Do you think what I did was too mean?

[Anonymous]

So I know this person who is okay I noticed some red flags.

I removed them from my life with no explanation.

I am feeling a bit bad as I’m not a mean person, but I just have had enough of this person.

[KateDemee]

I mean it's better to tell someone in general I think and give them a chance but if they were really messing you up then you really have to look after your own health and do what you have to do so it's fine what you did if that was how you had to handle it for your own health due to their behavior

[LostandFound__x]

I feel bad too but sometimes things just have to be done for the sake of it. Your peace comes first and some people don’t take no for an answer. Or they may continue harming you even though you try to set a boundary.

[Danny_dan92]

Everyone does this. You aren’t the only one




You could’ve explained that whatever the red flags are turned you off and then be done with it but what’s done is done

[BoopBoopBeep]

Kinda crappy to not tell them why. Plus you run the risk of them popping back up later.

[slatyb]

It's fine. Forget about it.

[MementoMori777]

depends if you had to for your mental health

[In_Trance]

yeah