Could MY EX Be Buttering ME UP around his Birthday?

[Paris13]

******My Ex's Birthday is November 5th. I had a FEELING He MIGHT Try to Be More "Kind" during this Time. I admit to Being RUDE and CRUDE Before all of This After I Broke it OFF so We Sort of Stopped Calling and Talking and Messaging.(An Occasional Uncivil Email Between us. lol) However, I have been More Civil and Better Behaved lately and He is Coming around on My FB Page to Comment. Is he Trying to Butter me UP so Perhaps I will Continue the Birthday "Love Tradition" of Sending Cards and Gifts Or just Trying maybe to Get us Both on Some Same Page as Far as Our Relationship Really Stands? by the way: He still Has my Pix Up on his FB Cover and All of Our Love Messages from The Past and I am His ONLY FB FRIEND. What's your own Opinion? Any Help is Appreciated. xxoo

Absolutely, Paris!

Nah, Paris!

Half and Half, Paris!

Look down Here, Paris!

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1 y

TODAY (October 30) Woke up to Bunch of LIKES ON MY FB PAGE... UGGGGGGGG. Don't I Know this man? lol!!! xxoo

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1 y

***Yes, He Tried to Butter me UP as I had Thought but I Cut Him Off from Birthday. xxoo

[midnightmoon05]

There is nothing wrong with caring for those who was a part of our lives.

or even heal, learn, grow, understand. Then back together to be stronger.
I hope this is the path for you both.
i too met my hubby here 6-7 years ago. Long distance. We both out in the effort to be together as much as possible and we did travel often to see each other… 2-3 mints at a time and almost every other week… so yes, lots of money, time together. That also helped me see lots of red flags.
He couldn’t handle the changes he required to be in a loving intimate relationship, so we broke up for a year after dating 2 1/2 years.
for that one yr. I learned a lot about who he is and why he wasn’t able to understand love. I made changes… he was having a hard time making the changes…but he did.
and now, he moved to be with me (it just makes sense). And we are now married and living happily.

i am not sure if the 2 of you truly know each and willing to make the scretfices and changes to make it work.

At the end… who will be willing to move?

[Paris13]

I am So Very Happy for you Both. God did ALL of This, sweetheart. xx

[Paris13]

Neither of Us. I would Have Got Stuck Visiting and Residing Of and On. No Real Plan... xx

[midnightmoon05]

I read a few of your questions as well as opinions from others.
Paris, you must be honest to yourself with what you want. If this is the man you want, that he is worth it…then fight it. Fight it to be together. I am seeing too much child’s play…it seems very immature.
We must grow and make changes if that’s what it takes for love.
I fought for him, believe me…it was a bloody fight… we both win from this fight. Because he was worth it and now he has heal and we are in a much better place.
If this is the the man you can’t see yourself growing old with…it’s time to let go.
Be angry and be happy and be all those feelings you need to feel…then let go. So that you can be free for a new love.

Thank you for MHO dear. ❤️

[Paris13]

Welcome, sweetheart. xxoo

[menina]

It seems that he's trying to butter you up. I also think that he is still in love with you, and he can't move on. He probably misses you.

[Paris13]

Thanks, Menina. xx

[Paris13]

Ali Always Has Some Motive... lolxxoo

[OlderAndWiser]

When you referred to him as your "ex," I thought. . .

[Avicenna]

Now that's a guy that has not moved on. Not good.

[Paris13]

I guess We Both Have NOT. xx

[OlderAndWiser]

Most lkely, he wants to patch up the relationship. What do you want, Paris?

[Paris13]

Not a Relationship, sir. xx

[Jamie05rhs]

You're his only Facebook friend? That's a red flag. That means he set up a fake account on there to talk to you.

(Well, technically I don't know for your generation. So maybe I'm being too quick to judge. But for my generation that would most likely be the case.)

[Paris13]

lol!!! @Jaimie05hs, I Met HIM HERE and Brought HIM TO FB where we Hooked up. lol!!! xx

[Jamie05rhs]

@Paris13 Oh! Wow.

[Jamie05rhs]

Wow- you didn't even tell him Happy Birthday? That's cold.

[carlgpfeifer]

Often at time when are ex husband our ex wife tryes butter someone up it does not mean that they are trying to get some one back when I left my wife my life felt better now I look forward that layes head in my life hopeing new girl comes to my life I can relax with keep my new mate warm in the winter time

[Paris13]

Lovely. No Single. lolxx

[Summeroflove]

Maybe he’s wanting you to get him a birthday gift.

Look. Don’t take shit from your ex and don’t give it. He’s your ex. Just leave it be

[Paris13]

Thank You. xx

[Summeroflove]

You’re welcome

[AviatorTom]

My unbiased opinion is that neither of you have moved on. Are you absolutely sure your relationship is over? Maybe you two should investigate it. Never hurts to check things.

[Paris13]

There is Something There. xx

[Bethany22]

He probably doesn't need gifts, he's just trying to keep the relationship going

[Paris13]

Thanks, Bethany. xx

[Sevenpointfive]

that's incredibly sketchy if you're his only friend. i don't trust or like it at all no matter what his intentions are

[Paris13]

H enever Had FB Friends just Me. Not Shocking as He Never was INTO FB anyways. What is Sketchy is The Gift Timing. I enabled it Myself but I have Stopped now. xx

[Sevenpointfive]

that's not really a break up is it? you broke it off

[Paris13]

Well, A Break Up is Something One or Both Did? lol!!! xx

[Sevenpointfive]

he's still in the relationship just saying

[loveslongnails]

I cannot really comment because this reminds me of high school, just with more social media in play, and I don't want to think about high school. LOL

[Paris13]

lol Okay. It can Be Child's Play. xx

[exitseven]

I would put the whole thing in the rear view mirror

[Paris13]

Thinking of Doing on November 5th. lol!!! xx

[exitseven]

good for you. Paris.

[Alex8736]

get him slippers and a dildo where if he doesn't like the slippers he can go f*ck himself 😇

[Paris13]

lol!!! Sweat shirt and Candy One Year, dear. More his Style. lol!!!

[Alex8736]

best bet is block him and go no contact. weed all the toxic people out of your life

[Paris13]

Emailing only now. lolxx

[pizzalovershouse]

Shure if he is single probably will want some birthday loving just to rembervold times

[Paris13]

Cool. xx

[pizzalovershouse]

😊👍

[Iron_Man]

That’s the one that you were engaged to when are you going to meet finally

[Paris13]

Yes, Tiger. But I decided to Break it OFF when I moved Two months ago. xx

[Iron_Man]

Why?

[Sparkie460]

He's still hanging on to you. He has feelings for you.

[Paris13]

lol Too Bad you are Marreid. xx

[Sparkie460]

Why is that?

[Sparkie460]

A lot of women has said that to me

[Likes2drive]

He still wants you and his birthday makes it easier to get close again

[Paris13]

Wow!!! Maybe, Big Guy. xx

[tonamimargaux]

Hmmm he loves you. 😁

[Paris13]

I Believe That, girl. xx

[artsy_dragon]

He sounds like he is using you I think

[Paris13]

We Had Been Together for Three Years. I think He Still (As he Says) Has Faith I might Still Do it. I sent His Mum Flowers during her Birthday and when the Queen Died That week. Could Be He thinks Being Friends Now We should;d just Continue whatever... xx

[artsy_dragon]

He may still love you but I am not sure

[Paris13]

I think HE IS jst Contented With Whatever Decision I make for a Relationship (YES MAN) But the Gift Giving is Not Part of a Friendship Deal for Me. I OPTED OUT. xx

[Aakash_Hangargi]

You want to fck him , go and fck him keep it simple lol 😆

[Debbie14217]

yes he may lol

[Paris13]

lol Deb. xx

[Jaggermoves12655]

Do not trust him.

[Paris13]

I never Totally Did... How sad... xx