I’m a waitress and a female customer with her boyfriend was starting to get angry at me for speaking with her boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I live in the states but I’m not from here originally and English isn’t my mother language.

I am a waitress. A couple came into the restaurant. The man was from my home country ( I could tell by his name). We started to speak to eachother in our language. The woman wasn’t from our home country and couldn’t understand.

Throughout the night we’d speak to eachother in our own language, like if I came to the table, when he paid the bill etc. The woman started to look really angry, and I think it may have annoyed her. I spoke to her a little and tried to be nice but it was mostly the man I was speaking to in our language.

Was I wrong to do this?

[Levin]

I think you were just being polite.

She should have been angry with her boyfriend. Why would he consciously exclude his girlfriend from conversation? The guy seems pretty dumb to me...

[Anonymous]

I swear there was a post made by another girl on here in the past 3 days where she asked If she was overreacting about her boyfriend talking to their waitress in their own language. I wonder if that girl was talking about you.

[DryGermanGuy]

Which makes me think this is a fake post, by the exact same person.

[Opinion Owner]

@DryGermanGuy I found the original post and I'm thinking the same as you, that this is a fake post especially since both girls have the exact same age as well.

A waitress was speaking to my boyfriend in a foreign language, it was quite irritating? - GirlsAskGuys
A waitress was speaking to my boyfriend in a foreign language, it was quite irritating? ↗

[DryGermanGuy]

Exactly, the age was the first thing I noticed.

[Dargil]

It's insecurity, jealousy and lack of trust. Not your problem.

[In_Trance]

would you want another woman to do that to your boyfriend while you sit there?

[Brady]

nope