How much should you endure in a relationship?

[Justneedtokno]

I see a lot of pose that states. Oh women are not like their grandmothers. But I also know a lot of grandmothers, especially mine, had to endure a lot of trials their husbands.

On the other hand, I know that men are not like their fathers either they do not build houses amongst other things

[Anonymous]

I think a woman should know her value and seek the best possible partner she can, sometimes that means going for a guy who's built himself into a success or toughing it out with a guy you've invested believing in him that one day he will become successful.

Success in life is also subjective but one thing is for sure investing in a guy who has zero ambitions and isn't going anywhere because he's either lazy, irresponsible or immature and you just know that you are going to end up working two jobs raising 4 kids while he don't work or pay child support is a big no.

Also I think its important for a woman to work on herself to be the best possible partner for her future man looking good, staying thin, being fit, knowing how to cook, clean, in education etc.

[Pinay_ako]

As long as there’s no abuse and the mutual love and respect is there, I’m there till the end

[Pinay_ako]

🥰 thanks for the MHG lovely

[Fabiloso]

I think we always go through struggles in any place of life. We each choose what's worth it to us with each person. Lots of men and women aren't loyal or balanced enough themselves to handle that kind of weight. And sometimes I think that's completely fair. But I dont the the pic is a good example for all

[Jamie05rhs]

You shouldn't endure anything FROM him. (Let me make that explicitly clear. Abuse is Never acceptable!)

However, you SHOULD endure Anything and Everything WITH him. Because that is what love is all about.

[Jamie05rhs]

And I 100% agree with the quote that you posted.

[Justneedtokno]

Well, thanks. There are lot of parts in this

[Jamie05rhs]

You're welcome!

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO!

[DizzyDesii]

The one thing about that meme is the women who go through the things with the men who “start from the bottom”... those men often throw then away once they reach the top and they go find then a trophy wife. You know kinda like how they say you correct the dude for the next for the next woman or some shit

[Summeroflove]

I want love. That’s what matters to me. Everyone has what they’re looking for in love and some people aren’t meant to be.


A lot of people want everyone to conform to their idea of what love is just because they haven’t found it yet

[ArrowheadSW]

That meme describes a woman who I know, very well. She got married and helped her new husband with his business, then they opened another business. She worked seven days a week for a long time.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

If they are bringing you stress and trouble then they shouldn't be part of your life. Period.

[msc545]

This question brings me stress.

[Justneedtokno]

Lol yes, I agree @msc545 why does the stress you out?

[boggboss]

Don't think there is a objective answer that would depend on the person

[Nikki1989]

If you find the right man, you don't need the success. As a team, you can make things happen together.

[Justneedtokno]

This sounds like a whole fairytale in the Bible is says to wait in society is there go out there and find your man in reality is difficult because a lot of people don’t try to show their true selves until they get whatever was on their agenda

[Juxtapose]

Well think of it this way, what would you endure for your mother? Because that is somebody you should actually love.

[Justneedtokno]

The things that my mother had to endure with the relationship with my father I don’t really want are there some wonderful qualities about my father yes and would love that in a man, but there’s some things that I can’t explain nor she can that I would want to choose to be my partner to endure with

[Agape93]

Enduring is normal. But never endure mistreatment.

[legalboxers]

as much as you can handle