Could MY EX Be Buttering ME UP around his Birthday?

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******My Ex's Birthday is November 5th. I had a FEELING He MIGHT Try to Be More "Kind" during this Time. I admit to Being RUDE and CRUDE Before all of This After I Broke it OFF so We Sort of Stopped Calling and Talking and Messaging.(An Occasional Uncivil Email Between us. lol) However, I have been More Civil and Better Behaved lately and He is Coming around on My FB Page to Comment. Is he Trying to Butter me UP so Perhaps I will Continue the Birthday "Love Tradition" of Sending Cards and Gifts Or just Trying maybe to Get us Both on Some Same Page as Far as Our Relationship Really Stands? by the way: He still Has my Pix Up on his FB Cover and All of Our Love Messages from The Past and I am His ONLY FB FRIEND. What's your own Opinion? Any Help is Appreciated. xxoo

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

There is nothing wrong with caring for those who was a part of our lives.

or even heal, learn, grow, understand. Then back together to be stronger.
I hope this is the path for you both.
i too met my hubby here 6-7 years ago. Long distance. We both out in the effort to be together as much as possible and we did travel often to see each other… 2-3 mints at a time and almost every other week… so yes, lots of money, time together. That also helped me see lots of red flags.
He couldn’t handle the changes he required to be in a loving intimate relationship, so we broke up for a year after dating 2 1/2 years.
for that one yr. I learned a lot about who he is and why he wasn’t able to understand love. I made changes… he was having a hard time making the changes…but he did.
and now, he moved to be with me (it just makes sense). And we are now married and living happily.

i am not sure if the 2 of you truly know each and willing to make the scretfices and changes to make it work.

At the end… who will be willing to move?

menina · Accepted Answer

It seems that he's trying to butter you up. I also think that he is still in love with you, and he can't move on. He probably misses you.

Avicenna · Answer

Now that's a guy that has not moved on. Not good.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Most lkely, he wants to patch up the relationship. What do you want, Paris?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

You're his only Facebook friend? That's a red flag. That means he set up a fake account on there to talk to you.

(Well, technically I don't know for your generation. So maybe I'm being too quick to judge. But for my generation that would most likely be the case.)

carlgpfeifer · Answer

Often at time when are ex husband our ex wife tryes butter someone up it does not mean that they are trying to get some one back when I left my wife my life felt better now I look forward that layes head in my life hopeing new girl comes to my life I can relax with keep my new mate warm in the winter time

Summeroflove · Answer

Maybe he’s wanting you to get him a birthday gift.  Look. Don’t take shit from your ex and don’t give it. He’s your ex. Just leave it be

AviatorTom · Answer

My unbiased opinion is that neither of you have moved on. Are you absolutely sure your relationship is over? Maybe you two should investigate it. Never hurts to check things.

Bethany22 · Answer

He probably doesn't need gifts, he's just trying to keep the relationship going

Sevenpointfive · Answer

that's incredibly sketchy if you're his only friend. i don't trust or like it at all no matter what his intentions are

loveslongnails · Answer

I cannot really comment because this reminds me of high school, just with more social media in play, and I don't want to think about high school. LOL

exitseven · Answer

I would put the whole thing in the rear view mirror

Alex8736 · Answer

get him slippers and a dildo where if he doesn't like the slippers he can go f*ck himself 😇

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Shure if he is single probably will want some birthday loving just to rembervold times

Iron_Man · Answer

That’s the one that you were engaged to when are you going to meet finally

Sparkie460 · Answer

He's still hanging on to you. He has feelings for you.

Likes2drive · Answer

He still wants you and his birthday makes it easier to get close again

tonamimargaux · Answer

Hmmm he loves you. 😁

artsy_dragon · Answer

He sounds like he is using you I think

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

You want to fck him , go and fck him keep it simple lol 😆

Debbie14217 · Answer

yes he may lol

Jaggermoves12655 · Answer

Do not trust him.

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