What would you do or say if this happened to you?

[Horror_lover92]

So an co worker at the store my friends works at came along to hangout with us, she asked us for advice and we really didn't know how to go by this because we don't know the whole story? So basically, she's friends with a guy she knows at college ( she has a boyfriend ) so they like to hangout after studying, so it went from studying partners to a platonic friendship. So one night he called her while he was wasted if she can pick him up from a party he was. She agreed and picked him up. So she was telling us that he was mumbling stuff that maybe he thought was thinking to himself, but he was saying it out loud about, " how he respects her and her boyfriend and he's not that type of guy". Now she's worried thinking he might start having sexual feelings about her or she could be overthinking it. She's afraid that she might lose a friendship if this was something she started to overthink even though it's not true at all.

[teamvic]

Hmmm so there's a good chance he could have sexual desires towards her. It's just a matter of him trying to act on it is her concern. So for example I have friends on Instagram that I'm 100 percent cool with being just friends. I've never even mentioned or hinted anything sexual towards them ever. But if they wanted to I would definitely fuck them. No second thought. Now him saying he's not that type of guy, is KINDA a good sign, ish? Because I feel when people are drunk that's what they're truly feeling and how they really feel comes out. But I feel as long as she doesn't give him signs that it could lead to that then it should be okayy. Maybe. It is entirely possible he could try something on her anyway but if she corrects it and keeps reminding him she don't see him like that it should be fine. Theoretically. Because they do say guys and girls can't be just friends because eventually one ends up falling for the other if not both. But that's all in theory anyway. I think she just shouldn't worry about it for now. Until he gives her a reason to. you know

[Horror_lover92]

Thank you so much!! I told her everything and she told me that, he was texting her and calling asking if he didn't do anything that will stop them from being friends, so now she feels like he really thinks of her as friends but she will keep her guard up just in case but she will stop over thinking and enjoy the friendship they have.