RIght now I am in trouble with the girls in my friend group because one of their friends (that I had never talked to before) started getting touchy and didn't even explain that we had mutual friends. She came to the bar that my group was meeting at and arrived first so I hadn't been introduced. She knew about me already from the other girls and started talking to me out of nowhere. I was confused and lowkey scared because she had already been drinking a bit and seemed to know a lot about me. Keep in mind that nobody told me she was coming or that she even existed. I was not receptive to the conversation at all, but I guess she didn't pick up on this. I started to try and ask her how she knew me, and suddenly she says "your hair looks soft. Let me touch it" and then just starts touching. Then she like stumbles off the chair and grabs my hair to make sure she doesn't fall.. like wtf? I get pretty visibly upset when people physically hurt me, so I tell her that she's being a creep and weird and that I'm leaving.
So now fast forward to this morning, one of our mutual friends asks me "why were you so mean to [redacted]?" I started explaining what happened and she defends her of course. She says that she was drunk and that I shouldn't take it seriously. I'm running out of space so tl;dr the girls are saying that I was being rude and inconsiderate because I was dismissive towards a girl I had never met that just randomly touched me and pulled my hair. They pulled the "bitter single male" card on me because I said that a man that did this to a woman would be thrown out of the bar, so now I'm actually pretty upset. Do you think I'm unreasonable for calling her a creep? Honestly I think I did pretty good. I am not used to physical pain so I usually have worse reactions if someone does something like pull my hair.
So now fast forward to this morning, one of our mutual friends asks me "why were you so mean to [redacted]?" I started explaining what happened and she defends her of course. She says that she was drunk and that I shouldn't take it seriously. I'm running out of space so tl;dr the girls are saying that I was being rude and inconsiderate because I was dismissive towards a girl I had never met that just randomly touched me and pulled my hair. They pulled the "bitter single male" card on me because I said that a man that did this to a woman would be thrown out of the bar, so now I'm actually pretty upset. Do you think I'm unreasonable for calling her a creep? Honestly I think I did pretty good. I am not used to physical pain so I usually have worse reactions if someone does something like pull my hair.
