What’s a piece of advice you’d like to share with everyone?

[gothbxtch]

[Sonorous]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Rd2LCMSFrXI

When you find yourself traversing the challenging terrain of a unique difficulty, one that sets you apart from those around you, remember, do not to get so worked up about being misunderstood. Such emotions are only natural. We humans tend to be inherently self-centered in our thoughts & actions & empathy is not always abundant in our nature.

If others exhibit unfavorable behavior or utter less-than-supportive words, recall that these individuals who have achieved this certain "higher success" often seek to rationalize their accomplishments. So, acknowledging the role of genetic or environmental luck might not be on their agenda.

Know that such conduct stems from an unhealthy ego, seeking to establish a dichotomy that provides them with a sense of purpose or superiority. It validates their map of reality. They no longer have to be startled by the thought of being wrong if they never acknowledge it in the first place.

So, especially when in a close relationship, bear in mind that this is an issue of self-extrapolation. Their perception of the world forces them to perceive you and your troubles through a lens colored & tinted by their own life experience. We all struggle with this to some degree. Which is why it is better to have a certain amount of empathy for these types as well. Because they often do not understand just how wrong they are. Non of us are exempt from falling prey to comforting delusions.

However, resist succumbing to the impact of their words, behavior, &/or actions. Instead, direct your focus towards more constructive pursuits and approach problem-solving with the utmost practicality. By doing so, it will help you navigate your obstacles more easily. Because when the mind is focused on what actually matters most, step by step, taking one small but constructive adjustment at a time, you'd be surprised by how quickly it can sift out the dirt.

[ohsheeT]

Take a day and write down on a piece of paper everything you like about yourself everything you don't like about yourself the 100% honest no matter what no matter how painful you have to be honest

And when you're finished ask yourself can you unconditionally love yourself if the answers yes

Then ask yourself can you unconditionally love everybody else in this world if the answers yes

Ask yourself can you become one with yourself one with others one with the universe

If the answer is yes then start living that way

The first time somebody is tries to create a problem for you or all of a sudden there's a problem in front of you ask yourself how are you going to deal with it is it really that big of a deal that you have to change your demeanor or your attitude

If the answer is no then become who You are always try to stay as that same person be in that steady flow of self do not allow other people to disrupt your flow of energy and who you are no matter what they try to do stop think about it breathe and deal with it in a calm manner

Love is very powerful

Sometimes choices are even more powerful make the right choices for yourself do not allow others to step into your life your world your bubble and by the things that they say and do allow them to make choices for you do not let that happen always make your own choices always stay calm you will change the world and yourself

[mandyfire98]

Don't ever feel the need to give all of yourself to others. Your time and mental health matter more.

Also take mental health days for yourself.

Focus on yourself first. Other people will always add to your plate and if you aren't where you need to be mentally then you shouldn't deal with other people's shit.

If you enjoy something and it's legal and everyone is consenting then Don't let people guilt you for liking it. Just because someone else doesn't agree with you doesn't mean you're wrong for liking it.

[CrimsonAngel09]

"What a job, poker. Ask anyone on the street and they'll say it's a game of chance. Or talk talk to Sam here, and he'll say it's about bluffing. But it's not, is it? It's about keeping you playing until the house collects."

[SnowedIn]

Smile and greet people. Even if you don't know them. And especially service people: the person collecting shopping carts at the grocery store or the trash collectors.

A smile and "good morning" "good afternoon" can make or break somebody's day/week.

[exitseven]

You don't need your brain as much as you think you do but you can't get too far without a liver.

[AviatorTom]

You can't change others, but you can change yourself.

[jennifer_bloom]

I had a dream telling me that for religious people who follow the bible, you can prosper by living by two additional rules

1 - Do not judge others

2 - Do not control others

[Christoff92]

Stop with the damn Stereotyping. I mean when it comes to age, race, religion, and gender 😊

[Berethor]

You can trust only steel. 😌

https://www.youtube.com/embed/MKMG-FdCGtM

[DerekC321]

Don't let your pain control you and make you all that you are.

[RyanK9b]

Enjoy but don't waste your teenage years. They're short and the best years.

Educate yourself, take school seriously. Everything depends on it.

Start with change early and don't wait to long. Chances fade away

[najekim]

Believe in yourself first and foremost. Everything else is subjective.

[Agape93]

Learn to. handle things yourself because often times, others will let you down.

[rm_llort]

If it smells and tastes sweet, its probably not anti-freeze. Someone has probably put gatorade in that bottle.

[collie22]

Do things the right way

[joeND]

save 10% for retiiremnt

[Anonymous]

Don't be a sjw, be red pilled and based

[gothbxtch]

oh god lmao