How do I sabotage someone's relationship?

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How do I sabotage a female friend's new relationship with a guy? Can I do anything to break them up or stop them from getting together in the first place?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

As an opinion, you should not do this, but to answer the question, I would casually mention or say you heard him say something, or heard something about him that would bother her, for example he has a political position she is against or likes a musician she thinks is awful.

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

Look in the mirror and question yourself and your behavior and your ugly intentions. You're welcome

mrinalashesh007 · Accepted Answer

Oh dear... That's sad to hear. May be you need a life of your own rather than thinking about poking nose in someone's business. I mean, It won't do any good ! So better stop thinking about crashing and blowing out other relationships when you can focus on yourself first!

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

I'm not sure why you would want to do that, but this should work. Have sex with the guy and then tell her all about it, including all the dirty details. Don't worry, she will no longer be your friend, and you will have a reputation of being a slut.

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

You DON’T! That’s a horrible thing to ask! What is wrong with you that you would even ask us that? You need to focus WAY more on yourself than you do on other people’s relationships. Maybe when you are right with yourself, you won’t care about other people’s relationships, you’ll just be happy for your friend!

sage2021 · Answer

I had a friend like you once. And she did do what you're asking us to show you how to do and be successful.

The reason you want to split them up is because it's easier for you to steal someone else's boyfriend away because you can't go out and find your own.
Bothing good can come out of your scheme to break them up. In fact, they might figure out what you are doing and both of them will turn against you.

You are jealous of her and it shows. Get your own guy and leave them alone!

Kha0tiic_xo · Answer

Why would you want to do something so distasteful?

Honestly it's girls like you who fuck up people's relationships, why don't you stay in your own lane and worry about yourself and your relationship!

Your friend deserves a better friend, this isn't something a true friend would do!

SpiderManFan2002 · Answer

Is it bad that when I read the title of this question I laughed?

Also, I have the perfect advice for sabotage. Don't. Especially if it's your friend. Sabotage is okay sometimes, if a person really deserves it, but it's your friend and from what you've said they don't seem to deserve sabotage. And even if they did, are you sure you'd wanna waste energy sabotaging or would you rather let karma take its course? Keep your side of the street clean.

CrAZe977 · Answer

You haven't said why you want to do this.

If there's something wrong with the guy, if he's abusive or you're worried he's going to hurt her then just tell her everything you know.

If you're just doing it because your jealous or your worried she'll spend time with him instead of you, I'm not going to help because it sounds like she'd be better off without you anyway.

LazerBean · Answer

You should already know how to since you already have so much experience in sabotaging your own relationships.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Wait, back up. You got the nerve to call yourself or her a friend in the same sentence about sabotaging her relationship? Yeah, That’s not something a friend does or something one would do to a friend.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Who they're in a relationship with is not something for you to decide. Let it go and reflect on yourself and why you want to control someone.

TrippyStarry · Answer

We need details. Where did they meet? What does he do? What about her? How long have you been friends for? Have you been jealous of other girl’s men before?

t_time · Answer

Talk to him. He might not like what you have to say, but a least you are getting what you have to say out. Unfortunately in the end he has to make up his own mind about the girl. People's true colors always show

Revvl6pro · Answer

Most humans can resit anything except temptation. Try that.

gayesblog · Answer

Why would you like to do that? If you give some details maybe we can see the reason of your sadness on this :(

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

Why don't you just mind your own business and let them *potentially* date.. Gosh! 😂

Sasha0426 · Answer

How old are you? God damn, this is some high school bullshit 🤦‍♀️ GROW THE FUCK UP!!

SassyAussieAddy · Answer

You don't. Have some respeft for yourself and do onto others and you would have done to you.

musicbrain5 · Answer

You don’t. Let them live their lives and don’t be a vindictive bitch.

Miles1354 · Answer

Are you jealous or envious of your friend? Why would you want to do that?

Biancam13 · Answer

I hope they realise what a bad person you are :)

Anonymous · Answer

You can message him anonymously on IG or WhatsApp and try to bait him with your feminine ways. If he takes the bait, release the texts to his girlfriend.

msc545 · Answer

I think it is very obvious that the asker wants this guy and is jealous as hell that the other girl got him. Don't help this pathetic evil bitch!

Anonymous · Answer

if you figure it out, let me know. i would love to absolutely destroy and annihilate this persons marriage because of what a shitty person they are.

serious · Answer

Why must you do that? This thinking itself is not correct.

Summeroflove · Answer

Ummm…… You don’t. Stop trying to control someone’s life

Still-alive · Answer

Lol did you seriously think this would go well for you to post this? You gotta be trolling

Sevenpointfive · Answer

you have the ugly friend syndrome. i can't help you

linka_pat307 · Answer

Yess.., oooo, you have to be heartless first tho

aaron210419 · Answer

Mental health matters, don't be ashamed to seek therapy

PinkRose24 · Answer

Ew why would you do this? I hate people who are jealous.

douride2 · Answer

You must lead a very sad life to want to do this to a friend.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I guess it depends on why you don't want them to be together?

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Aww, this is sad, unless the guy screwed you over.

Anonymous · Answer

If you make yourself sexually available to him most guys will go for it.

Sparkie460 · Answer

Why would you want to do that? Don't you want your friend to be happy

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I've done that before. Just tell them that the other person has been talking shit about them

Anonymous · Answer

Seduce him, have sex with him (intercourse, blow job) and make a video, then send it to her and say "thanks for sharing - he's good, isn't he?"

Snedger____ · Answer

You should see a doctor first. I’m not kidding.

Twalli · Answer

Why do you want to do that? It's a shitty thing to do, and if she ever learns of it you will be sure to lose her as a friend.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Is it necessary, like is their relationship toxic or what?

Anonymous · Answer

Another reason...

Guccigabbana18 · Answer

You don't, you try to be a better person than you are now.

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Why would you want to do that?

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Don’t. Just be mature and accept their decision to be together

Anonymous · Answer

So you have an ugly personality.. Good to know. Grow the fuck up, and seriously, don't reproduce.

wittymilf · Answer

Send him nudes!

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Okay troll. I won’t give you the attention you crave

whereismyjohnny · Answer

Why would you do such a thing?

Anonymous · Answer

Wow you're toxic and a shitty friend. Grow up and act your age

tabitha82223 · Answer

Go and f*** yourself. Sincerely.

Anemone978 · Answer

Why do you wanna break your friend up?

Shedzij567 · Answer

Seduce the guy

CateM · Answer

It's none of your business, just let 'em be

CarlosWoods · Answer

Why even bother? Be a better person.

sophgldmz · Answer

why would you want to do that?

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

What are you? Like 14? Smh..

Anonymous · Answer

By leaving them alone.

Guardian45 · Answer

Ummmm. WHY do you want to do this?

driven159 · Answer

you should leave them alone

Tracker1958 · Answer

Why, are you wanting to date the guy?

Guanfei · Answer

Jump off of a bridge, that should work.

Anonymous · Answer

With "friends" like you, who needs enemies?

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