, I don’t care about the men. If they want to be desperate and pay women like this then that’s their business - as long as they’re single. If they’re taken it’s not right and I would be upset with my daughter about that too. But yes, a lot of people (well mostly men) are really this desperate. There are lots of guys who even buy used socks/underwear and pee, yes urine, from women. There are ”moneyslaves” who will just send you money for nothing even though you never met them before and showed no nudity, no sex talk nothing, because it turns them on to be used for their money and be a girls wallet. And imagine yourself being 21 and getting paid $500 and free food for going out to eat with a woman for an hour. It’s not weird some women will agree to do it.

[Sparkie460]

I have heard of a lot of girls doing this. I'd be really upset if my daughter did it but I wouldn't be able to stop her. She is an adult. I could kick her out of the house but then she'd do it more. I hope your daughter does stop doing that because it is very dangerous. There are some sick guys out there. If she showed you the messages between her and the guys and sex isn't involved maybe she is just having dinner with them. They must be really lonely to pay 500 to have dinner with them.

[Finchie40]

Yes she stopped , and realized it was dangerous and awkward , she did show me the messages , well I made her show me them. I still told her she was crazy to do it but I am happy she is safe , but I am not happy , I could Tell money wasn’t an issue to these guys , like I said they were married doctors , which was even more pathetic but it just showed how desperate people are and made me sick to my stomach that people think money is everything and people will do stupid shit for money. My daughter knows I was upset with her for being so naïve, I said you are an adult but you will not be doing that shit living in my home, who is to say one of these psycho fucks follows you home and starts stalking you , I said you need to stop thinking of yourself , She knows I don’t tolerate shit like this and I told her if she does it again and I find out she won’t be living here anymore , She knows I don’t tolerate selfishness especially after what her mother did to me , People that only think of themselves when it comes to making decisions don’t stand a chance with me , it’s either you be respectful or get the fuck out , why I am so against people cheating and having affairs , if you aren’t happy in a relationship then leave don’t string someone along for your selfishness, who’s To say that person they are having an affair with doesn’t show up and murder the person you are stringing along? I watch a lot of true crime lol people do not have common sense and most people only think of themselves , A relationships will not last of you canMt remove selfishness for each other , it’s just a waste of time

[Sparkie460]

I can see we are on the same page with our family

[OlderAndWiser]

I seriously doubt that someone paid her $500 just to eat dinner!

[Agape93]

Fine with it long as she's an adult and being safe. It could be worse, chill. She could have been doing what a few of my friends do.

[Finchie40]

I am happy she is safe but it’s still dangerous , She knows I would kill for her

[Agape93]

Good man.
It's definitely dangerous but could be worse. So at least there's that

[Finchie40]

People are Just fucked up and why this world has gone to hell , I can’t even meet a girl nowadays that doesn’t want money from me , and wants to call me Daddy , if I do meet one that doesn’t want money then she is secretly married cheating on her husband with me , People are absolutely fucked up lol

[NathanDavis]

either you did raise her and this is the result...

or you didn't raise her... and this is the result

always much easier to be all upset than taking responsibility

[Finchie40]

Yea she takes after her mother lol

[NathanDavis]

exactly the reply I was expecting... lol

[Finchie40]

I blame social media for a lot of reasons, mainly why relationships fail, People not wanting to work , people
Constantly comparing each other etc. I lived in a time when we didn’t really have much access to this shit and now our kids came into this world with smart phones right at their finger tips , filling their heads with useless knowledge of things they really shouldn’t be paying attention to , I couldn’t imagine being a child and having this shit drilled into my head

[NathanDavis]

and who gave her internet and phones and did not supervise her time on them... who was responsible for that in the first place?

are you a present parent or an absent parent? you two still married? or split?

[Finchie40]

Divorced and we didn’t give the kids phones until they were late teens

[NathanDavis]

glad ours kids have phones since earlier, and we taught them better...

so far, anyway...

[Thisrandomname]

Lots of girls do this. I agree it’s kinda dangerous, I wouldn’t want my sister who’s a similar age doing it, but that being said you can make a lot of easy money, so if you believe she’s intelligent id warn her of possibilities (although I’m sure she’s aware of them) but let her continue to do it. She is after all, an adult

[Dinosaursandanime65]

So she’s a rental girlfriend (prostitution but without the part where you get funky)?

[Guy13]

Not a good situation from my perspective