What makes a woman respectable to you?

[Audiofox]

Is it career, financial responsibility and assets?

Behaviour regarding things like self control, social skills, respect for others and integrity? Being religiously inclined or nurturing? Sense of fashion, clothing choices, weight control and health consciousness? Is submissiveness important to you?

[MrOracle]

Men DO NOT CARE about a woman's education, career, or income. That's something women care about men, but men want completely different things in a woman, and a degree or a career do nothing for the things that men care about, except that they are actually a negative to many men, because it means she likely squandered her most valuable years (as a potential serious relationship partner/wife) pursuing those things instead, that she is more likely to be indoctrinated by radical Feminism and wokeness, and that she is likely to have student debt.

To most men, and definitely to the men that YOU would pick as a husband/father of your children, what makes a woman respectable is:

- low body count
- morals, values, and boundaries that are always upheld
- a family-first focus.
- wanting to be a partner/teammate with a man, not a competitor against him.
- no children from another man

Nothing in this list relies on an advanced education, career, or high income, and nothing on the list can be substituted by those things.

I'm not trying to be a dick about this, but it seems that every woman believes that men will value education, career, and income in a woman just like a woman does in a man, and that is not only far from the truth, but it will only lead to a host of bad assumptions and choices for the women who believe this. You can't figure out a successful strategy if you don't know the facts of the situation you are facing.

[RavVid]

Respectable or desirable? I be interested in the answers to this in the sense of what guys look for in a woman.

First line - nothing I care about there.

Second sentence. Integrity most of all then self control, social skills including respect for others.

Third sentence. Nurturing loving disposition. Don't care about religion but do care about a strong moral compass see integrity above.

Fourth. Weight control and health conscious definitely. A stylish sense is definitely a plus.

Fifth. Submissiveness in the bedroom. Yay!!! If I want sex I want to get it.

Not mentioned but very important to me. Generally happy and consolable (I am bound to do something wrong). Appreciative. A sense of humor.

[AnUglyBarnacle]

Quiet strength, the kind that doesn't need to loudly boast or make itself known. It shows, doesn't tell.

A nurturing heart, seeking to incubate and shepherd out the best in people.

Dignity and recognizing her own value, justly rewarding those who've earned it.

Restraint, not given over to fits of impulse or short-term hedonism.

[dowser19]

Not being a native English speaker gives her the benefit of the doubt in my eyes. That doesn't mean that can't be proven wrong... but in my experiences it's proven right far more than wrong. It's not about her gender, it's the culture she comes from. The West is trash.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Financial assets are of interest to me. But it is not like I am after them or something. That is not even on my mind. Got enough as it is lol.😅

Everything you said in the second paragraph except the submissive behaviour.

[Andres77]

That they’re a human being. Everyone starts out getting my respect

[Andres77]

It’s what they do after we engage that determines how much respect I’ll retain for her (or anyone).

[Juxtapose]

Us men don't care about your money, social status or any of that shallow bullshit. As long as you can pay rent why wouldn't we?

We respect loyalty, reliability and compassion. We don't want to be undermined or tricked.

[Juxtapose]

*why would we

[es20490446e]

Just being a decent person makes it for me.

Probably that won't be appreciated by all people, but it will by the right person.

And don't date online, it is all about looks.

[Berethor]

Mainly if she not a ho, men usually don't care about how much money a woman has.

[Nik1hil]

I respect a women if I am dependent on her!..

[Shamalien]

It’s sticking to her word. Also not sleeping around. But really, emotional stability and sticking to one’s word

[AmeerX]

Respectable women is good girl, good fashion sense. Not sluttish except in bed, submissive and integrity

[Anonymous]

Effort. Not everyone can be terribly successful. But a woman that tries vs. Tries to just skate by on her gender is the determining factor.

[Anonymous]

Financial intelligence and well assets to prove it absolutely

[Abdulwahh]

Well being trustworthy, sincerity, fun, helpful.

[Brando10222]

It's the character for me

[Kelly6]

If women respects men then men will do same

[Tracker1958]

Purity, all the rest is unimportant

[In_Trance]

A balance of all of the above

[CreedOfIron]

Tbh... nothing

[call_me_scar]

Being a good person