Should I settle for a poor guy?

[Anonymous]

Guys of my level want beautiful, educated, high career, have kids or just young women. I'm niether of those things my parents are rich but I'm not I just paint and get very little money out of it. But this guy is poor and kinda young but he isn't bothered with who I am. I am used to money and comfort but I'm sure a guy with money and education wouldn't want someone like me. So this guy is very nice and respectful, should I settle?

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I am used to money and comfort

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I don't think I'm above him or anything like that. Most of the time the opposite gender doesn't really want me considereng who I am and I am surprised that he even has interest in me what's so ever considering he is well educated person.

[magiusX26]

"Guys of my level"

define "your level" please.

"want beautiful, educated, high career, have kids or just young women"

doesn't have to be beautiful (in generally accepted sense of the term) just not ugly physically, most of us dont give a damn about your career like that, yes most will want yo become biological fathers, yes most men are biologically hard wired to preffer younger women for multiple reasons such as, fertility, purity, less baggage, looks, to grow accuustomed/into with.

[Asker]

So according to my age then this isn't good for me? I don't want kids buy the way.

[magiusX26]

but most guys do want kids

[Asker]

Well I don't.

[Asker]

Anyways my looks are average, I don't work or want kids. I grew up with comfort and care, but I guess most men hate that?

[magiusX26]

average looks, dont work, and grew up coddled/pampered. check. with that being roughly your self described level, uou sjould "settle" for just about any guy willing to give you a shot, seeing as the only worth you bring into any relationship, based on your own words is a vagina (a hole) . nothing more. no. skills, no resources, oh and you dont even want to procreate with him either.

[megabamse]

Woman of the united states. Get your heads out of your asses. Love is love. Love is not a career.

[devilish-cutie]

It really depends on what u look for in a partner, it is very important how you conect with someone, how you get along and how you attracted to eachother. Him not being rich doesn't mean he is poor, not everyone comes from wealth, if he is trying to have a decent life and you are ok with it there is nothing to settle for...

[JustMeL120]

No. Its nor fair on him as you clearly think your above him

[Asker]

I don't I'm above. He is well educated and has degree etc etc it something I couldn't do...

[JustMeL120]

In the question your saying people of my level. Maybe you think your above hkm subconsiously. Honesly i dated a rich guy and i am poor and he really though he was above it gave me an inferiority complex. Verry similar situation he didn't have a degree bit his mum and dad payed for him to go to art school. He still lived with his mum and dad whilst i was living on my own buy yet though he was above me. It would be unfair if you dated because you have two different mentallity.