Am I just being a jealous prick?

[Anonymous]

LONG POST

Basically the situation is this. My girlfriend met this one guy like a year back, at school, she did a group project with him. She talked about how much they have in common. But honestly the things he did and said sounded like he wanted more than being friends, you know?
So that happened. A years passed and I never heard of him again. Until now.
My girlfriend is gonna go to a dorm room at her university and wants to live with 2 more friends so it's cheaper divided by the 3. And she says that she wants that guy, that she talked about a year ago, to go love with her and another friend. Plus that she's been in contact with him for all this time, while I know all her other friends, she never mentioned him. So, I feel like a real jealous prick for not feeling good about them loving together :/. What do you think?

Jealous prick

Or nah, it's normal to feel this way

[lovelyhoneybones]

I don't blame you. Sometimes the other party keeps secrets in relationships. It's fucked up, but you can't control how other people feel.

[Asker]

Yeah but I have full trust in my girlfriend... I Just don't trust the guy you know? Then again my girlfriend seems really happy, last thing she said a year back was "we have so much in common" but I know she means it in a friendly way, I'm sure if the guy would be making subtle moves on her she wouldn't notice and think he's being friendly :x what do you think? Am I overthinking it? I talked to her about it and she says she wants nothing to do with him. And she doesn't understand I'm not worried about her... Its more about him

[lovelyhoneybones]

The thing is, is something happens between them, both parties will have a roll. I don't know much about their relationships, so I can't really say what his intentions might be.

[Asker]

Yeah that's the thing... It just seems like she didn't want me to know anything about him or that she was in contact with him for all this time. She knows if there's something I don't like. Is people who hide stuff and lie. But yeah let's say both parties just wanna be friends. And I didn't know about it would that make me a jealous prick for not liking that shell. Be living with him? I'm sorry I'm. I'm being repetitive

[lovelyhoneybones]

If she's been hiding it, there has to be something there. You don't hide something that is innocent.

[Asker]

Yeah but then again do you yell your boyfriend every single person you talk to? That's what I'm saying. Maybe it's that's situation and I'm just a really bad boyfriend haha

[lovelyhoneybones]

Of course not, but if I'm hiding someone from him it's because I don't want him to know about them due to the relationship that we have.

[Asker]

Yeah but to be fair I didn't remember to ask "hey by the way have you been talking to that guy you did a group project with lately?" lmao

[lovelyhoneybones]

If you're just going to make excuses, why even ask the question?

[Asker]

It was a joke :/ sorry... Thanks for the answer and sorry for wasting your time...

[lovelyhoneybones]

You're fine. I was just curious. Most people make excuses when they fear the worse.

[Asker]

Oh no no lol I really just was making a joke as in "yeah it didn't occur to make such a specific question" haha but yeah thanks for you opinion. Maybe I'm not the worst boyfriend in existence haha

[lovelyhoneybones]

I just hope everything turns out alright.

[Asker]

Oh yeah I'm sure It will. If things go south. I'll move on as we all do and find someone thats a match hehe :p thanks. I'm definitely following you! Very interesting opinions

[lovelyhoneybones]

Thank you and best of luck to ya!

[Asker]

Thanks :D