How would you feel if someone told you that you ruined their life?

[Anonymous]

[MCheetah]

Either they'd be a liar, or they 100% would have deserved it, and I'd laugh in their face. I haven't ruined anyone's life who didn't 100% deserve it before. The ones I have... They know what they did. Which is why I didn't "off their on-switch;" that's too merciful and quick.

[Asker]

Psychopath

[MCheetah]

A psychopath is someone who is callous, unemotional, depraved, nd out of touch with reality. Learn your terms before you speak them.

And I can see that YOU were the one to ruin someone else's life, I see. Classic narcissistic behavior.

[Asker]

Psychopath in denial of being a psychopath

[DaveJord]

Honestly if would make feel sad for the other person, because obviously they lack some degree of emotional maturity.

I have been in shit relationships, toxic terrible relationships... but they did not run me. So I think if someone said that to me, " get over yourself drama queen!"

BYEEEEEAH! 👋

[Asker]

Who said anything about relationships?

[DaveJord]

Who said it could not be? Pissssh... please! 🙄

If someone says I ruined their life the permise is that we had some type of relationship... friends or what ever... seriously they had to know me on some level... so there's a relationship right? Get over, yourself and move on.

[Asker]

No, I wouldn't say so.

If someone was held at gunpoint, and that caused the other person to be disturbed all the time, that person has zero relationship with the other.

Don't assume.

[Asker]

You remind me of that typical narrow-minded bigotry that some peopel tend to have - which is without even listening to the context of a situation assuming that they, a mere stranger, somehow know better.

[DaveJord]

Pot calling the kettle black... you need to calm down. Your no better than what you are accusing me of. Which honestly your reaching. Stop hating and start loving, starting with yourself.

[Asker]

You are a moron. You don’t even know me what do you know about me?

[DaveJord]

You say this shit to me, but you don't even realize that you came at me first... so obviously there's some hidden trigger or insecurity in you. You make all these false equivalents and honestly sound pretty irrational. Accuse me of doing or being something I am not, while you pretend it's me that is making assumptions.

In your post you give no context... there is literally no explanation or criteria set... so, for someone to have ruined my life means that they had some type of impact on my life, which fundamentally implies we were associated in some way. Meaning there was some type of connection or relationship. Other than the question you ask you give no substantive information then come at me for "making assumptions", because obviously my response triggered something in you.

So again, I state, for any one person to ruin my life, is more of statement about myself then the other person. Shit happens deal with it in a healthy way and move on. Take some ownership over the process and responsibility for the solution and quit blaming others. It happens to people all the time that outside of their control, but how we respond and overcome adversity is what makes us who we are.

I did not name call at any point, but here you are calling me names and leveling accusations at me... and your blind to the very toxic nature of it all, which is being projected onto me from you.

All I am saying is that you're putting too much into the bullshit you're trying to place on me, when honestly it is really about you. So go do some self-reflection on yourself and determine what it is you need to do, in order to be the best version of yourself possible.

[Asker]

FUCK YOU

[DaveJord]

I will pray for you and hope you find a place in which you can health from.

Oh, I don't pray honestly... but still wish you the best.

[lalaloveee]

I wouldn't feel anything because both my ex's already told me that

[Agape93]

Oh well, welcome to the club of fucked up lives. Dinner is at 6pm.

[SnowedIn]

I'd question the premise of their statement. Humans can be incredibly shitty to each other but "ruin my life" is a tall order. Life is an incredibly long time and I'd raise the BS flag if that was said.

[exitseven]

I would feel really bad if they were a former girlfriend and it was true.

[FilmGuy93]

It would make me sad, and then I would ask them what I did that had such an impact on them.

[Summeroflove]

Depended on who said it and why

[LavLavLuv]

Um what did i do

[MCheetah]

Indonesian Murder Pact.

[clampfan101]

Depends on their reason and how true it was.

[Anonymous]

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