After ghosting me for months and respecting his space should I comment happy birthday?

[Anonymous]

I have two accounts an art and personal.. I’m restricted on the personal but I follow him on both still but I want to know is it okay to comment happy birthday on his post that I’m not restricted on, it’s a while from now and don’t know… I want to

[Summeroflove]

You can if you want to, but personally no. If someone won’t even talk to you then he’s not worth your time. Ghosting someone is wrong. “Well the person doesn’t owe you a explanation” okay… maybe not legally. But it doesn’t make it right.

He is too much of a coward to tell you how he really feels. To just say he’s losing interest. Ignoring someone without explanation is wrong and irs very hurtful.

If someone ignores me, I’m not going to go out of my way to say anything to them unless I have to.

By all means if you wanna comment. Comment. But personally I think you should talk to people who are interested in talking to you.

[Asker]

At least he knows I’m a good person and he’s ghosted before and comes back if I leave him alone for a month or so

[Summeroflove]

Asker, it’s really not worth it. If someone isn’t interested in talking to you. Leave them be. He’s just playing games and ignoring someone isn’t right

[Summeroflove]

If you’re good then you deserve someone who puts the same amount of effort that you put in.

Someone not responding for a month isn’t normal. If I send someone a text and they answer a week later… I’m like WTF I sent that a week ago

[YourExLover69]

Don't say.
If a girl ghost or ignores me for any reasons without telling any reasons I'd also lose interest in her. Friendships and relationship should be based on mutual understanding and mutual respect. Otherwise it's useless and it won't work that way.

[kylee2437]

Nope. You should only show appreciation and respect for people that reciprocate that energy back to you and ghosting is a huge sign that he doesn’t appreciate you

[Asker]

Yeah but he’s been ghosting and always coming back if I leave him alone

[kylee2437]

@asker yeah he keeps coming back because you are a person that gives him a quick ego boost.

[comekitty]

If it were me, I absolutely would not do this- but maybe that's just me 🙂

[coachTanthony]

You sound desperate for his attention and love. Probably why he needed his space to begin with. Way too needy probably... there is no context here so..

[Spade_01]

I don't see any good in that.