Where is your second home?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Isn’t it beautiful?

I am a very lucky person, I have found home in places I never thought I’d do.

For the past 5 years almost, this place was my 2nd home, I lived and loved here, every corner in this huge city carries a memory for me.

I am soon leaving and going to even bigger and busier place to make a new home there. Very close to where I live now.

I will miss my old place though. It was so perfectly balanced with nature, culture, history and the modern world. But what makes me happy is that, I’ll finally leave my past in the past, I’ll walk in new streets and will make new memories without being reminisced of old distant memories about each part of the world.

Updates

9 mo

Just a note - I am not sure why I added “about each part of the world”. Cut it out.

[Unit1]

I'm looking forward to make Thailand my 2. nd home.

The beautiful transparent beaches.

The real possibility to live in a business class home for low cost.

Speaking of low cost - i can feel rich there being a digital nomad and an investor and live a lucrative lifestyle.

Easy girls (or so I hope). I love girls and I love easy girls. And I love having fun with girls. Give me girls! Girls, girls, girls!

And the exquisite restaurant-grade dishes for low cost!

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I can't get rich quick enough and go there already.

[Lliam]

Wow, those photos are lovely. Thanks for sharing them. What an exotic locale and lifestyle. Absolutely gorgeous. I want to visit. :-)

No, I don't have a second home. I grew up near the ocean in Los Angeles County, California. I knew SoCal like the back of my hand and really liked it. But when I was 46, my wife and I moved to a rural area in northern California. Our house is on 30 acres with a view. We really like it.

[petitedollbabee]

It used to be the hospital.. not in the literal sense of it being a “home”, but I was in hospital 1-2 days a week, every week, every month for a year and a half.
As for an actual second home, oh how it would be nice to be wealthy enough to afford that, lol.

[Cynicaldreamer]

My job, aka, the hospital :|

People joke about their job being a second home, but when you're there 8-9 hours a day, 5 days a week, work closely with people, and have a routine there? Yeah, it's a home (unfortunately). Feel like I live there sometimes, lol

[OlderAndWiser]

My fiancée is from Fuzhou but she never visited Suzhou. Are you moving to another city in China?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Moving to the Shanghai center.

I know Fuzhou 😇 That’s where my ex fiance went after out break up and he still resides there. It’s a beautiful city.

[OlderAndWiser]

She left China in 1992. From everything I read, and what she tells me, it has changed drastically in the past 30 years!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yep, it has, now Suzhou and Shanghai are connected with a Subway line, you can get in Shanghai in just 10-15 minutes with train. Suzhou has become a part of Greater Shanghai. To be honest, I feel like Suzhou is so much more cooler than Shanghai.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

It has changed a lot, my ex fiance used to take me to modern places, and he would tell me, “Look, when I was 10, there was nothing.” And yet it is quite modern now, it’s very comfortable to live here.

In a list of richest cities of China, Suzhou ranks after Hong Kong. Shanghai is the first one.

I love Suzhou more though.

[OlderAndWiser]

She will be travelling back to visit Fuzhou in the fall. Her father is 94 years old and this will probably be the last time she sees him. She has siblings in China who will come to the US for our wedding next year.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I would love to know about her impressions, as Fuzhou feels close to me.

I think she will love it. I’ve heard there are many successful international companies having their head offices in Fuzhou. I also have seen some landscapes and it’s beautiful. She should also visit Suzhou💖

[OlderAndWiser]

I will relay your comments to her.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Well, speaking literally I have several, my favorite being the summer home on the Garda lake.

Speaking spiritually I'd say it's the island my mother's family comes from, Corsica. I'm looking forward to purchase a home there.

[menina]

It's beautiful. 🥰🥰🥰

As for me, I don't have a first home, so I can't have a second one. I'm still looking for it...

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I hope you’ll find it soon 😇

[menina]

Thank you, I hope so. 😊

[SnowedIn]

The Connecticut and Rhode Island shoreline in the United States.

[SnowedIn]

I should add that I don't literally have a second home there but if you asked me where my heart is, it's there.

[EmyyWolf]

Peru / Ecuador

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[Christoff92]

A beautiful beach shore line such places that are very similar to Bali, Indonesia 😀

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yep, I can relate. Had the best time in Bali and people are so sweet and nice you’ll easily feel home.

Which beach was your favorite?

[Christoff92]

Kuta Beach

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Mine as well!

[AviatorTom]

My second home is in my mind. I can only afford one home.

[Meropatrick]

You sound like a person at peace with living in that place. Thats really great! I know this feeling and i lived it too. Its amazing when you fit in a new place and it feels like the missing piece of the puzzle in your heart is finally complete. Good for you

[lightbulb27]

is that thailand?

We'd like to find one but can't pin down to one place.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

China

[justabuddy]

Beautiful, but I feel like I'm watching a Disney movie with that music. :)

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

My life is a bit like a Disney Movie haha

[justabuddy]

I don't think I have a second home. I need to see that place with my own eyes tho. One of these years.

[justabuddy]

So are you allowed to jump in the water?

[justabuddy]

And a formal request for a similar video at night... as long as it's safe.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t live in that part of the city, I live at the modern part of the city like the last pic.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

And yep it’s very safe here in China

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

But I don’t jump there in water. I am used to hopping in the fresh clean streams of Georgia and a Black sea, not Chinese rivers or lakes.

[justabuddy]

I was just curious... cause that one boat is rocking pretty good.

[KrakenAttackin]

@lafemmefatale_1. Clearly.

[LiamJHayden]

Literally, in Costa Mesa.

Figuratively, Coast of Portugal.

[GreatBigCircles]

Happy you're able to afford a life that lets you enjoy so much of the world. It looks gorgeous.

[exitseven]

It is on an island.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I only have one home I visit many places but I have just one home

[Anonymous]

Ireland. We have a holiday home we rent out

[gothbxtch]

literally, dad’s apartment. figuratively, hot topic and also anywhere i’m with the people i love!

[Jersey2]

Is this Suzhou? I have been there and liked it. I have moved around the US and haven’t had a bad place to live although some were more appealing than others due to weather.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

My second home is sitting in a beach chair at the beach.

[DryGermanGuy]

The Spanish (Gran Canaria) or Portuguese islands (Madeira) do quite well for me. :-)

[magiusX26]

you do realize this makes you look bouji and entitled i hope. seeing as many people do not have a 1st home much less a 2nd or more.