Should I wish him a happy birthday?

[Anonymous]

He ghosted me 4 days ago bc i canceled on him because I was sick should I wish him a happy birthday?

[noamazia]

probably not but let's count the pros and cons!

His ghosting you is an asshole move (and childish). CON
if you didn't inform him you were sick (or offered an alternative date) then there might be a misunderstanding so this might help fix that. PRO
make yourself feel good for trying and help feel better on their birthday. PRO
if you are a person that might hang on the message afterward, thinking "Will he message me back" or "How will he take it" it will just negate the good feelings. CON

your choice

[Billlewis]

Yes -- it might turn into an awesome experience... I say go ahead and wish him a happy birthday!

[In_Trance]

Nope

[MementoMori777]

why would you?

[Anonymous]

That's desperate

[rideorsleep]

Nope