Is my crush’s girlfriend insecure about me?

[Andyyydaprincess]

So I had a “relationship” with him before he met his actual girlfriend. We never dated but we was hanging out, kissing you know. Until he surprisingly started to date someone else and of course that broke me into pieces. Had no choice but to accept it and I tried to just ignore him stop looking on what he post and just continue with my life. He never blocked me or deleted me tho yet he spent his time watching my stories. Anyways, so out of nowhere he deleted me, found out his girlfriend made him do it and two days later his girlfriend throw shade at me on instagram saying I’m ugly and that Im traumatized of her and accusing me of being the side chick. She also claims that I messaged him and reacted to what he post which is bullshit cause that was before she dated him and he did the same to me, and also claimed that he doesn’t even give an f about me which sounds stupid if she’s sure about that, then why the shade tho? Why she coming at me then? Anyways, he blocked me and yea the reason is because she made him do it.

[MementoMori777]

Sounds to me like he was dating her as he was kissing you and she found out, she called you a side hoe which normally only happens when the person has a partner and do things with someone else with no strings attached, it's possible this dude might have been dating her and kissing you throughout the same time and when she found out she made him choose and now you are where you are now but I don't know

[Andyyydaprincess]

Well it might be possible yet he didn’t confirm his relationship till he started posting about her on social media. Yet she didn’t had the right to just come with me and saying nonsense when she don’t know anything, like why she coming at me for something I had with his guy before her? Even tho if they was dating before it’s still not my fault cause I never knew until he posted about her

[MementoMori777]

you can't expect every person to release their anger in the healthy ways cause many donr

[MementoMori777]

dont*

[SnowedIn]

Yes she's insecure about you. That's why she's doing what she's doing. You had something with him --- regardless of how much and how long -- and that will always bother her.

[Andyyydaprincess]

Well she even blocked me

[SnowedIn]

Damn. That's extreme.

[spartan55]

And I'm sure you did absolutely nothing to provoke this, right?

[Andyyydaprincess]

No! I tried to avoid him the day I knew he had a girlfriend and when he deleted me I tried to move on but his girlfriend surprisingly came to me to tell me a lot of bullshit

[spartan55]

Well, what can you do, it happens.