How do you maintain calm when the people around you are constantly nagging and criticising you for any reason possible?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

It's as if they are trying to find opportunities to criticise everything we do. Job is one thing, but personal life too, that is a different thing, I believe.

[menina]

Welcome to my life. 🤷🏾‍♀️

I know it sucks and it's also annoying. It can be frustrating sometimes. But you don't have to listen to them. Just do what you have to do and move on. Sometimes they're criticizing you for no reason. So it's their problem, not yours.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Yes. Exactly!

[menina]

I'm glad you understand.

[menina]

Thank you for the MHO.

[TacosRAwesome]

Walk away. Like literally stand up and go somewhere else. If it's you're house kick them out.

[SnowedIn]

I'm fourth to answer. Underlining what @OlderAndWiser @Jamie05rhs and @TacosRAwesome said.

But also, you have to have some self awareness and rational thinking to swiftly examine what those people are saying. 98% of it isn't true. If it's not true, expend zero energy on it. People can nag and criticize all they want but if it's not valid, ignore it. The stuff that has some merit, take in onboard.

[BCRanger10]

Fortunately, I don't have many people like that in my life. However, if it came to it, I'd tell them to zip it. If they kept on, I wouldn't speak to them.

[NathanDavis]

I... ignore them and keep eating my tamal (this is such a great tamal though)

they can keep choking in their bitterness

[Jamie05rhs]

Cut those people out of your life. You don't need them.

[OlderAndWiser]

What @Jamie05rhs said.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks!