Is it wise to marry a guy poorer than me whom I find very handsome?

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D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

I voted yes, but it was a very shallow yes. See, you need to drop these standards that have been set for you by society or how my brain understands the world "deguchi" (Japanese, look it up if you give a shit), and this is what I push you to consider...

What makes you happy?

I'm going to ask again... What makes you happy?

Just consider that point first. If he's poorer and still makes you happy or makes you better off than without him, then take a second and ask yourself why that is. Maybe, just maybe, you don't value money and financial gain like all those chicks on TikTok or possibly the money blunder women you may know face to face... maybe? Maybe, just maybe, you actually value other shit that works between you and with that man.

Don't listen to these womanist's that value traditional men and then they're so non-traditional that a traditional man would never look in her direction outside of just using her as a fuck toy. They have a skewed reality and they don't even know what would actually make them happy. ... and we all know those women that keep getting perfect men sex, but they (the men) "nut and bolt" so fast that their body count (the woman) just keeps going up instead of having a single real relationship... of course they boot up TikTok and cry about it for attention they don't get.

The happiest women are basically silent online, so I hope you're not doing that shit online. Picture time.

Is it wise to marry a guy poorer than me whom I find very handsome?

I did that for the algorithm.

Anyways, a good relationship fits together. It's not a formula like he makes the money and you make sandwiches and love pumping kids out. You know the traditional man cookie cutter formula while womanism on the other side of you YELLS that being a traditional woman is akin to enslavement. You got to figure out what works for you and don't listen to these women that can't even sort out their own shit.

Like I'm eccentric, haven't worked in over 20 years and my wife makes all the money. I obviously add something and make her happy in some department... it's not traditional at all is it? I speak multiple languages, type 105 WPM, and I'm basically a self-taught scientist, guitarist, internet shit poster, and I lift weights. I bring no money at zero fucking all. A gold digger would go tits up pretty fucking fast with me, but here I am making her happy and she wants more kids with me... still. I have my pluses and my negatives. Fits together like Legos and shit.

So I will leave you with this... Please, just think for yourself. That's how you'll find what makes you happy.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

You don't want advice from us because none of us really know him

Okay so let's look at it like this he's a good looking guy okay

I know a lot of beautiful women but on the inside they are wicked witches when they open their mouth they are just straight up evil but they're beautiful on the outside

You need to find a person that is beautiful on the inside it has a good heart if he has a good heart if he's a kind person loving person will take care of you

The outside is just all an extra bonus

If I was to get married again but I marry a rich girl or a poor girl I would probably marry a poor girl

Because she knows what it's like not to have she knows what it's like not to be able to do something or to buy something and she would be good with it

Of rich girl would create drama if she couldn't have what she wanted and she couldn't get what she wanted she would b**** and moan and carry on I would rather have the poor girl and let her feel what it feels like to get something that you really want or to wish for something that you could really have

And be good with it if she didn't get it right then at that moment she would be more loving more caring have a better heart probably than the rich person I'm not saying all rich people are bad I'm saying one some hard that are spoiled rotten the poor people know exactly what it's like not to have and they are good just to live life and be happy they're more practical

But it doesn't matter if they're rich or poor it's who they are on the inside that's the thing that counts the most everybody looks to the outside of people oh this guy so fine this girl is so fine I'm in love with them that's what you hear first things first

You never hear do you know who she is do you know she has a good heart you know she's a caring person do you know how beautiful she is on the inside those are the people that last forever when you say look at my girlfriend or my boyfriend they're beautiful look at them on the outside well they get married 6 months to a year down the road they really realize who they are on the inside and they're bad they don't even want to be with them anymore but don't listen to any of us listen to your heart you're the one marrying the person you're going to be with the person no matter what it's only up to you and that person

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

Sure. As long as he helps out with housework and stuff and contributes financially as much as he can.

Alwayreckles93 · Accepted Answer

If he is a loving truth Christian it's what is more important.

Finchie40 · Answer

Money doesn’t buy love, so if you are highly attracted to him and he treats you great and makes you smile , that’s all that matters , Money doesn’t define love whatsoever and it shouldn’t define it whatsoever, if he works and is capable of providing for himself that’s all that matters , You should want a partner that works with you as a team , meaning you both can work independently and you both can work together , if he was just after your money? Then kick his ass to the curb , but if he is after your heart that’s all That matters

Berethor · Answer

Sure, men are doing it all the time, as it says in the gold digger trope, maybe the only reason men even bother to make money in the first place is so that they can have sex with lots of hot women. What better thing you have to invest your money in, then getting a very handsome man. By the way, you can try Road to Valor: Empires, one of the playable factions is India, it's rare to see Indian in games. :)

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Squishyfeet · Answer

It’s more about whether or not you like him. Looks will fade. But it can get burdensome and affect your relationship if you’re the one paying for everything, and planning everything. Maybe you love doing that stuff - that’s great. I was in a marriage with someone where I had to pay for and plan everything, and it was one of the things that made us fall apart

NathanDavis · Answer

is he actually poor?

or you're just richer?

for example... let's say you make 100k a year, and he makes 80k a year, that would not be the same as you making 100k and he makes 8k per year, lol

either way, maybe there should be more factors considered, and not just looks and finances

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

No, it isn't wise , you should marry a guy only if it brings  honour, fame, gold and glory  to your house. All other reasons are irrelevant.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

No! Why going for... Loyality, Chemistry, Attraction, Desire, True Love for the Long run? When you can go for a "short run".. Such as Rich (stay at home Mom), bored af, just raising kids and have everything what you Materially desire... Just shopping (for a short time), enjoying the Luxury, but Loosing The Freedom? 🤷‍♂️

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Yea don't forget that struggles humble, if he's poor the chances of him treating you right might be higher, judging him by his wallet might backfire on you worse than judging him by looks, he can always accomplish things to fill up his wallet, if he's a good person with good looks, you might be missing out of you throw it all away for something he can accomplish when he's with you.

Jennz6 · Answer

I said yes, but I’m not a girl that has been making wise decisions for myself. But I think it’s important to be happy.

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

If he is more than just handsome. If you also connevt with his personality.

Gauoda_ · Answer

No way, don't be crazy__Marry only who is 3X richer than you at least

Pohjolan · Answer

Maybe? We don't know what your situation is 8 years from now if you don't. Do you even attract many guys who are much wealthier than you?

madgoat · Answer

If you're not going to end up blaming him for it, knock yourself out. But I'd think carefully.

exitseven · Answer

I said yes but it really depends on if he has a job and is working towards a goal.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

You shouldn't marry for money.  If he works and tries to contribute financially then that should be good enough.

LiamJHayden · Answer

No. If you marry, do it with someone who adores you and is committed to you. Looks fade. Inner beauty does not.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Money isn't everything, and financial situation is easy to fix

SunnyRS · Answer

If together both of you can manage your finances and he doesn't take earning less than you on his ego then sure why not.

noohair · Answer

If you are just going on physical looks, then No! Content of character is important.

CubaPirate · Answer

What's money got to do with attraction and love

Gwendoline · Answer

I think you marry the potential of a guy.

Flower7 · Answer

Yes, as long as he doesn't just want to use you.

paledreams · Answer

Wise as an owl 🦉 with a prenup

Toxic_Skyler · Answer

No not really to each their own tho

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

GOLD DIGGER MUCH

Slim57 · Answer

If you don't care about money

MoonFace2 · Answer

Go for it.

scott04sa22 · Answer

Does he have a car?

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