Are you an overthinker?

[MementoMori777]

I can be when it comes to certain things and other nope

[Sonorous]

Only about things I cannot & likely never will be able to provide an accurate answer to. If we're using the term playfully of course. I say that because I don't believe we can really ever know if anyone is overthinking. We'd need to have superhuman abilities & be able to predict future outcomes with 100% accuracy to truly know it.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm an overthinker and if I feel physical pain in my body I think the worst right away, and it's scary. I get panic for the least pain I feel. I got mental health and physical health illnesses.

[MementoMori777]

Yea then you look it up and go like "damn I got cancer 😦"

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@mementomori777 Exactly

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[midnightmoon05]

No, I don't like to dwell on things. I don't think much, if I need to, I think fast. Once I made a decision, I act on it. It has serve me well. Some who know me well, wish to have my brain. My older brother thinks I am too ambitious/fast for what I do/decide on.

[MementoMori777]

That is a good feature, you do got a good brain, it seems much more simple and let's you live lol

[midnightmoon05]

Indeed... I live simple. Life is not that complicated. Even with the complicated situations... such as a court order lol... I decided to not go. The judge almost cried when she saw me enter after months of not showing up. I told her straight up that divorce court doesn't help the well beings of the children that's why I didn't go... either way... I decided to not take any alimony or child support. I raised the kids and kinda use my strategies to get my ex. hubby to "grow up" to raise kids... so kinda did it outside of the court/socialty way.
I hate when people complicate things/life.

[MementoMori777]

Interesting information to know midnight, I hope it never comes to it but it can be useful lol

[midnightmoon05]

In my mind, nothing is complicated... peopole create complexity to their life then get stuck and not being able to think outside the box.
So its not about my situation... but any giving issue... there are solutions. :)

[MementoMori777]

Must be nice having such a simple thought in life lol

[midnightmoon05]

Indeed! Enjoy it while it last. Life passes by at a blink of an eye…. something like that.

[MementoMori777]

Yep I'm aware of that lol

[VIVANT]

I’m going to need a working definition for this question, or, according to you what are you referring to when you use the term “over thinker”

genuine Q. And please don’t answer the question with your question I e over thinking is when “thinks too much” 😂 🙏🏼

[MementoMori777]

Yea don't worry Vivant, this question has no secret indirect meaning behind it 😂

I mean someone that thinks many things to something that can be simple 😌

[comekitty]

Whooooooo me? 🤔🤔🤔🤔

~ Not at all...*...*. 🤣😂🤣😂

..*...***...*. More like ALWAYS 😁

[MementoMori777]

Kitty you do give ocerthinker vibes indeed 🤣

[comekitty]

🤣😂

[wishiwasfiction]

Yes I really do, it brings me some problems at times

[MementoMori777]

Yea I think that's the main problem of overthinking, mostly if you are a confrontational person

[NathanDavis]

yes, but I managed and learned to not be disrupted by it...

part of my mild OCD tendencies...

[MementoMori777]

So you just let thoughts be thoughts? Lol

[NathanDavis]

yes... intrusive thoughts are just intrusive thoughts

which is part of why I grew up listening to music all the time, day and night

[MementoMori777]

So how do you know the difference between a intrusive thought and a potential red flag thought for example

[NathanDavis]

well, I used to have two kinds of these (as a young kid and teen) and they were either related to depression/anxiety stress... or OCD tendencies and fixations

with the depressive ones a cause to concern was when I felt affected for "no actual" reason, and nothing "that bad" was really happening and yet I'd disassociate or disconnect from things and people too

isolating myself was always a red flag, the thought of "not really mind it" was the problematic one

I was always really okay with disappearing, regardless of consequences... so, it took me quite some to learn to not being okay when I felt completely okay about something so bad, lol...

[MementoMori777]

Interesting, somewhat confusing but indeed interesting lol

[NathanDavis]

yes... got me a bit puzzled for about 8 years of my childhood, lmao...

[MementoMori777]

Damn it sounds complicated but hopefully by ignoring the thoughts, it goes away lol

[sheenagwapa]

yes i am that's why i hate people who expect me to read their minds and then get maf. my mind can think of different scenarios in one let's say issue

[MementoMori777]

Fair point Sheena 🤣

[Hinaaaaa]

😑yes...& Overthinking's byproduct is always True lol

[MementoMori777]

Wdym 😂

[Hinaaaaa]

I mean whatever I think... it always comes true

[MementoMori777]

Fair enough lol

[midnightmoon05]

Seriously? That’s one crazy mind!

[Hinaaaaa]

@midnightmoon05 😑looking the situation from every angle... like a detective

[Mamaliv]

100% over thinker. I swear my brain never shuts up.

[MementoMori777]

Yep, damn brains gotta be all brainy all the time lol

[___Clara___]

Sometimes yes. But in general I don't like to think too much. And I don't think too much. I can deal with it.

[MementoMori777]

Clara's brain only functions when it's gotta function? 🤣

[___Clara___]

Yes that is right. I don't like to tire my brain with nonsense. lol Inner peace is important to me...

[MementoMori777]

I agree with you Clara, important and healthy, from this I can tell you are a very laid back person 😆

[___Clara___]

Thank you for your thoughts and for agreeing with my thoughts. :D

[MementoMori777]

No problem Clara, have a blessed day 🤣💯

[___Clara___]

I hope you have a blessed day too... Have a good day :D

[MementoMori777]

Thank you Clara 😁💯

[LostandFound__x]

Yes I have an anxiety disorder lol but I manage it.

[MementoMori777]

At least you learned to control it ha

[LostandFound__x]

Yup :)

[Chevy1_kb]

with certain things its a Pisces thing to we are over thinkers because we are nervous but yes i do in some subjects

[dancingdoritos7]

I’m a huge over-thinker. Sometimes if I accidentally say something weird, it’ll be stuck in my mind for the next 4 days until I realize it wasn’t that bad.

[MementoMori777]

What if you realize it was as bad as you thought? 😂

[LiamJHayden]

Hmmmm. I'll need to get back to you on this.

[MementoMori777]

Fair enough lol

[Lyndsielee666]

I’m gonna lie and say I’m not ☺️

[MementoMori777]

At least I know you aren't a liar, well not a very good one Lyndsie 😂

[Lyndsielee666]

I’ll overthink myself into a god damn hole ngl.

[MementoMori777]

Thats what overthinking is, its a drill 😂

[Lyndsielee666]

It needs a reverse setting 😂

[MementoMori777]

Imagine how comfortable that would be lol

[Annie_LevelUP_ADC]

More like an over analyzer at times.

[MementoMori777]

Please explain Annie on wym? 🤔

[Annie_LevelUP_ADC]

I'm not an overthinker and stress myself out over endless possibilities without any confirmation. But if something interests me I can go in on that subject and research everything for days or weeks without a break.

[MementoMori777]

That's quite a feature Annie, a good one actually, you can never be too informed on something you are interested in, I respect your high levels of focus and dedication. 🙂💯

[Annie_LevelUP_ADC]

It's not always the right cause.

[MementoMori777]

Oof 😂

[exitseven]

Nope, i keep things simple.

[MementoMori777]

Fair enough lol

[Mynameisbobby]

I am sometimes I can't shut my brain off

[MementoMori777]

Brains just being brains I guess lol

[gothbxtch]

oh definitely yeah

[MementoMori777]

Lol.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, but who isn't?

[MementoMori777]

That's a good question, I'm sure everyone does at one point

[Dnice1]

Yup from time to time

[MementoMori777]

I see, how you've been repunzel? 👍? 👎?

[Dnice1]

I'm good 😊
Still waiting to hear back though 😩

[MementoMori777]

That's good, a happy repunzel is good, but I heard sometimes it can take very long for them to say something 🙂

[Dnice1]

True it can take a while
How are you mento? 😊

[MementoMori777]

Im alright repunzel, one step at a time you know, same as you 🤣

[Dnice1]

That's good mento 😊
That's just how you gotta do things one step at a time 👍

[MementoMori777]

Indeed Repunzel, it's always nice catching up with you, I hope life is treating you well 😁💯

[Anonymous]

Very much an over thinker. Usually I’m right tho

[MementoMori777]

Cocky little anon, but it's good your gut instinct hasn't let you down and you follow it 🤣💯

[BLP11520]

Definitely am that

[MementoMori777]

I wonder if it's just a human thing lol

[Wonderingguyy]

An EXTREME over thinker!

[angieeeeee]

No but I feel like I should sometimes

[MementoMori777]

That is a unsettling statement Angie lol

[angieeeeee]

Oh lmao

[MementoMori777]

I'm just saying cause it means you picked up on stuff you feel like you should be worried about lol

[Pinay_ako]

Yes 🙌. I hate it

[MementoMori777]

Pako you are an interesting mix of qualities and traits 😆

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 hell ye. I overthink too much, my brain hurts

[MementoMori777]

Well if brain massages existed, I'm sure you'd have a cerebral massage membership ha

[SnowedIn]

Very often, yes.

[MementoMori777]

Felt that lol

[DaBiggestBird]

No, I think very much though, it’s entertaining.

[hiyamotherfers]

Yeah I can be

[MementoMori777]

Yep some situations give stronger urges than others lol

[WhitneySnow]

Sometimes

[Simslover92]

Yep I totally am.

[Jmmmfi4]

Very much so

[MementoMori777]

Lol.