Is it nasty for my roommate to sit at the kitchen table without a shirt on?

[Kingofkings1992]

I denounced him for doing this. That is common area we all use, and we eat there. I’m not having it

Yes

No

A total of 16 votes were cast: 5 girls and 11 guys. See detailed results

[Sonorous]

Dayum does his body must look disgusting or something? 🤣

I don't think it's nasty unless something nasty is happening. It could just be that you feel uncomfortable seeing skin on men? Would you feel this way if he was a girl with no shirt on?

[Kingofkings1992]

No. I am not uncomfortable seeing men without their shirt on. Lmao. It has to do with it being where we eat.

[Sonorous]

I think you've gotta train your brain to not be so disgust sensitive towards things that aren't disgusting. Unless ofc his body just loos disgusting. Then I'd understand. 👌

[Kingofkings1992]

His body has nothing to do with it. Good grief 🤦‍♂️

[Sonorous]

Wait what? If his body doesn't have anything to do with it then why do you want him to wear a shirt?

[Kingofkings1992]

Because it’s unsanitary and disrespectful

[Sonorous]

How is it unsanitary? He's not rubbing filth everywhere is he? Sounds to me like mates just tryna relax without a shirt in the comfort of his own home!

[Kingofkings1992]

That’s where you’re wrong. It’s not his own home

[Sonorous]

I mean, ya are sharing it so it's his just as much as it is yours? Iono your situation man

[artgorgeous]

When i was a student and I with my roommates had a hangover, one of them puked into the shoes of the other one guy. And we smoked weed. This is what was considered nasty like 15 years ago. And we had a common toilet without doors and some guys smoked cigarettes there while taking shit, just to kill the smell of the shit. You could literally go to take a pee and see the other guy taking shit. Once we were drunk, so we threw a small fridge from the 9th floor. Was fun. Ukraine, mid 2000s. So your situation is pretty ok.

[HelpfulWoman]

i mean, do you not clean it? and it's only a shirtless, not like he's rubbing bare balls or rolling his dick around on the surface?

[Miah05]

I wouldn't say Nasty.

But it bothers you, and crosses your boundaries, it's an issue. y'all should discuss

[JustinTheGreat]

If it was his bare ass then yeah it would be nasty. But he’s just shirtless lol. Just wipe the table down, I don’t see the big deal

[Anonymous]

You act like he’s committed some crime and sound very uptight. He’s shirtless it’s not a big deal. My roommate and I usually wear a bra and shorts/underwear in the common areas of our house

[Juxtapose]

Are you worried about his chest hair getting in your food or something? What the hell is wrong with you?

[Kingofkings1992]

What the hell is wrong with you and him? Suppose you think there’s nothing wrong with grocery shopping or dining out without a shirt on? What Neanderthal does shit like that?

[Juxtapose]

I go without my shirt all the time unless an establishment requires me to wear it like a grocery store and whatnot. If it's 66 F, it's too hot for shirts.

[Juxtapose]

*66 F+

[Kingofkings1992]

At the beach/pool, it’s fine. In your private room, it’s fine. Not at the kitchen table. Have some decency and respect.

[Juxtapose]

Nah I eat without my shirt all the time. People have these weird rules that are not based in logic so why should I respect them? If you can't give me a good reason for doing something then.. 🤷

[Kingofkings1992]

Again, if you’re eating in your own room, or you live alone it’s fine. In a common area where multiple people eat, it’s very disrespectful. Don’t understand how you don’t see that.

[Anonymous]

Why? Does he stink the room?