What is the event that you lived that changed you or changed your vision about life?

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[sheenagwapa]

i have dreama of Jesus telling me to use shades and twll people to use shades. i dreamed of him seeing him so bright


but rigjt now no one is helping me and i'm stuck because of a motive of a selfish person


evwn my erp tool "correction" that helped me on my issue with regards to feeling the sensation on my right arm is from my dream! IT IS FROM MY DREAM imagine that!


just recently i wake up frim a dream that i'm on a jeepney with passengers and everything is smooth and then suddenly in my dream my vision turned black and i can hear the scream of people


because our jeepney collided with another vehicle. and i suddenly felt like i was dyinh. i felt large volume of blood is gushing out on my body. i was scared and thought so this is how it feels when you are at the lasr seconds of your life


it feels like my body is cut into half i don't feel severe pain but i can feel a very sharp object cut half of my body. my vision is black and can feel losing so much blood


i think my mental experts is wantinh me to move and the other day i remember my dream before hearing a voice in my dream "sex is not important to live" i use that and felt empowered. i wanna have a job just like my Lord Jesus.


but i was heartbroken again by someone and i just feel so weak


this someone is my soulmate but he is such a womanizer and is driven by his personal interests. all i did is love him, accept him but my dreams keep telling me he just wanna use me and unfortunately i am lookinh for love


his miney is nothinh to me. how i wish i just want his money so that i'll be fine if he use me. be his teophy wife that even my facial expression is according to his specification and be his personal therapist while he is busy flirtinh with other women and plam to deny it in case they woud sex


he can make my life a living hell just so i agree with what he wants to happen control, manipulate everyone around me until i yieldbut it's gonna be OVER MY DEAD BODY

[Anemone978]

When my younger brother died at 12 years old just a month before my 14th birthday...
It changed me as a person... Nothing was ever as traumatizing as my bothers death.. My parents drank everyday would physically fight and leave me home alone, my sister moved out because my mom would constantly fight with her and she ended up doing drugs. Then there was me all alone being left to fend for myself while having to deal with the death of my best friend with no way of knowing how to handle it sober... watching everyone around me fall apart...
Even now when someone dies it's like it doesn't even matter I might cry a little for a day then I completely move on like it never even mattered...

[Fuentes]

Had my kid at 16 which started to distance me from my homies cause i was always with my kid and i started to Watch everyone get locked up, with no education, end up dead, get fucked over and put off their hood or on drugs.

a lot of people i grew up with are really gone before I even turned 20 so that's wild to me. The funniest thing was when I decided to not be a drop out anymore and finish at a continuation type school as a super senior at 19. I was at the bus stop and I seen another homie of mine who was the biggest wanna be at first, who got really deep into the gang stuff. I told him I been looking into the Army at that time, and he should too ain't shit where we're at, might as well. He heard me but he had dropped out & at the time GED's were not being taken.

A week before I was getting shipped out to basic at the hotel MEPS had us at before they gave us our voucher and itinerary I seen his face blasted all over the news cause he got fucked over and he killed his Older G (Big Homie) "Someone he answers too" he's got 25 to life and still locked up to this day.

If I never made a change in my life or had my grandpa bug tf outta me, I probs woulda never be where I am today.

[Anonymous]

The past 4 years in how much the scene from "The Patriot" rings true. Mr. Howard said, "We are citizens of an American nation, and our rights are being threatened by a tyrant 3,000 miles away"

Benjamin Martin stood up and said, "Would you tell me, please, Mr. Howard, why should I trade one tyrant 3,000 miles away for 3,000 tyrants one mile away? An elected legislature can trample a man's rights as easily as a king can"

How right he was, even the British crown would be appalled at how horribly our rights are being trampled but it's so bad that it's hopeless now so I might as well take the easy way out and die.

[melanieeeB]

I always had the same view on life... but I already was born into a difficult life and had to figure out the bad in this day from day one lol I was already adulting, taking responsibility for others and etc when I was a little kid myself

[midnightmoon05]

My divorce. He told me he doesn't want to be married to me anymore. I was heart broken for over a yr. Depression? sadness? No, I refused medications. After a yr. I told myself, I need to stop being down on myself and picked myself up for my children. I worked through the difficulty to continue raising our children in 2 separate households and rebuild emotionally, financially. So that our kids know that, we are still a family loving each other, but in 2 separated homes. if kids tried to manipulate, I said, lets have a call with dad first then we can discuss and make decisions.

10-11 years. later, we are in a much better place. our kids are doing well.

[midnightmoon05]

I also left my teaching career after 10 years. People were yelling at me for being so risky. I did, I left completely to seek another opportunity. It was a good think, I learned a new passion that I am still doing.
Then I had our two babies. I stayed home for 5 years. I am not the stay at home type, so I decided to go back to work since kids are in school now and I have a lot of family members who can help picking up kids. I could have return to my job which would make lots of money or my teaching job to have the same schedule as my kids. I took the lower pay.
I now have more options in life that I can feel free to explore when the time comes that I completed my teaching career.
Being able to over come obstacles, makes us stronger as well as making selfishness decisions for our kids.

[TheMystic]

Seriously, how shitty must your all's life be that you are ready to share stuff that's meant to remain secret in my opinion, with some probably stupid people on the internet?

You should talk with your friends about this secretive stuff but not with fucking strangers. I learned early in life that secrets can be used against you. Guard some of your secrets with your life! You should not tell everyone everything about you, some stuff is meant to be kept hidden, like a gun for example when a girl comes to your house.

[TruthBringer]

Bold of you to assume that telling your secrets to friends wouldn't backfire at you at some point. It's much safer to share your experience with total strangers whom you'll never meet in person while maintaining anonymity than to tell people who actually know you. Only to find out they will use your secrets against you as soon as you have a fall-out with them.

I see you're a fresh account. If people sharing their experiences over the internet annoys you, then do yourself a favor and get off of forums like this one.

[TheMystic]

@TruthBringer Well, if you are scared to share your secrets with your friend it proves what type of friends you are. I guess you don't need any friend then if you have such deep trust issues. If it annoys you that I'm annoyed by people like you feel free to leave this forum. Anyways, I'm man enough to compliment you on the facts that you are against LGBT and against feminism.

I hope you are against GAYS TOO! And I like the fact that you are trying to not be politically correct. I will certainly not leave a forum just because you don't like the fact that I'm annoyed by the question of the girl.

[TheMystic]

@TruthBringer Well, if you are scared to share your secrets with your FRIENDS* it proves what type of friends you HAVE*

I don't have any friends anymore since 1 and a half years and also not even any colleagues anymore since over 1 year because I noticed that they are all faggots. I rather am in my own company instead of in a morons company. If you would have real friends you would not have trust issues. It's analog to when you are in a relation-ship. When you don't trust your girl, THEN WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU STILL WITH HER?

WTF!

I have my internal alarm system that warns me off emotionally unhealthy and mentally unhealthy people early. It's just my intuition that guides me. That's what you are NOT connected to, but ok, you are dutch, dutch people are celebral, but certainly not nearly as celebral as krauts/germans, but still very celebral.

I'm from the balkans, we are ruled by our mouth, not by our head, We speak first and think about it later, but even after we spoke we rather seldom think about what we said, that's good and bad.

[TheMystic]

@TruthBringer And what I don't understand why the heck do you even bother to share your secrets with strangers? Seriously, do you think strangers care about you? Most don't or many don't

BUT REAL FRIENDS CARE ABOUT YOU

How the fuck do you think a stranger can help you?

Most people know shit anyways about life so what makes you think a stranger that's probably a moron such as 99,99% of the people in this forum, can help you?

I personally achieved my breakthroughs in life just with the help of two people, my mentor and myself.

Don't ask the blind for the help, go ask the people that CAN SEE! for help, not some random motherfuckers, and 99,99% of people in this forum are blind and I'm sure you are too. Don't think just because you are anti feminist and anti LGBT that that means now that you woke up out of the matrix.

[TruthBringer]

@TheMystic Easy on the temper tantrum, mate. The point here is that the probabilities of something happening to you by sharing something anonymously with total strangers, who cannot get back at you is much safer than sharing it with people who know you personally.

Friends who use your secrets against you aren't real friends? Well DUH. Try telling that to the people who THOUGHT they have good friends, only to find out they weren't when it was too late. See?

And whether you like to believe or not, there are plenty of forums out there where people actually listen and care about a stranger's experience. There are plenty of forums out there where strangers reach out to one another due to a similar experience. That's why forums like this one exists, to either learn, seek help or simply as a way or journaling.

What my race is or what my political views are, are completely irrelevant to what you and I are discussing. It seems like I struck a sensitive nerve for you to start investigating my profile only to use the information against me. Only you actually failed to cause any damage.

Do yourself (and everyone else) a favor and leave if you dislike people here so much.

[exitseven]

I found out one day that the company I was working for was most likely going out of business within the next year or so. I was in my late 30's and had to make a plan to start a second career that would enable me to make enough money to support a wife and 3 kids. I stayed up that whole night and by the time the sun came up I had the whole plan in my head. It took almost 4 years but I did it and never looked back.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Raped and attempted murder, died and came back. That would change anyone I suppose, no one is ever the same or ever will be after something like that.

Plus the attack got uploaded to porn sites because I went to the police as retribution.

[Red-Blaze]

Help from friends to recover the part I decide to get better and be happy no matter what comes on later, to always joke and be dumb no matter what
Just that tip point after a lot of support and buildup to continue to live with it
And with all it did and all it has taken to take life as a place to make better and more happy

[jennifer_bloom]

I experienced a very scary situation at a hospital and went through the worst terror of my entire life and that changed me from being scared and anxious to be very confident and brave. But the change happened too fast and I lost most of my child hood social alliances cause I forgot who I was when my personality changed faster than my mind could adjust.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Brain cancer. I'm in remission, but the sheer fact that I had a tumor removed, and now take an oral chemotherapy to treat it and anti seizure medicine put my already dour mood about my life into darker territory. I don't see this as a second chance. I see it as just another crappy hand I've been dealt.

[Anonymous]

I was in an abusive relationship. Eventually I found the strength and courage to leave and rebuild my life on my own. It's been a struggle, but I'm finally free from the abuse

It's made me see myself differently. I used to think I was weak , useless, worthless and amounted to nothing. The experience. has changed how I see myself now. I now see myself as a strong person who has a lot to offer and a lot of love to give.

[Pterodon]

My recovery from being on fire and burned 20% of my body. It isn’t the amount it’s where it occurred. I was told 50% would not have survived. I was amazed and in total shock about the number of people that I never knew existed cared and prayed for my recovery

[SnowedIn]

My hell-on-earth roommate in college trying to kill himself because his girlfriend broke up with him which was the straw that broke the camel's back causing me to leave college and then join the Navy where I met my wife.

[FreyaRed]

There was a day few years back my little perception of the world broke completely down. I recognized being pretty and smart doesn't give you any guarantee someone will ever really love you.

[Finchie40]

My marriage and divorce and entering a dating world realizing how selfish girls are these days and only really care about themselves and questioning if I will ever find a non selfish girl

[DeborahRuble564]

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[Wilson3000]

Losing my Nan that destroyed me, I realise now that nothing matters and everything is pointless, I also don’t care about anything or anyone anymore.


I realise now that she was the only thing keeping me alive and happy I just didn’t know it at the time.

[Hassan_8]

I don’t think one event can change you or your vision about life, it takes hundreds of small incidents to change you little by little till you become a different person

[kinggeorge007]

Oh maybe you haven't experienced that. Let me tell you, one event can change your whole life, yes it can!!

[kinggeorge007]

A manipulative narcissist taught me a lesson I wouldn't have learnt otherwise. Since then my life has been changed a lot. I still fucking hate her.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nothing, I'm still the me I always was.

[Anonymous]

The passing of my father. I was pretty immature till then. I was the only male in my family and after my dad passed I felt it incumbent upon me to look after my mother and sisters.

[Mayo503]

Getting a iPhone 10xs max
Even since then it’s been ruined

[LavLavLuv]

a family member's passing

[ebru_turkey]

coronavirus was painful

[Kinkyhubby]

The military change me in a big way,

[Alex8736]

beating cancer

[PatriceONeal]

2016 election

[eksekskes]

My family divorced

[Anonymous]

My first boyfriend.