You don't want advice from us because none of us really know him
Okay so let's look at it like this he's a good looking guy okay
I know a lot of beautiful women but on the inside they are wicked witches when they open their mouth they are just straight up evil but they're beautiful on the outside
You need to find a person that is beautiful on the inside it has a good heart if he has a good heart if he's a kind person loving person will take care of you
The outside is just all an extra bonus
If I was to get married again but I marry a rich girl or a poor girl I would probably marry a poor girl
Because she knows what it's like not to have she knows what it's like not to be able to do something or to buy something and she would be good with it
Of rich girl would create drama if she couldn't have what she wanted and she couldn't get what she wanted she would b**** and moan and carry on I would rather have the poor girl and let her feel what it feels like to get something that you really want or to wish for something that you could really have
And be good with it if she didn't get it right then at that moment she would be more loving more caring have a better heart probably than the rich person I'm not saying all rich people are bad I'm saying one some hard that are spoiled rotten the poor people know exactly what it's like not to have and they are good just to live life and be happy they're more practical
But it doesn't matter if they're rich or poor it's who they are on the inside that's the thing that counts the most everybody looks to the outside of people oh this guy so fine this girl is so fine I'm in love with them that's what you hear first things first
You never hear do you know who she is do you know she has a good heart you know she's a caring person do you know how beautiful she is on the inside those are the people that last forever when you say look at my girlfriend or my boyfriend they're beautiful look at them on the outside well they get married 6 months to a year down the road they really realize who they are on the inside and they're bad they don't even want to be with them anymore but don't listen to any of us listen to your heart you're the one marrying the person you're going to be with the person no matter what it's only up to you and that person00 Reply
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1 yI voted yes, but it was a very shallow yes. See, you need to drop these standards that have been set for you by society or how my brain understands the world "deguchi" (Japanese, look it up if you give a shit), and this is what I push you to consider...
What makes you happy?
I'm going to ask again... What makes you happy?
Just consider that point first. If he's poorer and still makes you happy or makes you better off than without him, then take a second and ask yourself why that is. Maybe, just maybe, you don't value money and financial gain like all those chicks on TikTok or possibly the money blunder women you may know face to face... maybe? Maybe, just maybe, you actually value other shit that works between you and with that man.
Don't listen to these womanist's that value traditional men and then they're so non-traditional that a traditional man would never look in her direction outside of just using her as a fuck toy. They have a skewed reality and they don't even know what would actually make them happy. ... and we all know those women that keep getting perfect men sex, but they (the men) "nut and bolt" so fast that their body count (the woman) just keeps going up instead of having a single real relationship... of course they boot up TikTok and cry about it for attention they don't get.
The happiest women are basically silent online, so I hope you're not doing that shit online. Picture time.

I did that for the algorithm.
Anyways, a good relationship fits together. It's not a formula like he makes the money and you make sandwiches and love pumping kids out. You know the traditional man cookie cutter formula while womanism on the other side of you YELLS that being a traditional woman is akin to enslavement. You got to figure out what works for you and don't listen to these women that can't even sort out their own shit.
Like I'm eccentric, haven't worked in over 20 years and my wife makes all the money. I obviously add something and make her happy in some department... it's not traditional at all is it? I speak multiple languages, type 105 WPM, and I'm basically a self-taught scientist, guitarist, internet shit poster, and I lift weights. I bring no money at zero fucking all. A gold digger would go tits up pretty fucking fast with me, but here I am making her happy and she wants more kids with me... still. I have my pluses and my negatives. Fits together like Legos and shit.

So I will leave you with this... Please, just think for yourself. That's how you'll find what makes you happy.
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Bro, you're deeper than a whale's vagina.
1 ySure. As long as he helps out with housework and stuff and contributes financially as much as he can.
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1 yIf he is a loving truth Christian it's what is more important.
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Money doesn’t buy love, so if you are highly attracted to him and he treats you great and makes you smile , that’s all that matters , Money doesn’t define love whatsoever and it shouldn’t define it whatsoever, if he works and is capable of providing for himself that’s all that matters , You should want a partner that works with you as a team , meaning you both can work independently and you both can work together , if he was just after your money? Then kick his ass to the curb , but if he is after your heart that’s all That matters
00 ReplySure, men are doing it all the time, as it says in the gold digger trope, maybe the only reason men even bother to make money in the first place is so that they can have sex with lots of hot women. What better thing you have to invest your money in, then getting a very handsome man. By the way, you can try Road to Valor: Empires, one of the playable factions is India, it's rare to see Indian in games. :)
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.dreamotion.empire&hl=en
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1 yIt’s more about whether or not you like him. Looks will fade. But it can get burdensome and affect your relationship if you’re the one paying for everything, and planning everything. Maybe you love doing that stuff - that’s great. I was in a marriage with someone where I had to pay for and plan everything, and it was one of the things that made us fall apart
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m 1 yis he actually poor?
or you're just richer?
for example... let's say you make 100k a year, and he makes 80k a year, that would not be the same as you making 100k and he makes 8k per year, lol
either way, maybe there should be more factors considered, and not just looks and finances06 Reply- 1 y
He is looking for a job and his house is so much smaller than mine.
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well that's a good sign, no... what kind of job? there might be some potential in there
my first house was small as well, and just for me
my second house could be more than enough for a family of five - 1 y
The same job as me and his house is really small, not just relatively small
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well, one can always improve... with the right drive and opportunity
have you actually met him? do you think he would be one to improve? or one to get stuck - 1 y
Yes, I have and he’s ambitious
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well, that is one good sign...
but you should really check on the other factors, personality, character, integrity, honesty and so on...
is he kind to others? or just when convenient, that's usually a big tell...
m 1 yNo, it isn't wise, you should marry a guy only if it brings honour, fame, gold and glory to your house. All other reasons are irrelevant.
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1 yNo! Why going for... Loyality, Chemistry, Attraction, Desire, True Love for the Long run? When you can go for a "short run".. Such as Rich (stay at home Mom), bored af, just raising kids and have everything what you Materially desire... Just shopping (for a short time), enjoying the Luxury, but Loosing The Freedom? 🤷♂️
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1 yYea don't forget that struggles humble, if he's poor the chances of him treating you right might be higher, judging him by his wallet might backfire on you worse than judging him by looks, he can always accomplish things to fill up his wallet, if he's a good person with good looks, you might be missing out of you throw it all away for something he can accomplish when he's with you.
00 ReplyI said yes, but I’m not a girl that has been making wise decisions for myself. But I think it’s important to be happy.
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1 yIf he is more than just handsome. If you also connevt with his personality.
00 ReplyNo way, don't be crazy__Marry only who is 3X richer than you at least
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Are your being sarcastic?
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No, IF getting married 1st Time then secure your future
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Maybe? We don't know what your situation is 8 years from now if you don't.
Do you even attract many guys who are much wealthier than you?
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Do even attract any girls?
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*do you
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I’ve rejected plenty of guys richer than me for various reasons and hot guys always have girls chasing them. Look at Henry Cavill. Many women stalked him and he slept 🛌 with them
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Fortunately, in my culture women aren’t only valued for their youth and beauty. Men also seek professional women who contribute financially. Hence, many such men are okay with 30+ women who earn well. Women in their early twenties can’t get married for this very reason. They’re usually in college because without that only a VILLAGE guy can marry you. Don’t look at Bollywood. Their lives hardly reflect the lives of the general population and even those men are judged for dating women much younger than themselves. We don’t have an old Johnny Depp getting beaten up by a much younger Amber Heard. He wouldn’t even be allowed to date someone his daughter’s age in my culture. Men also get rejected for being old in this part of the world. Everyone gets married maximum by the age of 35
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I personally know cases of surgeons who specifically mention they want a surgeon and the same applies to other professions. In India, doctors don’t marry models. I hope that’s clear.
353 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic. If you're not going to end up blaming him for it, knock yourself out. But I'd think carefully.
00 Reply851 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic. I said yes but it really depends on if he has a job and is working towards a goal.
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1 yYou shouldn't marry for money.
If he works and tries to contribute financially then that should be good enough.11 ReplyAgree with this. Trust is a far more important metric.
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1 yNo. If you marry, do it with someone who adores you and is committed to you. Looks fade. Inner beauty does not.
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1 yMoney isn't everything, and financial situation is easy to fix
00 ReplyIf together both of you can manage your finances and he doesn't take earning less than you on his ego then sure why not.
00 ReplyIf you are just going on physical looks, then No! Content of character is important.
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1 yWhat's money got to do with attraction and love
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1 yI think you marry the potential of a guy.
10 ReplyYes, as long as he doesn't just want to use you.
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1 yWise as an owl 🦉 with a prenup
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1 yNo not really to each their own tho
10 ReplyGOLD DIGGER MUCH
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Expecting financial stability is not the same as being a gold digger
If you don't care about money
00 ReplyGo for it.
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1 yDoes he have a car?
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